Originally posted by Cerebral_Assassin:
'I dun mind u waiting for me, but i cannot guarantee that your wait will be worthwhile because i'm a girl that is not worthy of u. If u find another girl, just go ahead'
how do u girls and guys interpret this phrase??
plz state your gender also....
as a guy, its rather a turn off especially when u openly declared ur love 4 her....
cos its evident
1. she is 'using u'
no offense. girls should be painfully curt and firm when rejecting the guy so both parties wun need to drag their feet. but here this ger craves your presence so she wants you to be there but dun want to be in a r.s with you
OR
2. she has low self confidence
she may be thinking she's not good enough for you... i would rather take 1 over 2. cos 2 will cause mucch more problems in the long run due to her self esteem... she might be a unreasonable gf in future always suspicious or nagging
my 2 cents
nevertheless u should talk to her "Why?" is it so hard to ask?
it will definitely be less hazy if u do that...
anyway dont be sad. i think u can find happiness in life one day as long u commit to it