Help me ): .
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I think my crush's treating me differently from the other guys in the class. I feel very depressed. She plays with the guys, talks with the guys, but never spoke to me, at all. Our only form of communication is sms. I admit i'm shy. I don't dare to talk to her. But over the 2 years, she had never never talk to me before. She said we were good friends, but i don't tihnk good friends don't even talk at all? Seeing her playing with the other guys makes me feel very very sad. I don't know why she is treating me so unfairly..
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Originally posted by Swiftwinds95:
I think my crush's treating me differently from the other guys in the class. I feel very depressed. She plays with the guys, talks with the guys, but never spoke to me, at all. Our only form of communication is sms. I admit i'm shy. I don't dare to talk to her. But over the 2 years, she had never never talk to me before. She said we were good friends, but i don't tihnk good friends don't even talk at all? Seeing her playing with the other guys makes me feel very very sad. I don't know why she is treating me so unfairly..
Why don't you try taking some initiative instead?
Good friends and boy friend is different though
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Well i'm very shy and i don't know what to say when i see her..
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Originally posted by Swiftwinds95:
Well i'm very shy and i don't know what to say when i see her..
You'll have to try to overcome it if not you will always have problems in future and not many girls like boys that are too shy and quiet.
Anyway, you still so young, should not think so much about relationships. Most guys loss their gf in NS anyway so its better to get 1 after NS where u got more time and hopefully money to be with her.
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would u rather be shy or lose her?
come on. u have balls anot sia? -
Well i wanna be good friends with her. She said we are good friends but i don't think we are because we don't even talk...
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Originally posted by Swiftwinds95:
Well i wanna be good friends with her. She said we are good friends but i don't think we are because we don't even talk...
Good friends doesn't mean people who talk everyday nor does someone you talk to everyday means he/she is a good friend.
As the saying goes, a friend in need is a friend indeed. When things happen, its the best time to see who a person treat as her real friends when she chooses to approach that person rather than others.
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But how to overcome shyness?
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Originally posted by Swiftwinds95:
But how to overcome shyness?
Thats an internal thing. If you really value that friendship, you will be able to find some courage within yourself to overcome it. If you can't, it could just mean shes not that important and you view yourself as more important than her.
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Originally posted by dkcx:
Good friends doesn't mean people who talk everyday nor does someone you talk to everyday means he/she is a good friend.
As the saying goes, a friend in need is a friend indeed. When things happen, its the best time to see who a person treat as her real friends when she chooses to approach that person rather than others.
I always try to help her when she has problems but i think perhaps she don't even appreciate..
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Originally posted by Swiftwinds95:
I always try to help her when she has problems but i think perhaps she don't even appreciate..
If thats how you feel, give her up and focus more on your work. Your purpose as a 14/15 yr old student is to study hard to do well and not to start dating.
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I just hope she can treat me as normal as how she treats the other guys.
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Originally posted by Swiftwinds95:
I just hope she can treat me as normal as how she treats the other guys.
Can you behave as friendly/outgoing as the other guys? That should be the question you are asking yourself.
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To others i'm like that. but to her, no.
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Originally posted by Swiftwinds95:
To others i'm like that. but to her, no.
Then you'll have to try to solve that problem cos noone can help you solve problems that have the root in yourself.
If you want someone to like you, you have to be able to behave normal with them. If you behave akward, quiet etc etc, no girl will feel interested in you.
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You say its a crush right? You know whats a crush anot? means you like for awhile only,after that you don't give a damn about her.
So forget it and study.
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see her as a friend. are you shy towards your guy friends too? if not you can talk to her as talking with a friend.
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Originally posted by gunner77:
You say its a crush right? You know whats a crush anot? means you like for awhile only,after that you don't give a damn about her.
So forget it and study.
wa very straight forward in the face ah haha -
I have no problem talking with the other guys. Wow she's been ignoring me now. I don't know why, just suddenly...
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Originally posted by Swiftwinds95:
I have no problem talking with the other guys. Wow she's been ignoring me now. I don't know why, just suddenly...
That's because she has started to notice the way you have been looking at her secretly and all. I think it's best that you avoid contact with her for now. -
Originally posted by Swiftwinds95:
I have no problem talking with the other guys. Wow she's been ignoring me now. I don't know why, just suddenly...
Give yourself sometime to settle ur thoughts. Can you and how can you change urself to be more like the people she likes (If you really die die want her)
If not, i would suggest just give her up and focus on your studies, 15 is too young for relationships anyway and most relationships at this age won't last long.
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Hmm lol.. misunderstanding. She wasn't ignoring me.
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shy lanjiao la
u want get ur girl anot
grow some balls 1st can
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Originally posted by gigabyte14:
shy lanjiao la
u want get ur girl anot
grow some balls 1st can
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Drink Milo, cos its marvellous what Milo can do for you.