A friend we used to meet offend been placing his hand round my waist whever we meet up for show. But somehow he never express his feeling toward me. What should I do ? I asked him, he said we are nothing more than just a closer friend. Recently I took the initial of getting closer but not I want to know how he feel about it.... What should I do?
you already know..
ASK HIM ALREADY!!
some guys just like to eat tofu... but always say no commitment...
Yes.
Touch his cock and see his reaction.
that means he is not interested in you but like to take advantage of you nia. if he is interested, he will surely ask you de.
Originally posted by Klrelsim:A friend we used to meet offend been placing his hand round my waist whever we meet up for show. But somehow he never express his feeling toward me. What should I do ? I asked him, he said we are nothing more than just a closer friend. Recently I took the initial of getting closer but not I want to know how he feel about it.... What should I do?
Hi Klrelsim,
You should stop him from taking physical advantage of you. I believe that you are interested in him, and that is the reason why you are trying to get closer to him. However, as he has blatantly put it, you are nothing more than a "close friend" to him.
I apologise to you for saying so, but I am sincerely worried that if you continue to attempt to get closer to him, he may view you as someone who is cheap enough for him to take sexual advantage of.
Cheers.
Close friend = Can anyhow touch?!
That's some cheap close friend.
gunner your just being naughty mate...
well in my opinion if he told you before that we are just friends i mean the closer ones then maybe he doesnt wanna get further with the relationship and is enjoying to be your friend, or maybe he is afraid of getting committed...
i would suggest you not to propose him or something...if u like him just keep it secret and give him a chance to express...make him feel more comfortable with u...take him to some quite place like a beach side or somewhere and talk to him openly that what does he think that can you friendship take a step further and see how he reacts...if he puts it into a laugh then he is not serious about it...
dont just be too easy for him...and ask him to confess if he has anything for you in his heart...
Originally posted by Klrelsim:A friend we used to meet offend been placing his hand round my waist whever we meet up for show. But somehow he never express his feeling toward me. What should I do ? I asked him, he said we are nothing more than just a closer friend. Recently I took the initial of getting closer but not I want to know how he feel about it.... What should I do?
Since you don't mind his arm around your waist, you should let him know and he should be surprised enough to loose his arm around your waist.
Guys will usually back off a bit from their act whenever they're being sexposed. ![]()
he sounds like a flirt/playboy to me =O
How will sensitive and emo girls take the intiative to do so?
kindly help
He only hold your waist when meet up for show? You mean he only do it when in cinema?
If so, I think he is just trying to eat tofu and test water to see if you can be his "close friend".
I can be your closest friend.... do you want to be my friend??
i got a close female friend..
when my friends and i gather at my place to watch movie and if she feels cold, i hug her..
sometimes i lie on her lap and vice versa.. sometimes hold hand..
but nonetheless, each of us have likings for other people..
yup.. there are such cases..
Yup he's just taking advantage of you cos you are receptive to it. if he liked you enough, he'd be asking you to be his gf. simple as that. guys are easy to figure out in the romance department.
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i've a slot for 'close friend', you wanna interview for it ts? ![]()
Depends on wad u want.
should be possible... but usually guys expected to make the move. but maybe he dun want to commit lor, just flirting around.
TS, you should be more open. Thats how people in the western country behaves. There is totally nothing wrong about it. People in western country hug each other and touch each as a way to greet each other even if they are just friends.
If you don't like the way your friend behave then you should tell him and ask him to stop. Don't let yourself suffer for no reason. Good luck.
Originally posted by Admin_Operator:TS, you should be more open. Thats how people in the western country behaves. There is totally nothing wrong about it. People in western country hug each other and touch each as a way to greet each other even if they are just friends.
If you don't like the way your friend behave then you should tell him and ask him to stop. Don't let yourself suffer for no reason. Good luck.
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ppl in western country eat shit u also want eat ar?? ![]()
Originally posted by Admin_Operator:Thats how people in the western country behaves.
But Singapore is not western country.
Even if you do like him, don't let him "de cun jing chi". If you feel uncomfortable about it, then tell him to get his hand away. By not voicing out, you are giving him the signals that you are ok with him taking advantage of you. The next moment you know, his hand would no longer be on your waist but in your panties...
Originally posted by youyayu:
ppl in western country eat shit u also want eat ar??
you really very stupid! so old fashion! i am from western country so of course i knew all these.. i dont know what is the problem with you. so many old man here are preying for girls and they just act innocence to trick girl but actually most people in this forum is very open minded. just stop the act pls! thank you. hahaha. so do you girls get it? hahaha. beware of the wolf!!!
-looks at thread title-
initial? initial D ah?