Originally posted by TrueHeart:Hi Confused,
To continue from my previous post, even though you have stopped contact with her, you are still in a confused state over your feelings for her. Thus, it is important for you to understand your own true feelings, otherwise your tears will not stop, as you will find yourself unable to move on.
As a side note, you rely too much on modern technology, rather than to clarify things with her. The biggest weakness of IT lies in the fact that it is unable to convey the exact feelings from one's heart. If you are to stop contact with her totally now, you will have reaffirm her belief that you are nothing more than a stalker.
Cheers.
I've tried calling her, but she's not picking up. We've met before, and our last meeting was actually quite recent. But, if I don't stop contact, and she's not replying, what can I do?
it could be a situation which she is confused about or unable to trust who is the message sender.
Confused. how many time you meet her ? if just once and she stopped contact with you that mean the answer is very straight forward...
Originally posted by Confused.:I've tried calling her, but she's not picking up. We've met before, and our last meeting was actually quite recent. But, if I don't stop contact, and she's not replying, what can I do?
Hi Confused,
As I have previously mentioned, you rely too much on modern technology. The best way to convey your thoughts and feelings is to meet up directly with her rather than to attempt to use the telephone as an in-between device.
Anyway, have you think through about what are your true feelings for her? Is she just a friend to you or someone more than that?
Cheers.
Hi everyone, I just had a talk with another friend yesterday and I'm feeling much better today compared to when I started this thread. Thanks to those with constructive advice!
wat are u trying to achieve in this 1yr 7mths? and u dun even know if u have fallen for her all these time?
i think it's already quite a miracle that she had been doing this with u for 1yr 7mths when u dun even have the idea urself whether u're wooing her.
Hey man,
I think I understand what you are growing through. Perhaps you would like to meet up with her face to face to clear things up, as getting a response might be a form of reassurance. I get confused easily when I do not get an appropriate, assuring response. Yes? Or no?
Try not to spend too much time on a single girl.
Cheers!
Ish, I already said she won't reply me anything, so how to arrange for us to meet up? I think the confused one is me, cause I;m the one not getting anything. Anyway, it's over already. I'll try hard to move on. Thank you.
Originally posted by gikiwiki:it could be a situation which she is confused about or unable to trust who is the message sender.
a friend of mine faced similar situation like the girl u mentioned. when she's with a guy, a third party girl messaged her pretending she is someone else. the third party girl chatted her up, persuading her to break off with the guy. hence, my friend is wary of replying messages from people she doesn't know.
Originally posted by gikiwiki:
a friend of mine faced similar situation like the girl u mentioned. when she's with a guy, a third party girl messaged her pretending she is someone else. the third party girl chatted her up, persuading her to break off with the guy. hence, my friend is wary of replying messages from people she doesn't know.
I'm not the third party omg. And I know her. The situation is so different here.
sigh....another one sided love story. When do men ever learn? Stop being a ferrreaking despo if you would like to have a gf.