One can delude oneself and stick to one's opinions/views and lull oneself into thinking that one knows 'all'. In other words - it is merely perpetuating ignorance. Having an open mind means the willingness to put aside one's prejudices,beliefs and be open to differing views. That does not mean one has to embrace,imbibe or subsribe.
The predicament is many only hear what they want to hear and see what they want to see. That in itself - speaks volumes of oneself.
Originally posted by keeptouch:
waste money
i got concession
depends on age group and ur living condition.
some are still young or still sheltered. havent kena shit yet so of cuz they will say 'no'.
some are too shallow, the enjoy the material shit in this life that have no permanence, they will say 'no'
some jus seem to have it all-for now and they enjoy it, so they will say no.
The above are jus good example of how pampered most Singaporeans are-embarrassing
some have religion meaning and purpose, so they will say no. but they understand how u feel as they probably wrestled with that question themselves until they found the answer, these people will help you find your meaning to existence.
for me is a Yes, i felt that way, still feeling that way, but gonna crawl out soon.
mean while you can read a book by Viktor Frankl 'Man Search for Meaning' this is a good book to ponder.
Originally posted by keeptouch:Anyone here find life meaningless?
Like you do not know what you want in life.
You do not know what job/career you want to work as and you just change from 1 job to another until you are coming to 30 years old/already 30 years old/or maybe even 40 years old already.
You are old already but still do not have a career. You are alone by yourself got no gf/bf/husband/wife.
You don't even have close friends at all.
Everyday you go to work and force yourself to do a job that you hate with long working hours, shitty boss and collegues and miserable low pay. After work you go back home and watch tv and sleep and the next day the same routine goes on.
You live life 1 day at a go not knowing what you want in life.
Anybody here is experiencing this?
You write like this mean you r a big loser. Only losers can think like this. I dislike people who write this kind of rubbish, it is like saying to people who are not married in their 30s are losers. It is all in the mind. Get rid of your stigmatism.
Work sucks, so what? Take the challenge. Got one haopor there disturbing you? Take the challenge to repel it. Learn.
Just because a person is 30s and married doesn't mean they are much more happier than you. I know a friend who is married but he is not happy because the wife wants things run her own way. I know another friend whose kid is suffering from leukemia, and he and his wife are having sleepless night, worrying over the child.
What is happiness? It is all in your head. It is even a challenge to take a breath of air into your lungs. What is that? It is a smell of freedom filling your gills.
Hard to find close friends? Then go out there and get one, two or ten. Dunno how to do it? Then learn. Now there is a new objective in your life. Learn how to find friends. At least youhave one more reason to know why u are living for.
Hard to find wife? Then learn. But beware. There are many ungenuine women out there who pretend to like you. They are public exhibitionist, they like to use third party and get you to go after them in the sight of public - draw you in the open to make a clown out of you.
Go look for legitimate relationships, you go for your choices. Don't care about what people say to you, you have your own opinions. You want a gf or wife who can be your friend, not the fakes out there or the haopors who come to harass you.
i dont even have a job to go to.
not me..
Life itself is meaningless, it is what you do with your life that is meaningful.
When you have nothing to do, no goals, no motives in life, you find life meaningless.
As programmers like to say, garbage in, garbage out. Take some initiative and you'll get some meaning. Sit around waiting for things to happen, you get nothing.
Life meaningless = self sympathy, therefore kill urself = problems solved. ![]()
Think about it..there are alot more unfortunate pple vying for the kind of life we all are having.
Dono how this thread suddenly came to life again.Remember he wrote this in January but now it is middle of March.You no see him here anymore he is beginning to find some meaning oreaddy!
lol or maybe he's dead
Originally posted by Shorter ninja:Dono how this thread suddenly came to life again.Remember he wrote this in January but now it is middle of March.You no see him here anymore he is beginning to find some meaning oreaddy!
From recent posts, I wouldn't quote get the champagne corks flying just yet.
Originally posted by _Da_Dood_:lol or maybe he's dead
His nickname is definitely dead but his clones will live forever and ever .Amen
Originally posted by Shorter ninja:His nickname is definitely dead but his clones will live forever and ever .Amen
Amen.
Originally posted by Gedanken:From recent posts, I wouldn't quote get the champagne corks flying just yet.
Hey,Ged how have you been? Speaking of change did you notice I got shorter.![]()
Originally posted by Shorter ninja:
Hey,Ged how have you been? Speaking of change did you notice I got shorter.
Don't worry good things come in "Small"
Originally posted by Arapahoe:
Don't worry good things come in "Small"
Off the topic but to reply to you about the sleeping in Parliament thingy.You know there was a minister in Japan who commited suicide a few months back.This guy who frequently talked crap and a regular sleeper in Parliament was also caught pissed drunk at some of his press conferences....so he is something like a cross between WKS + Mabok Tan .....Sorry for that lame joke but the world could do without one less politician like him and I am glad he took himself out of the equation
Well, you got almost all my points here. I'm 'crying' without tear nor sound. But life still have to carry on, what to do....sigh! I'm in total distress,... no one to talk to or share, things seen to be not going your way,...too many things too little time,...Everyday I'm telling myself to hang-on, .... :~ (
Originally posted by Shorter ninja:
Hey,Ged how have you been? Speaking of change did you notice I got shorter.
Ehh, same old, same old. Training a new crew and prepping for an ISO audit tomorrow.
I did notice the new nick - what's the story?
Originally posted by Gedanken:Ehh, same old, same old. Training a new crew and prepping for an ISO audit tomorrow.
I did notice the new nick - what's the story?
All these time I've been talking crap here then suddenly one day I kena banned for saying the right thing>LOL
Originally posted by Shorter ninja:Off the topic but to reply to you about the sleeping in Parliament thingy.You know there was a minister in Japan who commited suicide a few months back.This guy who frequently talked crap and a regular sleeper in Parliament was also caught pissed drunk at some of his press conferences....so he is something like a cross between WKS + Mabok Tan .....Sorry for that lame joke but the world could do without one less politician like him and I am glad he took himself out of the equation
was he from the lower house? ha ha so what was it japanese gang or fullfil election promises....
life to me now is meaningless.somehow, you can just feel whats gonna happen next.
i only know how to work work work :D
Originally posted by Behemoth tan:You write like this mean you r a big loser. Only losers can think like this. I dislike people who write this kind of rubbish, it is like saying to people who are not married in their 30s are losers. It is all in the mind. Get rid of your stigmatism.
Work sucks, so what? Take the challenge. Got one haopor there disturbing you? Take the challenge to repel it. Learn.
Just because a person is 30s and married doesn't mean they are much more happier than you. I know a friend who is married but he is not happy because the wife wants things run her own way. I know another friend whose kid is suffering from leukemia, and he and his wife are having sleepless night, worrying over the child.
What is happiness? It is all in your head. It is even a challenge to take a breath of air into your lungs. What is that? It is a smell of freedom filling your gills.
Hard to find close friends? Then go out there and get one, two or ten. Dunno how to do it? Then learn. Now there is a new objective in your life. Learn how to find friends. At least youhave one more reason to know why u are living for.
Hard to find wife? Then learn. But beware. There are many ungenuine women out there who pretend to like you. They are public exhibitionist, they like to use third party and get you to go after them in the sight of public - draw you in the open to make a clown out of you.
Go look for legitimate relationships, you go for your choices. Don't care about what people say to you, you have your own opinions. You want a gf or wife who can be your friend, not the fakes out there or the haopors who come to harass you.
Nevetherless, a life without family, even you have half of Jack Neo's career (Not about the flirting part) will be a pity (Or rather not, just feeling something is missing)
Originally posted by Arapahoe:was he from the lower house? ha ha so what was it japanese gang or fullfil election promises....
Drinking problem and stupidity but he claimed he was drinking cough mixture,I dont know how people can yamseng everynight on Wood's Peppermint or Breacol >LOL..He was one of Prime Minister Aso's right hand man in the Cabinet.