Indian Guy, PRC Girl
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Originally posted by Nikar7:
TS can take all the PRC chicks he want......just leave local SG chicks alone.
Yeah well said.
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To TS.
You are reading too much into this relationship. It is only the beginning. All you know about her is that she is beautiful, and someone you can talk for '7 hours' straight.
But how much do you really about her? Her family, her likes, dislikes, reactions to particular situations, etc, etch. In truth, you know nothing, just as clueless as I am now with regards to who and what she is.
All you see is a desirable lady that fits your imagination and eyesight. Is that true love? Are you willing to change for her, no matter what she really is, and do you think you can change her, into what you really want her to be?
I am afraid the answer is no. Not because I, a nobody doubt your capability or capacity to love, but rather, because you do not know her enough to look forward to a long term committment plan.
Most couples make that simple mistake of rushing into a relationship, and most end up with pain, some on both sides. There is more to love than literally sees the eyes. If you don't understand what I am writing, then be prepared for pain that will only eventually come, when you sink too much of yourself, your efforts and emotions into the relationship. This is when love becomes hate.
Best just be yourself, hide nothing, and seek for friendship instead. Give yourself more time to know her, dating her only when both of you are mutually free or it will only be forced upon, and hated by either one party.
Let her see you for what and who you really are, or whom you aspire to be, which will be something you can't hide forever, just as you will see her over time who and what she really is.
Only then can you decide to move to the next level. Better to be sure, even if you will lose her in the meantime, than to be sorry later. Do not end up as another national divorce statistic.
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xtreyier you are reading way too much in this episode too. Up to divorce, wow that way too far.
Jojo is more closer to the truth, with her ego trip point.
TS is elated by the fact its a PRC girl. If it was an Indian girl, would he be in a quandry? Remember the title: Indian Guy, PRC Girl. There is a hint of a boast there. But there is also an underlying fear in the following posts.
This is another case where the Girl come out with tops marks, and the Boy has rubber legs.
TS has to take it easy, and just be at his best.
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Originally posted by mancha:
xtreyier you are reading way too much in this episode too. Up to divorce, wow that way too far.
Jojo is more closer to the truth, with her ego trip point.
TS is elated by the fact its a PRC girl. If it was an Indian girl, would he be in a quandry? Remember the title: Indian Guy, PRC Girl. There is a hint of a boast there. But there is also an underlying fear in the following posts.
This is another case where the Girl come out with tops marks, and the Boy has rubber legs.
TS has to take it easy, and just be at his best.
Please keep your limited vision, overwhelming pettiness and your pathetic implied racist hints to yourself. This country has no place for the likes of you. It's people like you that makes me wonder why I should contribute to my country and not leave on the next flight.
What are you actually implying about 'boast' here? That it is a big deal for an indian to fall in love or get into a relationship with a chinese? Who's the one with the big ego now?
Heck, we all are one race - the human race - bleed the same and no different with each other at the very basic level where it counts the most! What the F*K are you drivelling at, petty guy?
They are just 2 humans discovering each other, and sought views respectfully from others. Why denigrate them or put them down with such insults? AA is volunteerily done, if you don't like what is said, you need not be here at all. Go Speakers corners if you need to rant or put others down.
Fortunately there are many others whom are not as myopic or racist as you are, and make the stay and efforts to remain worthwhile. You are just a burden we, as a society, must bear then till you and your kind die out in a natural death one day.
PS: Normally, I would not comment on others' view and I would have let your remarks slide, for I am not here to argue with you, only to offer help and insights to TS and TS alone or others reading this thread whom are caught in such dllemmas,
but seeing you and your kinds' personal petty prejudice and racism, espacially as we as a society had vowed under personal oaths, I had no choice but to react to you. We Chinese, espacially our forefathers, know what it is like to be racially discriminated against, by cowardly Brits and brutual Japs, and hell if we ever want it to be seen repeated, worse if comming from ourselves.
Have fun digging your own grave, Mancha.
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Originally posted by xtreyier:
Please keep your limited vision, overwhelming pettiness and your pathetic implied racist hints to yourself. This country has no place for the likes of you. It's people like you that makes me wonder why I should contribute to my country and not leave on the next flight.
What are you actually implying about 'boast' here? That it is a big deal for an indian to fall in love or get into a relationship with a chinese? Who's the one with the big ego now?
Heck, we all are one race - the human race - bleed the same and no different with each other at the very basic level where it counts the most! What the F*K are you drivelling at, petty guy?
They are just 2 humans discovering each other, and sought views respectfully from others. Why denigrate them or put them down with such insults? AA is volunteerily done, if you don't like what is said, you need not be here at all. Go Speakers corners if you need to rant or put others down.
Fortunately there are many others whom are not as myopic or racist as you are, and make the stay and efforts to remain worthwhile. You are just a burden we, as a society, must bear then till you and your kind die out in a natural death one day.
PS: Normally, I would not comment on others' view and I would have let your remarks slide, for I am not here to argue with you, only to offer help and insights to TS and TS alone or others reading this thread whom are caught in such dllemmas,
but seeing you and your kinds' personal petty prejudice and racism, espacially as we as a society had vowed under personal oaths, I had no choice but to react to you. We Chinese, espacially our forefathers, know what it is like to be racially discriminated against, by cowardly Brits and brutual Japs, and hell if we ever want it to be seen repeated, worse if comming from ourselves.
Have fun digging your own grave, Mancha.
Ha ha ha!
You finally faltered.
Anyone reading you post above, against the context of my post, will now know that you are sick.
You have been pretending to be broad-minded all along.
Perhaps Atobe caused your facade to give.
Pretender.
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Thanks for the responses...
I went out with her again a few days ago.. and we just met for drinks and talked for a bit... we planned to meet again the day after and to go for some fun sporty stuff next weekend...
but she smsed me the next day and said she was unwell and had to cancel our date that day. I called later but she didnt pick up.. then i smsed her asking he rhow she was feeling and telling her to call back when she could talk.. that was 2 days ago.
:(
whats going on here?
...im thinking ill wait for two more days and drop her a 'final' message asking her if everything is ok since she hasnt called.
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U can sms her, call her, whether she reverts back or not - it's her prerogative,
What's happening here is u are anxious to form a relatinship lar. Why? I surmise insecurity one your part.
One who allows another to be is simply loving, and also cos love simply is
Muse over this:
An astrologer was walking at night, studying the stars and by the roadside there was a hole and he accidentally fell into it.
The sound of his falling n crying awoke an old woman who lived nearby. She helped him and n he was very pleased.
After thanking her, he told her that he was a royal astrologer - that his fees was high, that even kings/ queens had to wait for months to see him n conluded by adding that he would predict her future for no fee.
The old woman laughed n said - You cannot see even two feet ahead - how you can see my future?
This is the madness of today's living, what cannot appreciate what is in front, one cannot see what is - on is trapped in 'should be ... and ought to ... ie. one is caught in the duality of the mind's past/future
when it perocolates/permeates into our daily living - in marriages, in relationship(s) - the endless conflict - love completely relegated to the bottomless pit.
What one thinks is not what one is, the predicament in this instance to be love or lover!
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Originally posted by Short Ninja:
You are only pleasing yourself & one of the moderators here with such statements.Yes,she is about to cum now......................on your face!
yeah go eat your mother's shit. -
Is your dialect group telugu or?
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I dont see what "dialect group" has to do with this.. but.. I'm Punjabi - from North West India :)
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Originally posted by xtreyier:
Please keep your limited vision, overwhelming pettiness and your pathetic implied racist hints to yourself. This country has no place for the likes of you. It's people like you that makes me wonder why I should contribute to my country and not leave on the next flight.
What are you actually implying about 'boast' here? That it is a big deal for an indian to fall in love or get into a relationship with a chinese? Who's the one with the big ego now?
Heck, we all are one race - the human race - bleed the same and no different with each other at the very basic level where it counts the most! What the F*K are you drivelling at, petty guy?
They are just 2 humans discovering each other, and sought views respectfully from others. Why denigrate them or put them down with such insults? AA is volunteerily done, if you don't like what is said, you need not be here at all. Go Speakers corners if you need to rant or put others down.
Fortunately there are many others whom are not as myopic or racist as you are, and make the stay and efforts to remain worthwhile. You are just a burden we, as a society, must bear then till you and your kind die out in a natural death one day.
PS: Normally, I would not comment on others' view and I would have let your remarks slide, for I am not here to argue with you, only to offer help and insights to TS and TS alone or others reading this thread whom are caught in such dllemmas,
but seeing you and your kinds' personal petty prejudice and racism, espacially as we as a society had vowed under personal oaths, I had no choice but to react to you. We Chinese, espacially our forefathers, know what it is like to be racially discriminated against, by cowardly Brits and brutual Japs, and hell if we ever want it to be seen repeated, worse if comming from ourselves.
Have fun digging your own grave, Mancha.
Too fake lah, all man/race equal blah. In our heart we know we like ppl with fairer skin sexually also. Even indian like chinese girl better also. Some girls special might like indian hairy,big and black for the "Wild" kick, but alot feel turn off also.
i know alot of ppl dun like blacks sexually, so dun talk as if u higher lvl of understanding. Only can show the more fake u are
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Originally posted by Hideinshadows:
Too fake lah, all man/race equal blah. In our heart we know we like ppl with fairer skin sexually also. Even indian like chinese girl better also. Some girls special might like indian hairy,big and black for the "Wild" kick, but alot feel turn off also.
i know alot of ppl dun like blacks sexually, so dun talk as if u higher lvl of understanding. Only can show the more fake u are
Anything else you might wish to add, to show everyone how deeply rooted your dinosaur relic narow mindedness racists views are? Education had been a waste of taxpayers money on you.Be glad you annonymous here. If ever you are unmasked in real life, many would shun you, the way HItler's legacies and the Ku Klax Klan are spate upon, by both whites and blacks.
Go on, dig your own hole deeper.
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Originally posted by xtreyier:
Anything else you might wish to add, to show everyone how deeply rooted your dinosaur relic narow mindedness racists views are? Education had been a waste of taxpayers money on you.
Be glad you annonymous here. If ever you are unmasked in real life, many would shun you, the way HItler's legacies and the Ku Klax Klan are spate upon, by both whites and blacks.
Go on, dig your own hole deeper.
ur education no use
u go geylang. indian girl $20, chinese prc $80. This is modern society
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Originally posted by Awesomeazing:
Thanks for the responses...
I went out with her again a few days ago.. and we just met for drinks and talked for a bit... we planned to meet again the day after and to go for some fun sporty stuff next weekend...
but she smsed me the next day and said she was unwell and had to cancel our date that day. I called later but she didnt pick up.. then i smsed her asking he rhow she was feeling and telling her to call back when she could talk.. that was 2 days ago.
:(
whats going on here?
...im thinking ill wait for two more days and drop her a 'final' message asking her if everything is ok since she hasnt called.
Well... some time along da way... ya gota decide if ya want to shit or ya gota get off the pot.
While you may be looking for a smooth airy ride, she may be looking for something else more grounded.
When a girl can't see where the road heading, she ain't gonna be yer driving companion fer long.
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the himalayas was the barrier between india and china, not anymore with improvement in technologies
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Sadly, the EGO has eclipsed all the heart wants and hankers for
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Originally posted by Fugazzi:
Sadly, the EGO has eclipsed all the heart wants and hankers for
That what happened to a lot of people who are still clueless why their relationship failed.
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Originally posted by Isignedupforthispost:
ur education no use
u go geylang. indian girl $20, chinese prc $80. This is modern society
There are indian girls in Geylang??? Whoa!! i thought they were sri lankans.
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Originally posted by Cyraxin:
There are indian girls in Geylang??? Whoa!! i thought they were sri lankans.
sri lankan and india are different...
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i think TS really think too much.
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Originally posted by Rednano:
u can typically bed a PRC china girl within 3 dates.Initially i do not believe it as my friend have known this beautiful, shy and good prc girl. They know each other for a few month(no sms, no phone talk etc) and within these few month only met face to face less than 5 times. First time, only get to know her, after one mth 2nd times go for movie and sneak. 3rd meeting in abt 5th month times, hold hand n head to the hotel( initial she don't mind abt no condom but my friend scare of hiv).