hey EMC2222, please dont feel that you have messed by your life. must always remember that there will be ups and downs in life. for your case, i believe that you have some minor problems with friendship handling. try to understand your friends more and talk to them if required. i know this is easier to be said than to be done, but if dont give it a try, you will never how useful it will turn out to be. but of course, you must be tactfull in handling this problem if not your friends will think that you are a weirdo once again.
on the issue that you feel that your friends are making use of you in group work or projects, i guess that you may want to come into an agreement on every team member's contribution during group work. but during most of the group projects, it will be inevitable for one momber to do more than the rest. this person will definitely gain more in terms of subject knowledge, project skills such as the crucial research skills (knowing how to and where to find resources during a project isnt an easy task, it requires experience and exposure) and maybe will improve your language etc etc. all these will prove to be very useful in your future studies (jc and universities) or even stretch to your future career.
i trust that you will be do better next time. cheers!
When one sows the seeds of discord - he/she is being divisive; (If u can,) observe, understand and accept the foibles in u and others and hopefully, (if u can) don't become that - cos it is the most unethical and ugly thing one can be and do to get ahead in life. One gets back what one sends out!
(If) u can be a little foolish to enjoy life n be a little wise to avoid the 'mistakes', that will DO
aiyo you are still so young! I remember my sister being very upset and crying about having no friends in her class and having the only person she hangs out with for recess and all, in the next class. She even wanted to change class. LOL. But now it doesn't matter anymore. You will end up changing five to ten different batches of friends at least before you end up getting married. All those losers of the past won't matter at all!
Don't make your life so miserable. Cheer up (:
Sometimes being loner isnt a bad thing. You can still prove to others that you can still succeed alone. Maybe you can even build ur confidence.
Grit your teeth and endure. You will be fine after you graduate... (:
Allow me this digression - Elton John's 'Sacrifice' resonates to the myriad predicament so many relationships (marriage included). Perhaps, being mature about it may go a long way.
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Cherish your good health and your family.
Just look at the people that have lost their family and home due to the heavy rain in Taiwan.
You are already very fortunate.