is there any thing wrong to be single
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hai.... I'm still single... except that time my ex ditch me and she got married..... i'm always with a group of very close female friends, even my jie's friends but our r/s just stuck as close friends... Is there any thing wrong to be very close to ur jie.... all my friends and my jie friends all say tt i'm so close to my jie just like sister - sister close.....
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NOPE~~~!
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or isit i'm tian sheng zhu ding to be single
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Originally posted by clarinet:or isit i'm tian sheng zhu ding to be single
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mayb ur fate not here yet
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nothing wrong leh......wad is wrong....mi is interested leh....
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nothing is tian sheng zhu ding le, if u wan happiness u have to fight for itOriginally posted by clarinet:or isit i'm tian sheng zhu ding to be single -
Originally posted by dark_slayer79:mayb ur fate not here yet
fate... i've been play out by fate.... -
there's nothing wrong to be single..
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is single plus very close to jie jieOriginally posted by kohanson:there's nothing wrong to be single.. -
i assume u haven't seen this:Originally posted by clarinet: fate... i've been play out by fate....
nothing is tian sheng zhu ding le, if u wan happiness u have to fight for it -
Get a dog, and love your dog. Haha... nothing wrong being single man. Single equals to no worries.
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me single ever since i was borned
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I got another fren who just can never seem to remain single, once she breaks, she will get attached within days. But that probably also expains why she is constantly in and out of relatonships, cos she never took the time to find out what she wants?
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Single and loving it.
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Originally posted by clarinet:is single plus very close to jie jie
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hey, me too, muahahahahah, single ever since i was borne~~~ =POriginally posted by Flight Cadet Officer:me single ever since i was borned -
You don't 'play', unless you participate in it...?Originally posted by clarinet: fate... i've been play out by fate.... 
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If it is a sin to be single - more than a quarter of world's population would enter hell.Originally posted by clarinet:hai.... I'm still single... except that time my ex ditch me and she got married..... i'm always with a group of very close female friends, even my jie's friends but our r/s just stuck as close friends... Is there any thing wrong to be very close to ur jie.... all my friends and my jie friends all say tt i'm so close to my jie just like sister - sister close..... 
Think about this: You did enter into a relationship before (though she was quite a lamer *evidence from your other post* (language filtered
), but you do love her at that point of time don't you?) some people never even knew how it's like to hold the hands of their love. Some people who enters a relation still never knew what love was and there are others who never learn anything from their past relation - a utter failure in my point of view for the latter to take place. 
Most people in this world crave some form of dependancy, some form of care, concern and the need to feel loved. You desire a someone who loved you and you love her/him as much - chances are: how slim is that to really happen? It is not rare - but neither is it common either.
People face it - most of the time it started off as one sided and feelings eventually grew because you *wanted* to give a chance for a potential relation to bossom. In the end, you found yourself liking him/her very much and before you know it - this relation is gone.
In any case; once you did fell in love and enters into a relation - subconsciously you will crave for all the positive aspect that you once had after when you revert back to single status. You longing for this element will grow and like drugs to men - you are addicted to it. (Further strenghten if your relation is a lenghty one OR if you put overly dependance onto your partner OR sexual activities in relationships).
You crave;
You desire;
You want and it became a need.
There is someone there - without thinking much and within a flash you feel that you have fallen for her.
Are you so sure you are falling in love with the person because...
I) she is that kind of woman/man you will love - your style of partner
II) There is an invisible vibes that shoot through you, telling you that she would become an important person in your life?
III) Or it is to satisfy this unseen subconscious craving for your wanting and dependancy?
In my opinion - absolutely alright to remain single. If there is a choice to fall in love with the wrong kind of man/woman OR to remain single... what would you people choose?
Cheers -
I'm taking advantage of it every moment of it. coz once I get attached, me wanna remain faithful forever.Originally posted by Estee:hey, me too, muahahahahah, single ever since i was borne~~~ =P -
eh since when being a single is a sin. in fact the bible says that if we can be single is good. cuz can serve God better. but its oso good to get married and stuff. after all God created woman to be with man.Originally posted by Yunhaier:If it is a sin to be single - more than a quarter of world's population would enter hell.
Think about this: You did enter into a relationship before (though she was quite a lamer *evidence from your other post* (language filtered ), but you do love her at that point of time don't you?) some people never even knew how it's like to hold the hands of their love. Some people who enters a relation still never knew what love was and there are others who never learn anything from their past relation - a utter failure in my point of view for the latter to take place.
Most people in this world crave some form of dependancy, some form of care, concern and the need to feel loved. You desire a someone who loved you and you love her/him as much - chances are: how slim is that to really happen? It is not rare - but neither is it common either.
People face it - most of the time it started off as one sided and feelings eventually grew because you *wanted* to give a chance for a potential relation to bossom. In the end, you found yourself liking him/her very much and before you know it - this relation is gone.
In any case; once you did fell in love and enters into a relation - subconsciously you will crave for all the positive aspect that you once had after when you revert back to single status. You longing for this element will grow and like drugs to men - you are addicted to it. (Further strenghten if your relation is a lenghty one OR if you put overly dependance onto your partner OR sexual activities in relationships).
You crave;
You desire;
You want and it became a need.
There is someone there - without thinking much and within a flash you feel that you have fallen for her.
Are you so sure you are falling in love with the person because...
I) she is that kind of woman/man you will love - your style of partner
II) There is an invisible vibes that shoot through you, telling you that she would become an important person in your life?
III) Or it is to satisfy this unseen subconscious craving for your wanting and dependancy?
In my opinion - absolutely alright to remain single. If there is a choice to fall in love with the wrong kind of man/woman OR to remain single... what would you people choose?
Cheers
and another thing. erm i think the phrase is called rebound. its like after u split up with a girl u will suddenly think that u like this girl, which u subconsciously replaced her with yr ex. thats not love. u love the girl for who she is, and not make her a representation of yr ex.
u're very knowledgable yunhaier. pls comment on this post. i would be honoured -
When I first enter the r/s, I want it to be forever.... I don't like to be in and out or a r/s.... unstable
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me oso. haha i'd like to think myself having my first relationship as my last.Originally posted by clarinet:When I first enter the r/s, I want it to be forever.... I don't like to be in and out or a r/s.... unstable 
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there is nothing wrong being single....
i have spent 3yrs with 140 gals in my course.... and till now im still single.... i know alot of female stuffs coz im being treated as a sister with the gals... trust me its an honor when gals make u their sisters.... u learn more than juz being their friends.... makes u a better man..... -
Originally posted by Stefanism:there is nothing wrong being single....
i have spent 3yrs with 140 gals in my course.... and till now im still single.... i know alot of female stuffs coz im being treated as a sister with the gals... trust me its an honor when gals make u their sisters.... u learn more than juz being their friends.... makes u a better man..... I think they are really treating me as thier sister liao.. even my jie somtime like to call me mei and the stewpig me sometime go and ans