Is this so called " Love"?
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so if u were in his shoes...u wanna suffer and hurt deeper by dat ger?Originally posted by loneryu00:U very direct hor? liddat hurting leh... or U wan him to give her up so he can woo U izzit??? Oic.... I get yr sinister plan liao... wah... so... so... so...... hmm......
i wld wan...
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blowfish: ive been in ur situation b4...i noe how u felt...i was suffering...and dat time...cos i was hurt too deep during dat r/s...i continued to suffer even i broke up wif him...
i din choose to lead a normal life...but i chose to hurt myself...
but NO! dun ever follow my footseteps okie...
its only recently...i really picked myself up from dat fall... -
Originally posted by aHGer^83:so if u were in his shoes...u wanna suffer and hurt deeper by dat ger?
i wld wan... 
okie...
If I was in his shoes... ( I never got GF b4... so based on wat I noe...) I wld most likely be in a diff situation than him... dunno y... but I kinda like quiet gals... but dis 1 is DEEP......
So may varies... may stay, may leave... Coz I oso no idea wat she REALLY like? *shrugs* -
yeah......
love is like onion...
going deeper only result tears....
but i will always believe LOVE...
cos it the only gift we human have to keep the earth from going strong.....
wow.. who know.. maybe lonely000 will become my gf... hahaha
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who's lonely000? If U toking abt me har... & if I gal har... sorry lor... "Wo xin shang you ren" but then again, we all smelly men!!!Originally posted by blowfish:yeah......
love is like onion...
going deeper only result tears....
but i will always believe LOVE...
cos it the only gift we human have to keep the earth from going strong.....
wow.. who know.. maybe lonely000 will become my gf... hahaha
To live is to love -
Originally posted by blowfish:wow.. who know.. maybe lonely000 will become my gf... hahaha
To live is to love ..... .....
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yesterday got a fight with her.
i tell her how i feel and she say why i always pick on her.
i dont think i pick on her. it just that when one party is feeling uncomfortable, i think he/she had the right to voice up and try to solve it in order for the relationship to maintain.
Now i very disappointed with her. -
dun worry too much...sometimes things have to be said...hav to be said...Originally posted by blowfish:yesterday got a fight with her.
i tell her how i feel and she say why i always pick on her.
i dont think i pick on her. it just that when one party is feeling uncomfortable, i think he/she had the right to voice up and try to solve it in order for the relationship to maintain.
Now i very disappointed with her.
it takes time for pple to understand each other. The initial passion is over, time to go back to reality.
Mi wish u luck
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having a tok is good...but er...from my point of veiw...u R NOT picking on her lor...but she duwan to admit fault...Originally posted by blowfish:yesterday got a fight with her.
i tell her how i feel and she say why i always pick on her.
i dont think i pick on her. it just that when one party is feeling uncomfortable, i think he/she had the right to voice up and try to solve it in order for the relationship to maintain.
Now i very disappointed with her.
dat's wad i tink lar... -
That it.... i had enough...
We had a talk and it turn up in the end i need to say sorry to her...
even though i think am not wrong.
From now onwards, i will not call her or contact her.
I dont care ....
Feel not been myself when with her.
i think that it folk..... end of the relationships -
ehz.. cheer up.. since it end liao.. dun so sad le kk? if u think u r not in the wrong... y u say sorry... well... cheer up....Originally posted by blowfish:That it.... i had enough...
We had a talk and it turn up in the end i need to say sorry to her...
even though i think am not wrong.
From now onwards, i will not call her or contact her.
I dont care ....
Feel not been myself when with her.
i think that it folk..... end of the relationships -
I say sorry just to cheer her up since she is upset too.
But after getting back home, i really feel emptinesss inside me. When is the usually me?
Problem is her brithday is coming this week, should i do anything for her?
one part tell me to forget it one part tell me to stay on....
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Get 1 prepared... then observe for da next few daes wats happening btwn U 2... then by dat time U decide whether "to be? Or not to be...?"Originally posted by blowfish:I say sorry just to cheer her up since she is upset too.
But after getting back home, i really feel emptinesss inside me. When is the usually me?
Problem is her brithday is coming this week, should i do anything for her?
one part tell me to forget it one part tell me to stay on.... -
..... no more trying
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suggestions to wat...? do repeat if U did oredi... sorryOriginally posted by blowfish:.........
can any 1 give suggestion -
What situation are you facing now?Originally posted by blowfish:.........
can any 1 give suggestion -
her birthday is coming..
should i celebrate with her?
i admit i still have feelinf for her but not like in the past...
i like a tired heart.... i fear putting too much on her and get hurt in the end...
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How long has your relationship been...? What's your respective ages (you and hers)..? How you view the relationship now...? How you think she views it....? Where you think this relationship is heading...? Where YOU WANT it to head for...?Originally posted by blowfish:.........
can any 1 give suggestion
...... Tell me WHY should I help you...? -
Y?Originally posted by Devil1976:How long has your relationship been...? What's your respective ages (you and hers)..? How you view the relationship now...? How you think she views it....? Where you think this relationship is heading...? Where YOU WANT it to head for...?
...... Tell me WHY should I help you...?
Coz U r da MOD!!!
Actually, blowy... U wanna give present oso can... but no need to get those ex type... simple things like a card, candy, book, & give to her BEFORE or AFTER her bdae can liao... but my SUGGESTION is no. dun ask me y... juz a gut feeling... (U can dun follow me 1... iys yr choice) -
The MOD's job is to clear the forum of PEST.... Nothing more than that....Originally posted by loneryu00:Y?
Coz U r da MOD!!! 
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Liew... y so specific...? We all mortals look to MODs as U noe... guides......Originally posted by Devil1976:The MOD's job is to clear the forum of PEST.... Nothing more than that.... 
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Guides?Originally posted by loneryu00:Liew... y so specific...? We all mortals look to MODs as U noe... guides......
Which part of SGforum ya wanna tour...? -
Dunno... U decide? Then we ALL follow lor...Originally posted by Devil1976:Guides?
Which part of SGforum ya wanna tour...? -
hi blowfish,Originally posted by blowfish:her birthday is coming..
should i celebrate with her?
i admit i still have feelinf for her but not like in the past...
i like a tired heart.... i fear putting too much on her and get hurt in the end...
how....
my 3cents worth of tots..
understand that u have a tired heart...
after so long, i guess you have already gotta some conclusions as to what u wanna outta a relationship...
but i think it'll be cruel to ignore her at this stage...& let her spend her b'day in sadness...
i am not asking u to act noble...
but perhaps u could treat this ocassion as one that gives both u & her the last memory that u can create out of this relationship...let this relationship end in happiness rather than in sadness which could lead to further hatred in both of u...
at least, in future, there could be some possibility that both of u can still remain as frens?
cun b lovers but it can be neat to be at least frens?