I want to say...
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We can define LOVE...
In the world of where love is concern,
If the feeling of one party is different from the other, this is actually a cruel fact to the other party.
One is still in the world of love, the other which is suffering in extreme pain and agony.
Perhaps everyone of us thinks that love can be determine through degrees of tolerance, kindness and happiness.
However have anyone ever thought that whether the other party would want this love from you?
Definitely, you can't stop one from liking or loving you. If one is willing to do so without wanting any repay back, that's his rights.
In other way you can't control one person not to love you nor show concern about you....
Very often in breakups, many excuses comes from reason when liking one initially.
In a real situation, one party will want a reason for it. Until the moment excuses is given, one would respond:
"Just for this reason, you wanted a breakup after so many years?
We have been together for so long, how do you expect me to give up so easily?"
Theortically, can love be one sided? giving out without taking it back?
Eventually, when two are in love, is it beacuse they are used to each other? or because they just couldn't let it go? or maybe they are really in love with each other?
Take this: The one who is being left behind might not be the one that is suffering; thus the one who wanted a break up might not be heartless.
We can't forced one to stay nor to leave in a love relationship.
Enjoy the day !!
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Infatuation is instant desire - one set of glands calling to another.
Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time.
Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager, but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.
Love is the quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you - to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by their presence, even when they are away. Miles do not separate you. You have so many wonderful little films in your head that you keep replaying. But near or far, you know they are yours, and you can wait.
Infatuation says, "We must get married right away. I can't risk losing them."
Love says, "Be patient. Don't panic. Plan your future with confidence."
Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. Whenever you are together, you hope it will end in intimacy.
Love is not based on sex. It is the maturation of friendship, which makes sex so much sweeter. You must be friends before you can be lovers.
Infatuation lacks confidence. When they're away, you wonder if they're cheating. Sometimes, you check.
Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. They feel your trust, and it makes them even more trustworthy.
Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret, but love never steers you in the wrong direction.
Love is an upper. It makes you feel whole. It completes the circle. It fills the empty space in your heart. Love is elevating. It lifts you up. It makes you look up. It makes you think up. It makes you a better person than you were before. If you have love in your life, it can make up for a great many things you don't have. If there is no love in your life, whatever else there is has a lot less meaning.
The secret of our being is not only to live but to have something to live for.
Thats my definition of love 
sorry if too long -
hi Angeline_01 are u in love?
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Heez why say so?Originally posted by J-reeee:hi Angeline_01 are u in love? -
I want to say........to angeline_01
Nan Desu Kah???? Watashi no understand. -
Love is never well defined.
Love to some is happiness, but to some tears.
Love to some is to give joy, but to some pain.
Love to some is of value, but to some burden.
Love to some brings forth life, but to some death.
Love to some brings harmony, but to some heartbreak.
What is love?
We will learn. -
Have something to ask? are most of you still studying or working?
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me waiting for my testimonial to come b4 applying for job
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i am retired personnel
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sounds like u r....Originally posted by Angeline_01:Heez why say so? -
Yap I am.Originally posted by duotiga83:sounds like u r.... -
gd.....treasure itOriginally posted by Angeline_01:Yap I am. 
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so many words eyes pain
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Originally posted by duotiga83:gd.....treasure it Thanks
How about you? -
i still single....Originally posted by Angeline_01: Thanks
How about you? -
Watch Da He Fu Zhi....Originally posted by Master -_-:Infatuation is instant desire - one set of glands calling to another.
Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time.
Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager, but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.
Love is the quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you - to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by their presence, even when they are away. Miles do not separate you. You have so many wonderful little films in your head that you keep replaying. But near or far, you know they are yours, and you can wait.
Infatuation says, "We must get married right away. I can't risk losing them."
Love says, "Be patient. Don't panic. Plan your future with confidence."
Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. Whenever you are together, you hope it will end in intimacy.
Love is not based on sex. It is the maturation of friendship, which makes sex so much sweeter. You must be friends before you can be lovers.
Infatuation lacks confidence. When they're away, you wonder if they're cheating. Sometimes, you check.
Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. They feel your trust, and it makes them even more trustworthy.
Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret, but love never steers you in the wrong direction.
Love is an upper. It makes you feel whole. It completes the circle. It fills the empty space in your heart. Love is elevating. It lifts you up. It makes you look up. It makes you think up. It makes you a better person than you were before. If you have love in your life, it can make up for a great many things you don't have. If there is no love in your life, whatever else there is has a lot less meaning.
The secret of our being is not only to live but to have something to live for.
Thats my definition of love sorry if too long -
Well, slowly, it's all fate.Originally posted by duotiga83:i still single.... 
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I don't know about defination of Love.
I guess this story speaks more about the act of Love rather then defining it.
You Can Do Anything
Many years ago, my dad was diagnosed with a terminal heart condition. He was
put on permanent disability and was unable to work at a steady job. He would be
fine for quite a while, but would then fall suddenly ill and have to be admitted
to the hospital.
He wanted to do something to keep himself busy, so he decided to volunteer at
the local children's hospital. My dad loved kids. It was the perfect job for
him. He ended up working with the terminally and critically ill children. He
would talk to them and play with them and do arts and crafts with them.
Sometimes, he would lose one of his kids. In certain instances, he would tell
the grieving parents of these children that he would soon be with their child in
heaven and that he would take care of them until they got there. He would also
ask the parent if there was a message they would like to send with him for their
child.
My dad's assurances seemed to help parents with their grieving. One of his kids
was a girl who had been admitted with a rare disease that paralyzed her from the
neck down. I don't know the name of the disease or what the prognosis usually
is, but I do know that it was very sad for a girl around eight or nine years
old. She couldn't do anything, and she was very depressed.
My dad decided to try to help her. He started visiting her in her room,
bringing paints, brushes and paper. He stood the paper up against a backing,
put the paintbrush in his mouth and began to paint. He didn't use his hands at
all. Only his head would move. He would visit her whenever he could and paint
for her. All the while he would tell her, "See, you can do anything you set
your mind to." Eventually, she began to paint using her mouth, and she and my
dad became friends. Soon after, the little girl was discharged because the
doctors felt there was nothing else they could do for her.
My dad also left the children's hospital for a little while because he became
ill. Sometime later after my dad had recovered and returned to work, he was at
the volunteer counter in the lobby of the hospital. He noticed the front doors
open. In came the little girl who had been paralyzed, only this time she was
walking.
She ran straight over to my dad and hugged him really tight. She gave my dad a
picture she had done using her hands. At the bottom it read, "Thank you for
helping me walk."
My dad would cry every time he told us this story and so would we. He would say
sometimes love is more powerful than doctors, and my dad - who died just a few
months after the little girl gave him the picture - loved every single child in
that hospital.
- By Tina Karraffi -
wah.... it's very touching.....Originally posted by M©+square:I don't know about defination of Love.
I guess this story speaks more about the act of Love rather then defining it.
You Can Do Anything
Many years ago, my dad was diagnosed with a terminal heart condition. He was
put on permanent disability and was unable to work at a steady job. He would be
fine for quite a while, but would then fall suddenly ill and have to be admitted
to the hospital.
He wanted to do something to keep himself busy, so he decided to volunteer at
the local children's hospital. My dad loved kids. It was the perfect job for
him. He ended up working with the terminally and critically ill children. He
would talk to them and play with them and do arts and crafts with them.
Sometimes, he would lose one of his kids. In certain instances, he would tell
the grieving parents of these children that he would soon be with their child in
heaven and that he would take care of them until they got there. He would also
ask the parent if there was a message they would like to send with him for their
child.
My dad's assurances seemed to help parents with their grieving. One of his kids
was a girl who had been admitted with a rare disease that paralyzed her from the
neck down. I don't know the name of the disease or what the prognosis usually
is, but I do know that it was very sad for a girl around eight or nine years
old. She couldn't do anything, and she was very depressed.
My dad decided to try to help her. He started visiting her in her room,
bringing paints, brushes and paper. He stood the paper up against a backing,
put the paintbrush in his mouth and began to paint. He didn't use his hands at
all. Only his head would move. He would visit her whenever he could and paint
for her. All the while he would tell her, "See, you can do anything you set
your mind to." Eventually, she began to paint using her mouth, and she and my
dad became friends. Soon after, the little girl was discharged because the
doctors felt there was nothing else they could do for her.
My dad also left the children's hospital for a little while because he became
ill. Sometime later after my dad had recovered and returned to work, he was at
the volunteer counter in the lobby of the hospital. He noticed the front doors
open. In came the little girl who had been paralyzed, only this time she was
walking.
She ran straight over to my dad and hugged him really tight. She gave my dad a
picture she had done using her hands. At the bottom it read, "Thank you for
helping me walk."
My dad would cry every time he told us this story and so would we. He would say
sometimes love is more powerful than doctors, and my dad - who died just a few
months after the little girl gave him the picture - loved every single child in
that hospital.
- By Tina Karraffi -
i'm very sensitive to the name angeline.
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sorry but why?Originally posted by dumbdumb!:i'm very sensitive to the name angeline. -
alot of very good people never experienced love before.
pretty sad when i see some of my ah beng 'acquaintances' (i insist on calling them acquaintances since i honestly cannot admire the qualities in them) can secure girlfriends with ease and flair
girls say they go for the heart?
i dont think so -
Perhpas this can refer to nan ren bu huai nu ren bu ai?Originally posted by ntu slacker:alot of very good people never experienced love before.
pretty sad when i see some of my ah beng 'acquaintances' (i insist on calling them acquaintances since i honestly cannot admire the qualities in them) can secure girlfriends with ease and flair
girls say they go for the heart?
i dont think so
(guys aren't bad girl don't like)? -
i liked a girl of the same name.. but was hurt in the process. dunno. just feel esp down when see her or anything related to herOriginally posted by Angeline_01:sorry but why? 
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