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i hate being mr nice guy... being too nice can oso bring u trouble...
ppl will take advantage of u... e.g ask u do sumthing 4 them, buy sumthing 4 them and without payin...
keep sayin insultin things to u...
sibei du lan liao... mi juz dun wan hurt our frenship tats y din argue or retaliate...
wat shld i do?? be fierce?? and retaliate??
or is it tat i awaes joke and is nvr angry when i am wif them??
muz mi show them color face?? -
yea i know what u mean.. but i keena bully by girls, not guys. haha
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then be the devil lor...
dun hav to be this or tat...just be yourself
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Yeah, I know what you mean. Very few people appreciate genuine kindness anymore, shows you what this world has become. Being too kind has gotten such that its more of a disadvantage now...Being easily insulted by others because you don't want to get angry with others and argue, being taken for granted etc is all part of what comes with being too nice. Bottom line is, its time to stop always being too nice, to think of your own feelings once in awhile instead of others all the time and stand up for what you believe in or feel.
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u spoke rite frm my mind.... tis is wat i haf been wanting to say...Originally posted by wangc:Yeah, I know what you mean. Very few people appreciate genuine kindness anymore, shows you what this world has become. Being too kind has gotten such that its more of a disadvantage now...Being easily insulted by others because you don't want to get angry with others and argue, being taken for granted etc is all part of what comes with being too nice. Bottom line is, its time to stop always being too nice, to think of your own feelings once in awhile instead of others all the time and stand up for what you believe in or feel.
thx man... i tink tats wat i m goin to do... -
Dun hate being a nice guy... Yes nice guy sometimes do get being bullied... Dat is where U learn how to STAND firm... If U believe in yr conscious & wats right & wrong, U will stand to it...Originally posted by everywhere:i hate being mr nice guy... being too nice can oso bring u trouble...
ppl will take advantage of u... e.g ask u do sumthing 4 them, buy sumthing 4 them and without payin...
keep sayin insultin things to u...
sibei du lan liao... mi juz dun wan hurt our frenship tats y din argue or retaliate...
wat shld i do?? be fierce?? and retaliate??
or is it tat i awaes joke and is nvr angry when i am wif them??
muz mi show them color face??
Last time I used to be bullied too, but now I dun fear any1... Y so?
Juz tink it dis wae... Ppl bully U bcoz they dun wanna be bullied (more like afraid) If matters do get bad or out of wat U can handle... report to da police. Plain & simple...
I tink those bullies r more pathetic than they look... Dats y everytime I see those "bullies" staring at me, I stare back... then I laughed... some may not understand y I luffed. I tell ya... I look down on them... plain & simple... they dun deserved to take my attention... waste of energy... They oso cannot approach me anywae... coz I can beat da hell outta them! (muah ha ha ha)
Anywae... Juz noe U cannot be 100% all da time... There r times U need to be da "bad guy" or stand firm. Period -
yeah man.. i tink tats rite... tink i haf to be firm... thx 4 the advice... hehe
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Guess u hav to balance the angel and devil in u
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yeah!!!! i tink beri hard lah... mi born to be mr nice guy... hahahah
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Yea i know what you mean man
People always take advantage of nice people
i am sick of it
i stop being nice to people who i deem as treating me bad
insult me all the time, i sick of it man. For nothing oh someone sees a worm or something and says hey that looks like the size of your brain, and wow everyone has to chip in and insult me, i mean wtf?
Always waiting for me to buy food then kapo from me. I mean im fine with it but ALL THE TIME. I mean theres a limit man, blah -
yah lor... they awaes like to kapo ppl $$ when u help them buy food... sian man...
dunno hw to auto return $$ 1...
then i paiseh ask 4 it mah... -
yah lor... they awaes like to kapo ppl $$ when u help them buy food... sian man...
dunno hw to auto return $$ 1...
then i paiseh ask 4 it mah... sian man
if nt say i "gay gao" aka stingy
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born to be nice?Originally posted by everywhere:yeah!!!! i tink beri hard lah... mi born to be mr nice guy... hahahah
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haha... yupzzz...Originally posted by sgboy2004:born to be nice?
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Professor sgboy2004
wah lau!! cannot meh.... haha -
being mr niceguy also very bad in terms of relationships....
for my case, everytime i like a ger, she will first confess that she likes me too...
say that i am very nice and stuff.....
but when i wanna move a step ahead, things just never turn out right....
but then with the love i have for her, no matter wat she ask me to do or watever help she needs from me, i will go all out..... i dun feel that i am being bullied or used by her, cuz i know i really wanna help her.... and even if she is really using me, i am the one to blame for wat i did.
i always think the chinese say 'nan ren bu huai, nu ren bu ai' is really true -
here gt a modified version...
nan ren bu se nu ren bu ai, nan ren yue se nu ren yue ai....
hahahahha
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me tooOriginally posted by everywhere:yeah!!!! i tink beri hard lah... mi born to be mr nice guy... hahahah
so i understand wad u been going throught..........
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ya very true......Originally posted by extr0vert:being mr niceguy also very bad in terms of relationships....
for my case, everytime i like a ger, she will first confess that she likes me too...
say that i am very nice and stuff.....
but when i wanna move a step ahead, things just never turn out right....
but then with the love i have for her, no matter wat she ask me to do or watever help she needs from me, i will go all out..... i dun feel that i am being bullied or used by her, cuz i know i really wanna help her.... and even if she is really using me, i am the one to blame for wat i did.
i always think the chinese say 'nan ren bu huai, nu ren bu ai' is really true -
Not true at all.Originally posted by extr0vert:being mr niceguy also very bad in terms of relationships....
for my case, everytime i like a ger, she will first confess that she likes me too...
say that i am very nice and stuff.....
but when i wanna move a step ahead, things just never turn out right....
but then with the love i have for her, no matter wat she ask me to do or watever help she needs from me, i will go all out..... i dun feel that i am being bullied or used by her, cuz i know i really wanna help her.... and even if she is really using me, i am the one to blame for wat i did.
i always think the chinese say 'nan ren bu huai, nu ren bu ai' is really true -
U r being used... (maybe U like being used by her, since U didn't mind......) O_o''Originally posted by extr0vert:being mr niceguy also very bad in terms of relationships....
for my case, everytime i like a ger, she will first confess that she likes me too...
say that i am very nice and stuff.....
but when i wanna move a step ahead, things just never turn out right....
but then with the love i have for her, no matter wat she ask me to do or watever help she needs from me, i will go all out..... i dun feel that i am being bullied or used by her, cuz i know i really wanna help her.... and even if she is really using me, i am the one to blame for wat i did.
i always think the chinese say 'nan ren bu huai, nu ren bu ai' is really true
But remember... theres a limit to everything... dun let her "use" U all da wae... being a "Clark Kent" doesn't help yrself much... unless U REALLY possess da "Superman" powers... (Fear da Kryptonite......) -
c my siggy....i also a mr nice guy
...ppl tend to use mi but i kinda used liao..... -
Mr nice guy in the day, knife them in the nite
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well, being nice has it's disadvantages, many of which u have stated... but u are not juz being nice to suit other ppl do u???Originally posted by everywhere:i hate being mr nice guy... being too nice can oso bring u trouble...
ppl will take advantage of u... e.g ask u do sumthing 4 them, buy sumthing 4 them and without payin...
keep sayin insultin things to u...
sibei du lan liao... mi juz dun wan hurt our frenship tats y din argue or retaliate...
wat shld i do?? be fierce?? and retaliate??
or is it tat i awaes joke and is nvr angry when i am wif them??
muz mi show them color face??
u are being nice because that's u, if ppl can't appreciate u, u dun have to bend ur personality, juz to counter such behaviour.... there ARE ppl who appreciate ppl like u, and those can be considered ur true frens.
as for frens who insult.... that, i dun really consider them frens?? cause after all u have done, they still treat u like dirt, so u can dun interact wif them so often....
juz be urself, for u are living YOUR OWN LIFE, not a life that's controlled by someone else
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i already did contact them lesser liao... but sumtimes no choice haf to go 4 gathering or party... heng is once every 4 or 5 monthsOriginally posted by AngelDark:well, being nice has it's disadvantages, many of which u have stated... but u are not juz being nice to suit other ppl do u???
u are being nice because that's u, if ppl can't appreciate u, u dun have to bend ur personality, juz to counter such behaviour.... there ARE ppl who appreciate ppl like u, and those can be considered ur true frens.
as for frens who insult.... that, i dun really consider them frens?? cause after all u have done, they still treat u like dirt, so u can dun interact wif them so often....
juz be urself, for u are living YOUR OWN LIFE, not a life that's controlled by someone else
smile
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