Is TRUE love a real thing?
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Originally posted by Yunhaier:
How true is 'true'? And if there is true
love - does it means there are 'false love' too? The fact is that people are largely deluded by what they see on screen and apply them wholesale, momentarily blurring the lines between scripted drama and reality. What made it worst is that the notion of 'true love' is often a facade used by many love afflicted (development) individual to disguise some undeserving relationships or to perpetuate certain negative behaviors like abuse or possessiveness.
By words alone, it may seemed a little illogical to believe in that notion, but in reality, people are actually accepting such diabolical belief in full scale. And this is rather a wide-spread phenomenon.
It is wide spread not just because people are unenlightened, but more importantly, they perceive karmic relationship as 'beneficial relationship' insidiously wrapped over by the pretty packaging of 'true love' sold to the world today.
Some times people asked me 'Yunhaier, help me see if he/she is the one' (astrological perspective).
I always ask them "so what if I say no? What would you do?"
"Hah? No ah? Like that lor."
From there, it's obvious that my comments wouldn't have matter at all, therefore interestingly, why even bother asking? Rational sense would have stepped in if I said something negative to dismiss all that statements as unfounded, while blind faith will be reinforced upon something positively said by me.
So here's the truth: people decide how 'true' their love is by basing on their own construction of judgement. It is like the postmodernist perspective of reality (that we construct our own reality) - there is no univocal love that binds the superficial concept of 'true love' we gathered from the media - just much variation of the same concept, in which unfortunately is a belief that is susceptible to exploitation or obsessively held by the blinded soul/s.
The concept of true love is a classic deception.
Love is 'true' by our making; it is not given true as our prerogative.
Cheers
wow thanks i enjoyed reading it.
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Rarer than the Hope Diamond.
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Life is transcient and untrue, wat more significance does love hold?
Its reli nothing more than an internalize feeling of affection for another party that may or may not be sustainable over time..
In layman,s term, Love is nothing more than making use of each other for own's needs and deficiency...
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True love only exists when there is enough bread....lol
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True love only exists when there isplenty of abalone and sharksfin....lol
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Originally posted by Pebbly:
no. i dont think i believe in true love.
I got this mindset from my friends who told me its somesort like their motto. and somemore due to my recent bf, i dont believe in true love anymore
'They'll just have to do it because they don't know what else to do'
'So the sex is in the streets, and it's appealing to see'
'The message is, u won't go unnoticed, because ur bad and free'
'In a sad town from singapore where no one is really happy'
'u can't get to sleep, because yr sexual fanasties keep u awake'
'They're looking at eachother like race horses (breeding potential)'
'All I want to hear is u on my message machine'
'Love is forever and love is for free'
'But Is everybody up for an actual love?'
No one does actually
What's true love ?
When time comes, you will know.
When you hug her, you feel like having the whole world.
When you are with her, you hope that the time will pause from that moment on.
She will be the most beautiful maiden in your heart.
You imagine those days when you hold her wrinkle hands, taking a stroll in the park
Because of her, you would want to be a prince , her prince...
There would be no such thing as sex for pleasure, but instead it's the process of linking two souls together for eternity.
Still saving my first for my soulmate.
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Originally posted by VL:
What's true love ?
When time comes, you will know.
When you hug her, you feel like having the whole world.
When you are with her, you hope that the time will pause from that moment on.
She will be the most beautiful maiden in your heart.
You imagine those days when you hold her wrinkle hands, taking a stroll in the park
Because of her, you would want to be a prince , her prince...
There would be no such thing as sex for pleasure, but instead it's the process of linking two souls together for eternity.
Still saving my first for my soulmate.
hopefully she can be convinced by this. she hates men ever since she broke up.... sigh! that makes me want her more....
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Originally posted by Downs:
Hi everyone, this is my first ever post. Hope i won't get flamed or whatsoever.
I don't really believe in true love. Is there even such a thing.
Not to offend anyone, but our parents may be together because of reliance. Reliance on one another over the years. And with a son and daughter they just got to carry it on.
Think of it. You can google it. Love does really fade over time, i read about blablabla chemicals that are produced when you "love" someone but it will get lost over time. If you get too involve with your "lover" but already lost your love for her, for example you have children, you wouldnt want to tear the family up. Thus you shut up, you carry on, try to be mr nice guy and try to love her back.
can someone please educate me what true love really is? a lifetime care for your partner with an unending desire for her? or is it just reliance over time and attempts to keep the peace.
Have it ever occurred to you that their way of displaying affection may not be outright for one another because of their asian background?
For me, unconditional love = real love. For eg, family love - real in the sense that this kind of love is always there for you when you need them, even if you have became a jerk.
Unconditional love does not equate love for someone who constantly abuse you.
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Originally posted by VL:
What's true love ?
When time comes, you will know.
When you hug her, you feel like having the whole world.
When you are with her, you hope that the time will pause from that moment on.
She will be the most beautiful maiden in your heart.
You imagine those days when you hold her wrinkle hands, taking a stroll in the park
Because of her, you would want to be a prince , her prince...
There would be no such thing as sex for pleasure, but instead it's the process of linking two souls together for eternity.
Still saving my first for my soulmate.
it will never happen. As soon as we girls started to feel the connection, u all will spit at us on the back. -
Originally posted by Pebbly:
it will never happen. As soon as we girls started to feel the connection, u all will spit at us on the back.u meant once gotten into ur pant isit?
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nah, there's probably no such thing.
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There is, if you believe in it
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Originally posted by theme_and_guess:
hopefully she can be convinced by this. she hates men ever since she broke up.... sigh! that makes me want her more....
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