Originally posted by XiaoBunbun:Oh well, if it is so discouraging, why suggest navy? Anyways, I am just feeling really tired...really...
or u go sign on commando lar
pay v good
but rem to take up more insurance plans
??discouraging???u mean u afraid???..............well other places like army n airforce got no accomodation to stay back in camp.only got free food and salary.but if they see u scared to die i think they throw u out b4 u step into any base or camp.
Originally posted by keeptouch:
I thought you are a student studying psychology or something like that?
Why you can't counsel him?
In S'pore, to qualify to be a counsellor, you need a MSc in Clinical Psychology or Counselling.
I am still very far from that since i've only attended MHFA and basic counselling courses etc so i'm more qualified to give supporting help etc and totally not qualified to give proper counselling.
TS,
The problem is not out there somewhere - all that u are and u suffer is cos (guess) is u are always comparing yourself and comparison is a disease.
Also u are being self-conscious - which means u are disconnected from what u are. what u think of yourself is not what u are. What u are is always WHAT U ARE NOT.
Till u accept and understand that - u can do and still u will feel lost.
My suggestion is that u UNlearn the way u look at life n people and take it from there.
PS - Wayne Dyer's Your Erroneous Zones is a 'good' start!
Hmm...Xiaobunbun i think u should find a stable job.perhaps the kind that works afew days in a week (so u can study too?), in that way u will at least have a stable income.
Money is the root of all evil, solve the money problem first.
When u made it to private poly get a few close friends, friends are wonderful angels that lights up our lifes. Choose the correct friends and you will get the support and understanding that u cannot get from home. Then perhaps you will find the strength to carry on. Life always goes in a V shape, just have to hold on and last through the low times =)
Have faith~