broke up yesterday..found out something shocking..read.
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THanks everyone for your advices and solutions. :)
I had made my decision and once again, thankyou:)
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He is a jerk .
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premarriage sex is already a wrong thing. halo???
only thing i can say is serve you right.
"This is so dreadful. People, i really need advice now.. If you were to come here to say anything provoking or spiteful please keep it to yourself. I just got hurt and what i need is advice and comfort right now.Thankyou."
did you ask for advice before you and ur bf go henky penky?
now wad can advice you to do is go and have a full check up to check of any std or etc.
pray in the name of the lord that you are free of any std.
any how do a girl rape a guy? you got use ur brain to think??
i thought only guys use their lower body to think
and that guy is a 100% bastard cunt. good thing u leave him!
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You are willing so dun whine.
But then again, he's an asshole for lying.
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no one force u into any of it...
hope u learn ur lesson well..
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You wanna forgive him because he took your virginity ah ?
Don lah. Not worth it one.
If he don't lie to you, you will not give him your virgin wat.
Now that he got into your panty already.. ofcors he don mind you find out the truth lor.
You finding the truth is actually a relief for him leh.
If you stay even tho you know the truth liao.. then he got nothing to remorse about mah.
You deserve a man.. not a child.
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almost 100% of the men have something to hide from a woman
a clever woman would
1. close 1 eye i open 1 eye
2. close 2 eyes
3. open 2 eyes and make a detail check on the partner that she had
but be prepare to relise that this world is harsh.
4. dont ever have a marriage life
5. be a virgin till u drop death
6. be a les
in every couple there always be some lies going on there unless u are adam and eve
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sigh. i already open 2 eyes thats why i know everything already..
now want to close 1 eye also too late already.
nt sad that i lose my virginity .. in the first place i already tell myself if i do it then i should not regret..
just feeling.. kinda still in shocked..
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Originally posted by Hwaimeng:
almost 100% of the men have something to hide from a woman
a clever woman would
1. close 1 eye i open 1 eye
2. close 2 eyes
3. open 2 eyes and make a detail check on the partner that she had
but be prepare to relise that this world is harsh.
4. dont ever have a marriage life
5. be a virgin till u drop death
6. be a les
in every couple there always be some lies going on there unless u are adam and eve
everyone lies...
at one point or another.
But building ur r/s base on lies just not gona last.
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hi i couldnt help but notice the sitruation you are in.its nothing new,boyfriend had sex fantasies,too weak to even resist a girl from raping him,stalking some otherwomanetc etc etc.
dump him and stop wasting your time and effort.if hecould be raped by girls then chances that guyswould have made him pregnant in the not too distant future!dump him and get a better boyfriend!
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Originally posted by shockings:
sigh. i already open 2 eyes thats why i know everything already..
now want to close 1 eye also too late already.
nt sad that i lose my virginity .. in the first place i already tell myself if i do it then i should not regret..
just feeling.. kinda still in shocked..
Give yourself some time lah.
Feeling so shocked is normal lor. That's how anyone will feel when one is betrayed by someone trusted lah.
Just be more careful next time, don be so gullible anymore.
A lesson learnt in life, be grateful you didn't get STD from this guy lor.
But i think it's most prudent you get yourself a blood test done.
Condom is not 100%. Even the fluids that come into contact on your private area can infect you with something nasty.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
Give yourself some time lah.
Feeling so shocked is normal lor. That's how anyone will feel when one is betrayed by someone trusted lah.
Just be more careful next time, don be so gullible anymore.
A lesson learnt in life, be grateful you didn't get STD from this guy lor.
But i think it's most prudent you get yourself a blood test done.
Condom is not 100%. Even the fluids that come into contact on your private area can infect you with something nasty.
spoken like a wise women....
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
Give yourself some time lah.
Feeling so shocked is normal lor. That's how anyone will feel when one is betrayed by someone trusted lah.
Just be more careful next time, don be so gullible anymore.
A lesson learnt in life, be grateful you didn't get STD from this guy lor.
But i think it's most prudent you get yourself a blood test done.
Condom is not 100%. Even the fluids that come into contact on your private area can infect you with something nasty.
Yup, QFT!
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if i were you, and if i were really love him.. i think i wont be thinking of those dreadful stuffs he did and what i would do is to keep only the best memory in my heart... i mean those sweet moments you have shared with him.. be it the first nite or watever... he is a jerk yea, but u loved him, isnt it?
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hmm.. he took my virginity yes..but we didn't really "do it"
as im a virgin.. it is really difficult for him to do it for the first time..he just poked it in... and it slipped out and poked in.. it was painful so i told him to stop.. but i bleed abit and when i went to the toilet i bled more !!so you know.. i lost my virginity from that poking >,<
his liquid or fluid never come out cos we didnt even start doing yet :/and yes, i loved him..the times i had with him be it just a long stroll or just chatting with him made me happy.. he had never done anything disappointing when i was with him..
It's his past and his lies about his past that really frightens me. i don't think i can be with him again.yes..he is a jerk.. but whatever it is..if i be with him again, my risk of catching STD from him is HIGH. i don't want risk my life.i rather be lesbian or single for the rest of my life hahaha.
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i realli dont know how to comment on this issue.maybe he love u too much and dont want to lose you thats why he lied to u.
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he does not deserve u
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Advise.
You did the right thing to dump him.
Now do stop agonising about it and go snip his kuku bird off.
Or at least do what the woman in some video did. Wear your spike-ist stillettos to meet him, then proceed to slam your stilettos into his kukubird area as hard and as often as you can.
You can also do it one shot, dont take off your stiletto and make sure your heel end connects with his balls in one hard puncture.
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You used protection, so (hopefully) you're in the clear. Apart from that, nothing of any particular consequence has actually taken place. Virginity's overrated and now that you know he's a lying bastard you've dropped him.
It's time to move on. Life's too short to worry about things that have no long-term implications.
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Unless of course......our dear TS is actually looking for a better reason to hopefully forgive the guy and continue on the relationship.
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nah..not thinking of continuing the r/s.
use the heel make his kuku bird.. u know i really want to do that..but he is so far away!!! he is not in singapore..
if not i swear if he is in singapore now i would cab to him and cut his LJ away
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TS : All u can do now is lick your 'wounds' but unlearn and know that words are birds lar!
The next time around (if it comes lar) trust in your love, by that I mean be self-fulfilled, be self-responsible, be self-accepting, be self-respecting and it may stand you in good stead lar
I do not mean selfishness, i mean being self-full. what you put in (yourself, your being) is what you harvest.
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Originally posted by shockings:
nah..not thinking of continuing the r/s.
use the heel make his kuku bird.. u know i really want to do that..but he is so far away!!! he is not in singapore..
if not i swear if he is in singapore now i would cab to him and cut his LJ away
Then all in all, there isnt much to advise about liao is there?Your one and only important thing now. Is to keep up regular exercise, keep yourself fit and trim. Make sure your education level is enough to put him to shame. Make sure your future is bright and wonderful.
And make sure the next guy who lies to you, lay bellydown with his hands outstretch to try to reach you in the wake of your dust you kick up when you drives or marathon jog away from him.
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Originally posted by viciouskitty74:Your one and only important thing now. Is to keep up regular exercise, keep yourself fit and trim. Make sure your education level is enough to put him to shame. Make sure your future is bright and wonderful.
Spot on. Any more thought about this issue is needless interest paid on a price that he's already extracted.
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Originally posted by Gedanken:
Spot on. Any more thought about this issue is needless interest paid on a price that he's already extracted.
Beri beri the deep......