You are right about the part on not leading her on. Go ahead and break with her. You get to be with your new girl and she'll find a better guy than you. That way, both parties will be happy. After all, this is what you want right?
Originally posted by god of spunk:i always thought it's best to follow my heart. i know i'm very selfish but i thought it will be even more selfish if i lead my gf on when i'm clearly in love with someone else. i might seem to act self-righteous but i believe in my decision to give up my gf for the better of both of us.
Nothing personal, G.O.S.
Consider this you've found a new love, plan to ditch your current girl in the softest way possible so she wouldn't hate you forever? To what does she owes you that privilege?
But not to worry and to overestimate your self-worth, a guy like you who would readily ditch old love for new, isn't half as worthy of remembrance as you think you are. What's more a lifetime of hate?
Haha, wish you all the best in your new phase of life.
right thing to do .The End .
god of punk,
were u the one who tied the cat to the pipe the other day??!!!!
he must think hes some kinda god or something,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,good lord!
u dun need to tell people u wanna chop off yer cock.yer old galfrends mother,father or uncle will chop it off with the biggest chopper found in chinatown.just remeber to collect it ina glass jar.
u think just drop her n end of story???no,its payback time!
no girl deserves a person like you!you havent started to work........you got not much of an education.......you got no principles.......you are fickle minded.....you arent that rich........you have no business contacts......you got no potential in current state....what can u do now besides fucking around and pretending to be a god?
why would any gal want u or need you??u have a big cock?must be nice
god of spunk character:
1)not much work experience
2)not much education
3)not much of a principle
4)not much of a mind
5)not much financial riches
6)not much business contacts
7)not much potential
so what have u got now besides a big cock that controls you?
Aiyah why this topic so far off already...ppl want to break then let him break la...what for condemn him........this his life wat....not like u are in his shoes or wat....actually no matter wat u say to break up ur current relationship...the girl is still going to cry...just tell her tat...as time pass, u slowly lose that special feeling u once have for her...plain and simple...
Originally posted by god of spunk:i am a man of my early twenties and recently decided to further my studies after my national service. i am currently faced by what i consider to be a sticky situation concerning matters of the heart. my loyalty to my first and only gf having dated for a long time is being questioned and my mind is a horrible mess! though i never cheated on her before, i find it difficult overcome my strong desires and feelings for a girl that i met and known at my school.
i know i'm obsessed with her but she is indeed beautiful like a rare gem to me. i have noticed her for as long as i studied there. each time she smiles so sweetly it sends crazy sparks of love right into my heart. we are not very close friends but i really feel delighted during the times i am with her. initially i wasn't sure if she had a bf but now that i know for sure, i can't help but feel that she might not even want to be friends with me anymore if she finds out that i'm very much attracted to her. hence i was also holding back a lot when i was speaking to her. to make things even more confusing, i think she's really sweet to me and somehow flirted with me.
i thought over this and now i want to end things with my gf because it is not fair for her this way and i don't want be a cheating bf. i mentioned this to her briefly and somehow i have an impression that she thinks it is a joke. i'm not entirely sure if things can work out with my new found love and at the same time, i don't want to be the cause of a breakup especially since they were also a couple for a long time! how should i tell my gf in a gentlest way possible so she won't hate me forever? serious opinions / advice please.
Brother, you are now lusting, not loving.
Just tell your gf the truth and let her slap you, you deserve nothing less than that.
Originally posted by god of spunk:i am a man of my early twenties and recently decided to further my studies after my national service. i am currently faced by what i consider to be a sticky situation concerning matters of the heart. my loyalty to my first and only gf having dated for a long time is being questioned and my mind is a horrible mess! though i never cheated on her before, i find it difficult overcome my strong desires and feelings for a girl that i met and known at my school.
i know i'm obsessed with her but she is indeed beautiful like a rare gem to me. i have noticed her for as long as i studied there. each time she smiles so sweetly it sends crazy sparks of love right into my heart. we are not very close friends but i really feel delighted during the times i am with her. initially i wasn't sure if she had a bf but now that i know for sure, i can't help but feel that she might not even want to be friends with me anymore if she finds out that i'm very much attracted to her. hence i was also holding back a lot when i was speaking to her. to make things even more confusing, i think she's really sweet to me and somehow flirted with me.
i thought over this and now i want to end things with my gf because it is not fair for her this way and i don't want be a cheating bf. i mentioned this to her briefly and somehow i have an impression that she thinks it is a joke. i'm not entirely sure if things can work out with my new found love and at the same time, i don't want to be the cause of a breakup especially since they were also a couple for a long time! how should i tell my gf in a gentlest way possible so she won't hate me forever? serious opinions / advice please.
Hi god of spunk,
You cannot treat the relationship between two people the same way as that between a person and an object. Each time a better labtop enters the market, it is fine to replace it with your current one, if your finance situation allows it. But you must understand that it is ethically wrong to replace a girl with a "better" one whenever you "find one", though it is unfortunately what a significant amount of people do.
If I were to teach you how to break up with your girlfriend, I will only be encouraging you to dump girls the same way as one will dispose of their garbage. Instead, I will like you to think about it, why did you become a couple with your girlfriend in the first place? What did you like about her back then? What were the ups and downs in your relationship?
Just to add on, if a girl is to dump her boyfriend so easily just because you ask her to do so, it will speak a lot about her views and beliefs of a relationship between a couple, and in turn also her character.
Cheers.
JAFFA CREEE!