Would u mind if ur GF......
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Guys,would u mind if ur gf takes a lift from her boss to work.cos my gf works part-time after school then her Boss would give her a ride to work.Meaning that her boss come to her sch to fetch her.
i'm ok with it initially but a friend who learnt abt it advised me to be careful cos maybe my gf's boss may be interested in her even though he is married and has a family.i'm starting to get worried also.wat do u think guys?
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Why is your gf accepting the ride in the first place? Honestly, you are showing signs of insecurities and someone whu even bothered to pick ur gf up from school shows that the person is showing some interest in your beloved
Make a change for her. Try to pick her up from school and send her to her work place or ask her / persuade her to quit the work and find another Such sacrifices can only be noticed by some one who makes the extra mile 
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last time my boss will send me home after work (cos i off at 9pm+, sometimes 10pm+)
sometimes even got go supper.....
nothing much mah.....he juz wants to make sure tt i reach home safely cos it's quite late...err....can consider worker's benefits....
partly oso bcos quite shun lu.......but even not shun lu he will oso drive me home -
cos she say she can save time travelling then can go home n rest a while before goin to work again at her nearby work place.wat u want me to do is to send her go work? cos normally my sch ends 1 hr earlier than her then i used to wait for her to finish sch then together take mrt home.
if she take MRT home,then not much time for her to rest.but i never send her till home also last time.i just leave on my stop which is on the same direction as hers.now i find it tiring to wait for her everytime cos i wish to go home n sleep.btw,she only works twice a week.
Hm,give rides to employees means interested meh? but that guy is married and has a family liao leh.somemore my gf said she work there for quite some time already. -
haha ur boss scared to go home at night alone la..Originally posted by FireIce:last time my boss will send me home after work (cos i off at 9pm+, sometimes 10pm+)
sometimes even got go supper.....
nothing much mah.....he juz wants to make sure tt i reach home safely cos it's quite late...err....can consider worker's benefits....
partly oso bcos quite shun lu.......but even not shun lu he will oso drive me home
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then FI,
do u think your boss is interested in you or something? wat did ur bf say? btw,does ur boss give only u a ride home or also to all his employees? -
Originally posted by Master -_-:haha ur boss scared to go home at night alone la..
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guys,u think i should make an effort to go home together with her or just let her sit her boss car go home?
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maybe u not so chio, thats why he never take action mah ! hehe .. Oops kiddinOriginally posted by FireIce:last time my boss will send me home after work (cos i off at 9pm+, sometimes 10pm+)
sometimes even got go supper.....
nothing much mah.....he juz wants to make sure tt i reach home safely cos it's quite late...err....can consider worker's benefits....
partly oso bcos quite shun lu.......but even not shun lu he will oso drive me home
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if that's e reason y her boss not taking actions,then i rather my gf stay un-chio or become less chio.haha! seriously,wat would u do? wait for her or let her go home wif her boss with a peace of mind?
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wait for her.Originally posted by coverboy17:if that's e reason y her boss not taking actions,then i rather my gf stay un-chio or become less chio.haha! seriously,wat would u do? wait for her or let her go home wif her boss with a peace of mind?
as you said, she only works part-time, 2 days a week. means the boss damn eng la, specially 2 days go and fetch her. this not counted as interested is what?
why doesnt the boss fetch other people instead leh? how about fetching his guys employees.
something is amiss... -
So nice boss? A lift is ok..but fetch her from school is.............Originally posted by coverboy17:Guys,would u mind if ur gf takes a lift from her boss to work.cos my gf works part-time after school then her Boss would give her a ride to work.Meaning that her boss come to her sch to fetch her.
i'm ok with it initially but a friend who learnt abt it advised me to be careful cos maybe my gf's boss may be interested in her even though he is married and has a family.i'm starting to get worried also.wat do u think guys? -
the boss dun have male employees.dunno whether he got give a lift to his other female employees thou.i also thinking where got Boss so nice one?
but there's nothing much i can do mah besides waiting for her after sch go home together.but she still has to see her boss when she goes to work.i told her to quit the job or something but she say she needs the $ to buy things....too bad i poor guy,if not....i would give her pocket money then she no need work liao.then i also no need worry here n there liao.
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he is married
got mistress liao somemore
where got interest in me............
he do send other employees home oso........which is MY SIS! hahahahahah -
seriously speaking, i feel u ought to take the initiative to send her home whenever u can(not just cause u dun lkike the boss to send her to work etc). at least it shows that u appreciate her. for me, i ALWAYS send my gf right up to her door step even if i am super duper tired after sch. we live at two ends of singapore! i feel its worth the sacrifice just to see her reach home safely. sometimes i do get tired but then its up to each individual.Originally posted by coverboy17:guys,u think i should make an effort to go home together with her or just let her sit her boss car go home?
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ur GF sexy ? im sure this ans can ans ur question.
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Its ok la
Not all men are scum
perhapes he sees her as his daugther -
More or less, I think that the boss is interested in your girlfriend. You know... this 'thing' in most guys... Don't really know how to say actually.
Just be careful and talk to your girlfriend more, let her know your worries. Hm... I guess it is the same thing for FireIce's situation last time. -
.Originally posted by Wind:I guess it is the same thing for FireIce's situation last time.
huh?
simi thing?
aiyah.....dun always have such negative tots mah
some guys are naturally bery caring towards females....with no ill intentions...
ppl's yi fan hao yi let u say until he is se lang....
it's good to be cautious
but do not jump to conclusions -
Yes, don't let this thing carry on anymore. A married man can also have flings outside..Originally posted by coverboy17:guys,u think i should make an effort to go home together with her or just let her sit her boss car go home? -
Sometimes we close 1 eye and let those things pass by telling ourselves its nothing.
When things get out of hand....... only do we start to take action. But sadly things had already gone out of hand.
It may be a positive thing or it may be a negative one.
People may say you do not put trust in your gf hence no point in the relationship.
People may also say your stupid knowing things already getting out of hand and yet you took no actions to cease the situation from developing.
People may also say should she "truely" love you, she wouldn't had "veered" off course and like another guy.
Whatever they may say. Ultimately you have the final decision to decide which of the above implies to you.
Do spend some time together more often on weekends and catch up on things with each other.
Worst you could do is the fire away by saying she's unfaithful and all that. -
True lar, I may be jumping to conclusions. But as what they say in the forum, you are pretty and guys will definitely be more caring for you. Compare yourself to another plump lady, you think your boss really will want to have supper with her or stuffs like that?
some guys are naturally bery caring towards females....with no ill intentions...
ppl's yi fan hao yi let u say until he is se lang....
I am being very, very realistic and frank here and may sound a bit offensive. But I really think that this is true for most of the cases. Of course, if the boss is really that caring and kind enough, I have nothing to say. A true gentleman. These guys exist, but near to extinction. -
i agree with the fact that if a gal aint pretty.. a stranger(this case BOSS) wont pick the person up everyday. maybe once a week but not everyday!! so most prob i also think the same that boss is interested in ur gf. but funny why he interested in sec sch gal...Originally posted by Wind:True lar, I may be jumping to conclusions. But as what they say in the forum, you are pretty and guys will definitely be more caring for you. Compare yourself to another plump lady, you think your boss really will want to have supper with her or stuffs like that?
I am being very, very realistic and frank here and may sound a bit offensive. But I really think that this is true for most of the cases. Of course, if the boss is really that caring and kind enough, I have nothing to say. A true gentleman. These guys exist, but near to extinction. -
depends on what type of person her boss it.
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thanks to all who have contributed helpful suggestions n opinions.i have come to a conclusion liao.that is...i have revealed to her my fears and i do trust my gf la.btw,she's not a sec sch gal.we are both in poly now.hehe! i'm gonna spend more time with her now....