is there any thing wrong to be single
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it seldom works. having multiple r/s can never be detrimental.Originally posted by clarinet:When I first enter the r/s, I want it to be forever.... I don't like to be in and out or a r/s.... unstable
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mo jai song ka
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Originally posted by dumbdumb!:eh since when being a single is a sin. in fact the bible says that if we can be single is good. cuz can serve God better. but its oso good to get married and stuff. after all God created woman to be with man.
and another thing. erm i think the phrase is called rebound. its like after u split up with a girl u will suddenly think that u like this girl, which u subconsciously replaced her with yr ex. thats not love. u love the girl for who she is, and not make her a representation of yr ex.
u're very knowledgable yunhaier. pls comment on this post. i would be honoured
No lar, I am not knowledgable - we are learning from one another each new day.
And I never say being single is a sin - I meant IF it was a sin then people would enter hell, which in the first place isn't a sin lar.
Rebound or not I know not of the name, but frankly speaking, in the case you mentioned above, the phrase is 'Looking for A in B.' Many a times in life, people haven't settle 'themselves' yet, before leaping into another relationship. The fear to be alone and to venture alone is there, which causes them to made a hasty choice.
Looking for A in B, basically alot of people are doing it since they have their first relationship. Why? Because when you enter your first relationship, you will gradually understand which positive aspect you like and which negative aspect you hate. In the next relationship, you will source potential for some of this characteristic subconsciously.
Depending on how one sees it - basically, after one failed relationship that really affect you - I suggest a time to recuperate before leaping to another relation, if you want to avoid such issues.
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Many ppl have their own views and so do I. I've been "single" (If U r toking abt BGR) my whole life and I'm fine wif it... Even though at times I do feel lonely and envy couples out there. But hey, its our own lives and we shld accept da facts of it too.
You carve out your path and you should not regret it. Even if you are close friends with your female counterparts, you should be content. Put it this way, You don't have to have a "stead" or something to "be together". There are friends and families to accompany you. Just remember, you are NOT single in life... You have companions all over you, regardless of age, distance, race or religion...
Anywae... dis is juz my view... so U can dun bother if U like, but bottomline is: U decide yr life. If U tink U r single, U r single. If U tink U r NOT, then U r not...
Chim leh? Ok, so U ppl out there reading my response may tink I m toking trash. Then take it as if I AM toking trash...
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Nothing wrong to be a single ah! Tell you what....I started a business for the singles. 80% are in the 20's. All are active individuals. I don't do matchmaking....old fashion oredi. I organise activities for members. Activities would be chalets, camping trips, 1 day JB shopping trip and stay overnight at one of the nearby hotels and check out next morning (usually most of my ladies members will go for this), 2 days 1 night trips to certain parts of Malaysia where all interesting activities are seriously planned for fun...and many other activities like sky-diving lah, rollerblading lah, wakeboarding lah....get-together dinners lah and so on.
I encourage my members to know one another thru activities and not jump into relationship too soon. Make more friends and enjoy 1st.
If anyone of you wants to join FES, you can email to me at [email protected] -
you do sky-diving ?how can i go abt it ?can give me details thanx !Originally posted by marlenekoh:Nothing wrong to be a single ah! Tell you what....I started a business for the singles. 80% are in the 20's. All are active individuals. I don't do matchmaking....old fashion oredi. I organise activities for members. Activities would be chalets, camping trips, 1 day JB shopping trip and stay overnight at one of the nearby hotels and check out next morning (usually most of my ladies members will go for this), 2 days 1 night trips to certain parts of Malaysia where all interesting activities are seriously planned for fun...and many other activities like sky-diving lah, rollerblading lah, wakeboarding lah....get-together dinners lah and so on.
I encourage my members to know one another thru activities and not jump into relationship too soon. Make more friends and enjoy 1st.
If anyone of you wants to join FES, you can email to me at [email protected] -
er nothing's wrong to be single lah..u think too much liao le
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u mean ur god jie or wad
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there is definitely nothing wrong being single. I believe that being single gives one more freedom...physically and emotionally. You can go the places u want to go, do the stuff u wanna do. It is not to say this cant happen if u're in a relationship but quite often..you have to compromise or accomodate your partner;s decisions.
Emotionally, being single means that you are spared the lovers tifts, the misunderstandings and sometimes jealousy as well as the confusion and stress during special occasions like V-day and X'mas abt where to go, what gifts to buy and how to celebrate.
But at the same time, being single also means that theres no special someone who u can share your happiness and problems with...no sweet romantic suprises that your partner will spring for you on your birthday or anniversary.
Do the maths and choose the path to your own happiness..
Cheers