Opinion on my life story
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hi all, this is my first post and i'm seeking for some opinions and reasoning on my problems.
here it goes,
I'm just married my long time girlfriend and til now we are having very good relationship. plenty of privacy and space and yet we shared a lot of stuff among us :). But things gotten a bit complicated for my father. My wife is a christian, but i'm not and neither is my parents. My wife has NEVER insisted on me or my parents to be christian as she truly believe that one has their right in their belief. However, my father insisted her to perform the chinese ritual and of course she has to take the joss stick, if not he will "disown" me. As for myself i truly believe that each has their right on religious belief, so i stand-by her and tell my father to go ahead. ( and in fact i dun really care for my father and what he is planning to do, and i wrote this to ensure that the story above is not "onesided" favouring just me ). However my mother, ( and no... i certainly care a lot for her ) is stuck in-between unfortuately.On top of that, my father stops my mother from visiting if not he will chase him out of the flat. ( BUT this is NOT a problem as i can well afford to take care of my mum and i WILL and so does my wife)
Now, assuming that u are in my situation, which would u choose, force your wife to take the joss stick, ( which i believe if i'm forceful enough, she will do ) or just ignore my father and continues this saga.
As for me, i pick the latter. And if i ever pick the first option, i will prefer to divorce her and suicide then to do that :) and i have no fear for death if i have to bring suffering to my love one and in a WRONG immoral ways
Do tell me your opinions thanks :)
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divorce your wife and give her to me
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If I am not mistaken, as long as your wife doesn't believe in joss sticks worshipping, she can just go through the motions without compromising her own faith.
Example, certain religious occasions require you to bow or offer incense or kneel or raise your hands etc. If you are not of the same religion, you may look out of place if everybody follows the ritual plus some people may see it as a form of disrespect if you don't follow. For practicalities' sake, just do what is required of you - as long as you don't believe in it, it is just an action being done - your faith in your own religion is not compromised.
Best if your father accepts that your wife has her own set of religious beliefs and not insist on her following his beliefs.
But different people have different opinions lah.
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Force your wife to go through the ritual.
How can she be so disrespectful to you and your father?
Next time she attack your bird in public then you know.
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Originally posted by angel3070:
Next time she attack your bird in public then you know.
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Originally posted by Chew Bakar:
Youngsters these days no respect for elders.
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Originally posted by angel3070:
Force your wife to go through the ritual.
How can she be so disrespectful to you and your father?
Next time she attack your bird in public then you know.
I force you to become a whore too
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Originally posted by angel3070:
Youngsters these days no respect for elders.
Are you old?
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Originally posted by automator:
I force you to become a whore too
Why you obsessed with whores?
So many posts mention whores?
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Originally posted by angel3070:
Why you obsessed with whores?
So many posts mention whores?
because your mother angel7030 is a whore
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Originally posted by Chew Bakar:
Are you old?
Not young and not that old.
But I respect elders.
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Originally posted by angel3070:
Not young and not that old.
But I respect elders.
Thank you.
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Originally posted by automator:
because your mother angel7030 is a whore
Then go and save her from the whore business.
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Originally posted by Chew Bakar:
Thank you.
Welcome.
Would you insist on your daugther in law to go through ritual if you had a son?
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Originally posted by angel3070:
Then go and save her from the whore business.
She is your mother not my mother
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Originally posted by angel3070:
Force your wife to go through the ritual.
How can she be so disrespectful to you and your father?
Next time she attack your bird in public then you know.
are u the one in the newspaper, attacking ppls birdy?
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Originally posted by automator:
She is your mother not my mother
Don't insult my real mother.
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btw, wat's up with the 3070 thingy...
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Originally posted by angel3070:
Welcome.
Would you insist on your daugther in law to go through ritual if you had a son?
If they truly love each other, I'll let them do what they want.
Liberal.
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Originally posted by EarlNeo:
are u the one in the newspaper, attacking ppls birdy?
No.
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Originally posted by angel3070:
Don't insult my real mother.
Oh ok. so angel7030 is your mamasan?
mamasan also can call as mother right?
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Originally posted by Chew Bakar:
If they truly love each other, I'll let them do what they want.
Liberal.
even when the DIL is wacking ur son balls so hard that he cant reproduce?
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Originally posted by Chew Bakar:
If they truly love each other, I'll let them do what they want.
Liberal.
I am not that liberal.
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Originally posted by angel3070:
No.
but u seem to be enjoying it...
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Originally posted by angel3070:
Not young and not that old.
But I respect elders.
they say itis impolite to be asking for a lady age...
so may i inquire just how young you are?