hseng,
u just met her only....so by right u shouldnt feel much fer her.just joke wiv her like a normal guy...just pretend she has a moustache and a pair of balls.....gals are better than boys in some ways in that that they dun insult u .just joke back wiv her or something man!!!ya a man.......real men dont get insulted by gals!!!maybe u are way too serious....!!who knows maybe one dY THAT MALAYSIAN GAL WOULD BREAK OFF WITH HER BOYFREND BECAUSE HE FOUND ANOTHER BETTER GAL!
forget about the malaysians....most of my friends whonmarried malaysian gals all end up having a hard time and life.some were assaulted by wife and another one virtually being starved from body builder in NS to skeleton.others were dumped after years of serious relationship.
malaysian gals prefer guys who own some kinda property,,,this is more pronounced with city gals or gals who have worked in the city.so far i have never met with a nice smiling sweet malaysian gal.most think they are worth a million dollars and like spore needs them type of attitude.:(some who are nice are already taken
some malaysian girls are good. dont spoil his image of malaysian girls
Till now i still wonder why didn't she tell me eariler that she wouldnt consider me if she didnt have a bf and not on that day she rejected me. If she told me straightaway when i confessed to her, i would have back off completely. But well... at least she still do ask me out as a friend in a group after all that has happen.
I hope i can forget her fast...i still have a little feelings for her ><
Hi Hseng, dont be sad, time will heal. Even though you have little feeling towards her..it is ok. Dont make her feel uneasy when you are in groups. You must try to behave normal. Treat her as your normal colleagues. Move on. Do something like jogging, excerises, eating....time will heal. Good Luck!
Originally posted by Hseng25:Till now i still wonder why didn't she tell me eariler that she wouldnt consider me if she didnt have a bf and not on that day she rejected me. If she told me straightaway when i confessed to her, i would have back off completely. But well... at least she still do ask me out as a friend in a group after all that has happen.
I hope i can forget her fast...i still have a little feelings for her ><
Ah Hseng
this is good news....now you can finally drop her and move forward.....One less obstacle and not to stuck with someone who doesn't have you in Mind..... time to go out on new dates and find a person that is waiting for you....
Now that you have experience feeling you can managed and give to the right person...A person fall in love will find another person....not to worry.
really they are for people who cannot afford local sgreans wives. if they do mark up their requirements, those who can afford already go for local gf and wifes. though sg girls majority really cost much to maintain when tehya re single or married, lots of malaysian man really also going for them, all in all they only want a shot at the 'singpass'.
Yes, there are many beautiful and sweet girls out there.
I am sure next time you will be able to handle this.
good luck finding ur future dream lady.
I think this lady is not your biggest problem !
I don't think you realise another issue looming up at your office. Surely, you and her are beginning to become the subject of office gossip. If this goes up to your bosses - it is not going to reflect well on you. Good luck, my friend.
Hseng,
Very interesting topic. I am a Malaysian and I tell you Malaysian Chinese women are a handful. I don't know much but I do know one thing, what they like is a game or a wild goose chase. Be very careful of that.
There are two case: Case 1 - The girl likes you but doesn't like you enuf to accept you, so she leads you on and tricks you to like her even more. In the end, she got it all figured out, how to reject you while making you feel you still have a chance. This makes her feel so much better knowing that her market value is beefed up and boost her own self esteem.
Case 2: She doesn't like you at all, so she brings her best friend to go after you and cover her arse. Her best friend will continue to have total fatal attraction for you while you continue to struggle to escape her powerful radar. While you are distracted by her hideous friend, she goes out on her own to strengthen her rship with her current bf.
Dude, you are Case 1 - it is not so bad for you. You can still bring yourself together. The best thing to find a proper relationship is to be friends with the gal not to chase her like Olympic Gold Medal. Answer is do you want to find a life partner or a trophy case?