how many of u can love without being loved back?
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is there anyone who loves someone u cant be with, but u dont mind going out of your way just to make them smile? to skip work to queue up for concert tickets for them (when they casually mentioned that they want to watch it). even if they are having fun with other people and ignoring u, u are still happy because they are happy. do share your stories (:
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Your Parents love their child, and i doubt most ppl won't love them back
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if you love, you don't ask for anything back.. at all..
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As easy as it may sound, it's not abit easy.
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i cannot do so
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why bother with loving someone that dun love u back?
cant u find someone else whom u love and are willing to do the same in return?
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Originally posted by EarlNeo:
why bother with loving someone that dun love u back?
cant u find someone else whom u love and are willing to do the same in return?
yah lor. siao.
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Originally posted by EarlNeo:
why bother with loving someone that dun love u back?
cant u find someone else whom u love and are willing to do the same in return?
It's a weird thing one la love.
So many have diff defination of that.
Alot of ppl will said, "still got so many in fishes in the sea .. Dun worry"
But seriously how many of the many fishes is for u.
But i am not saying expecting love in return is wrong.
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i cant believe that im a fool again..
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hehe. i think the people who can love without expecting love in return are the ones that will truly experience the sweet feeling of love (:
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Baby, sometimes love just ain't enough.
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Without love, NOTHING is ever enough.
You can be buried with money, diamond and pearls, buy anything and anyone you want, but in reality, you know for sure that people are around you only because of your wealth.
You can have the most sexy and beautiful woman as your wife, and several mistressess, yet there will always be an empty feeling in your heart. The emptiness will not go away, espacially in your deepest darkest moments. No one cares about you, let alone love you. It is your wealth they want.
You can be the poorest guy, but doomed by your poverty, you will be filled with rage and anger, driving yourself even poorer because no one cares, let alone love you.
Can I love and yet not be loved? Yes, for it depends on how you measure love and love returned.
Is love an object of monetary value? Is love an obligation to be returned?
Or is love measured by the happiness and motivations it gives to us, to live a better day and look forward to a better tomorrow?
For example, I love my country. But how is the love from the country in return to me manifested? This, each can only answer to oneself.
I love a lady. I care about her and want her to be happy. Even if it means she finds a better man than me. Is she obligated as a toy, a chattel, a slave, to love me? Am I a fool for caring about her and her happiness?
Just my musings, for I know not enough of love, only that true love never enslaves anyone. I have yet to reach a higher plane of mortal existance, and am still stuck in the jungles that I, an animal, striving to get out of.
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its hurts a lot but pple still do it. dnt know y but perhaps tht's wat is called love.
i'm someone like tht thou i dnt dare to show it to her anymore aft an awful incident
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love n not love back?
jesus?
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IMO 'love' that entails expecting something back isnt really love it is an exchange, or immaturity or whatever but definately not love
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Originally posted by Fire Cracker:
love n not love back?
jesus?
to love n not love back is really painful, tht's y only Jesus can do it :)
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some ppl are masochistic and can hav twisted logic,
i know of ppl like to take abuse and take it as a sign of love/attention. i feel they deserved it since they are so blind and stupid regardless boy/girl
騙錢 / 打 / 骂都是爱
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Sad to say, i"m a stupid fool to be on the same boat. But i am happy to be a fool as long as she is happy.
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love just like the same as communication like that one de ma
you talk to the other person then that person response back then got fun one mah
if there is no response from that person where got fun leh, dont u feel like talking to a wall, like that must well talk to the wall better.
love until like this still got meaning meh
even u go get a dog then u play with it and the dog got happy at least it will still woof woof back at u.
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who's watched marley and me? Owen wilson mentioned in the show that whether a man is rich poor big house or small house, it doesnt matter. as long as you love the dog, it will love you back.
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lol. botahead, i like your response. its funny! and scarily true!
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Originally posted by BotaHead:
love just like the same as communication like that one de ma
you talk to the other person then that person response back then got fun one mah
if there is no response from that person where got fun leh, dont u feel like talking to a wall, like that must well talk to the wall better.
love until like this still got meaning meh
even u go get a dog then u play with it and the dog got happy at least it will still woof woof back at u.
For me there is respond from her, she accepts whatever i do for her and the love and attention i give her. But i doubt she loves me. Anyway we know it from day 1 that it would never be easy for us to be together . So just have to accept the facts .
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I agree, I watched the one I love marry another guy, I even attended the wedding. haha! and same, from day 1, i knew it will never be possible for us to be together
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Originally posted by Coach Jason:
I agree, I watched the one I love marry another guy, I even attended the wedding. haha! and same, from day 1, i knew it will never be possible for us to be together
Me too. The bittersweet feeling... -
Originally posted by xtreyier:
Without love, NOTHING is ever enough.
You can be buried with money, diamond and pearls, buy anything and anyone you want, but in reality, you know for sure that people are around you only because of your wealth.
You can have the most sexy and beautiful woman as your wife, and several mistressess, yet there will always be an empty feeling in your heart. The emptiness will not go away, espacially in your deepest darkest moments. No one cares about you, let alone love you. It is your wealth they want.
You can be the poorest guy, but doomed by your poverty, you will be filled with rage and anger, driving yourself even poorer because no one cares, let alone love you.
Can I love and yet not be loved? Yes, for it depends on how you measure love and love returned.
Is love an object of monetary value? Is love an obligation to be returned?
Or is love measured by the happiness and motivations it gives to us, to live a better day and look forward to a better tomorrow?
For example, I love my country. But how is the love from the country in return to me manifested? This, each can only answer to oneself.
I love a lady. I care about her and want her to be happy. Even if it means she finds a better man than me. Is she obligated as a toy, a chattel, a slave, to love me? Am I a fool for caring about her and her happiness?
Just my musings, for I know not enough of love, only that true love never enslaves anyone. I have yet to reach a higher plane of mortal existance, and am still stuck in the jungles that I, an animal, striving to get out of.
no love can last forever... only objects like wealth can never betray u.
in a webby i saw b4... a survey was carried out, quite a large scale survey..and i was quite surprised that the ranking of what thing people feared most, the number one is not death or death of closed ones, but rather commitment
commitment is like something u have to do it for the rest of ur life... that is indeed scary... death of closed ones is ranked second, third i forgot... and fourth is deathmy point is... why torture urself?