My chance to backstab my ememy

• Dondontan

  10 Mar 10, 20:27

  Originally posted by Jiani:

  i don't think i am going to see her ne4xt year

  
  Forget it, leave her alone.    AFterall she does not help others

• Jiani

  10 Mar 10, 20:37

  ended

  majority-

  no

• A.T.R

  10 Mar 10, 21:23

  i see more advantages in saying yes...

• gigabyte14

  10 Mar 10, 21:42

  grow up la

• Veggie Bao

  10 Mar 10, 23:40

  Wa...

  Just be a witness and say the truth.

  This thing and that thing are two different matters.

  Dont do something wrong.

  Just do the right things.

  If you find her unpleasant, you can keep a distance from her, but no need to do something negative to her.

  Please listen to uncle.

• Poh Ah Pek

  10 Mar 10, 23:47

  Originally posted by Jiani:

  she criticized me in my blog, tell my friends not to friend me, spread rumors about me

  I don't know what i have done

  The end 

  12 years old messing around with this type of crap already on blogs? I don't support kids using computers and surfing web. 

• Dondontan

  11 Mar 10, 00:28

  Originally posted by Poh Ah Pek:

  12 years old messing around with this type of crap already on blogs? I don't support kids using computers and surfing web. 

  
  She is considered mature for a child of her age to post on this issue asking for feedback.    Better than some adults who refuse to grow up.

• Poignant

  11 Mar 10, 00:41

  im going for a YES

• Dondontan

  11 Mar 10, 00:42

  Originally posted by Poignant:

  im going for a YES

  
  Decision was a no.   By 8 last night she expected to reply.

• Poignant

  11 Mar 10, 00:45

  Originally posted by Dondontan:

  
  Decision was a no.   By 8 last night she expected to reply.

  her final decision was a no?

  omg

• Dondontan

  11 Mar 10, 00:46

  Originally posted by Poignant:

  her final decision was a no?

  omg

  
  yup

• jojobeach

  11 Mar 10, 02:25

  Originally posted by Dondontan:

  Decision was a no.   By 8 last night she expected to reply.

  I think you should at least include your reason for saying "no".

  When we punish children, we explain to them why they were being punished, so that they may learn.

  Let her know that, after her spiteful attempt to discredit/dishonor you, you have no obligation to help her out.

  Else you will only be confirmed as the kind of jerk she's been telling others about.

   

   

• Jiani

  11 Mar 10, 17:13

  My reason to "no" is by voting in this site, majority wins. I have to give my answer by 8:35. 

• Fugazzi

  11 Mar 10, 19:13

  By backstabbing  you are no better than her - the sensible thing is to ignore or walk away.

  And if you do choose to 'help'' by all means go ahead but it has to come from you as a genuine thing.

   

• Dondontan

  11 Mar 10, 19:47

  Originally posted by Fugazzi:

  By backstabbing  you are no better than her - the sensible thing is to ignore or walk away.

  And if you do choose to 'help'' by all means go ahead but it has to come from you as a genuine thing.

   

  
  I don't think so.    Her friend is just having a taste of her medicine.   

  Do you know her personally to say she is no better than her friend?

  You make it sound that jiani is all at fault. 

• Fugazzi

  11 Mar 10, 19:58

  The question of knowing the whether the other is good/bad/rite/wrong other is irrelevant. What matters is what one is being?

  If he/she is upset - it is what thsi person has always been. The other just brought it out.

  Being vengeful is unwise and it at the end of it all, detrimental to one's being and emotional being. It is alienating oneself and in the same process being caught in the game of rite/wrong.

  Of course, i offer views/opinions but if it does not resonate or seems untenable to anyone or even TS, so be it, simply lump it.

   

• Dondontan

  11 Mar 10, 19:59

  So preachy.

• brainerror

  14 Mar 10, 14:15

  beware of retributions!

• Pitot

  14 Mar 10, 14:24

  Hi, I'm 11 and what is this?

• Jiani

  15 Mar 10, 14:30

  Originally posted by Pitot:

  Hi, I'm 11 and what is this?

  you 11? wow. you joined sgforums at the age of 6?that's k1.

  this is some kind of disagreement between classmate.

• Jiani

  15 Mar 10, 14:31

  Originally posted by Dondontan:

  
  I don't think so.    Her friend is just having a taste of her medicine.   

  Do you know her personally to say she is no better than her friend?

  You make it sound that jiani is all at fault. 

  you sound like you know me

• Frustrated_guy

  15 Mar 10, 16:51

  You know what they say. "When a person is down, it's time to kick some dirt at tat person."

• parn

  15 Mar 10, 17:05

  Originally posted by Jiani:

  ermmmm, i need advice

  My ememy, is in trouble.

  If not enough wittiness to her event

  she will be in big trouble

  extremely big

  today, she want me to be her wittnesss

  should I be?

  Should I not be so as to backstab her????

  
  If you are asking like this, means you know you should help her right?

  But just because you don't feel nice about doing so, you need us to persuade you to do the right thing?

  Nobody can persuade you to make any decision against your own will.

  I will wait and and find out what decisions you would take...be it help her or not help her.

   

  This should be interesting, please continue to update us on your decision.

• kengkia

  15 Mar 10, 22:41

  Originally posted by parn:

  
  If you are asking like this, means you know you should help her right?

  But just because you don't feel nice about doing so, you need us to persuade you to do the right thing?

  Nobody can persuade you to make any decision against your own will.

  I will wait and and find out what decisions you would take...be it help her or not help her.

   

  This should be interesting, please continue to update us on your decision.

  what would u do if u were in TS's shoe?

• ditzy

  15 Mar 10, 22:43

  As much as I don't like someone, I should do no evil, for I believe only in retribution.