Sick of mind games!
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Hey, i am an18 year old girl sick as hell with the mind games that the people (especially those i care for) subject me to all the time.
And i must admit here, so you understand the situation a lil' better, that i am lesbian.
So this girl who i think has the same orientation as i do admits to having romantic feelings for me. She shares my woes about being the "social deviant". She and i have much to talk about, and have gone on several dates together of which the outcome has been fantastic. We somehow just have chemistry.
However, these days, she seems fairly distant and she seems to be wanting out because i want to take our relationship at a slower pace. And i think she does this only to make me cling on even tighter to her.
You see, whenever such a thing happens i will always go crying back into her arms. BTW, She's a 25 year old lady so i expect her to be a lot more experienced than me and i fear she is becoming manipulative of my emotions, knowing very well that i'm head over heels in love with her.
What should i do please?
Please don't hate on me.
And i know that most of you are heterosexual beings but its not wrong to be gay. I can't really help it can i?
rachel
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First of all, you're still young. Are you absolutely sure of your sexual orientation? From wat you say, she (your interest) appears to be sure of wat she wants (i.e. hard and fast) since she aint young anymore. She is probably worried that you're just taking her as a 'fling'. Are you still schooling or working? It's probably advisable to consult your school psychiatrist regarding this matter. It could affect your studies and/or work performance if she continues to behave like this.
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Originally posted by Raarachel:
Hey, i am an18 year old girl sick as hell with the mind games that the people (especially those i care for) subject me to all the time.
And i must admit here, so you understand the situation a lil' better, that i am lesbian.
So this girl who i think has the same orientation as i do admits to having romantic feelings for me. She shares my woes about being the "social deviant". She and i have much to talk about, and have gone on several dates together of which the outcome has been fantastic. We somehow just have chemistry.
However, these days, she seems fairly distant and she seems to be wanting out because i want to take our relationship at a slower pace. And i think she does this only to make me cling on even tighter to her.
You see, whenever such a thing happens i will always go crying back into her arms. BTW, She's a 25 year old lady so i expect her to be a lot more experienced than me and i fear she is becoming manipulative of my emotions, knowing very well that i'm head over heels in love with her.
What should i do please?
Please don't hate on me.
And i know that most of you are heterosexual beings but its not wrong to be gay. I can't really help it can i?
rachel
What do you mean it is not wrong to be gay?It's very wrong to be gay, take a look at yourself in the mirror and you shouldn't be in love with someone in your own gender.
Just because many insensible, self-righteous people in the world supported gays, doesn't means they are GOD or even qualified to change the laws of nature.
Ask GOD ok? IF you don't have a GOD in your life, then go ask your Parents!
It is wrong to be gay, stop lying to yourself and if you need to ask for support to overturn the fact that it is wrong to be gay, then you already know it's wrong to be gay.
Please pay more attention to the screaming voice within yourself and do not deny it!
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Your mind playing games on you.
There are lesbians and there are gays and there are friends.
The line that separate these is not very clear.
When does friendship, spill over into a gay relationship, or a gay relationship into a lesbian experience.
You seemed eager to cast yourself as a lesbian. Check that your mind isn't telling you that you are "advanced' and "cool" and a "lesbian". At eighteen there is a need to rebel, by becoming a "social diviant". Thats how the hippie and free love movements started out in the sixties.
Your new found friend may not share the same views as you. She's a lot older and mature, and although she enjoys your attention, may not share your percieved orientation. It is not uncommon for two person to click well. And thats all there is to it.
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Whoever supports gays, lesbians, homosexuals and other unnatural entities.......I hope all your children will be gays, lesbians, homosexuals and other unnatural entities so that they can join you to pledge their full support!
But if there's any aliens, espers or time-travellers out there, I want to be your friend.
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Originally posted by parn:
What do you mean it is not wrong to be gay?It's very wrong to be gay, take a look at yourself in the mirror and you shouldn't be in love with someone in your own gender.
Just because many insensible, self-righteous people in the world supported gays, doesn't means they are GOD or even qualified to change the laws of nature.
Ask GOD ok? IF you don't have a GOD in your life, then go ask your Parents!
It is wrong to be gay, stop lying to yourself and if you need to ask for support to overturn the fact that it is wrong to be gay, then you already know it's wrong to be gay.
Please pay more attention to the screaming voice within yourself and do not deny it!
Actually it is the preference of an individual.We are not god so we shouldnt pass judgment on ppl based on their sexual preference....
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Originally posted by parn:
Whoever supports gays, lesbians, homosexuals and other unnatural entities.......I hope all your children will be gays, lesbians, homosexuals and other unnatural entities so that they can join you to pledge their full support!
But if there's any aliens, espers or time-travellers out there, I want to be your friend.
*me points at kengkia...I'm sure he's special in someway
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Originally posted by Kenashi:
Actually it is the preference of an individual.We are not god so we shouldnt pass judgment on ppl based on their sexual preference....
Don't be stupid please, same gender can reproduce or not? Can same gender have a future together or not?If gender isn't important, why don't everyone has the same gender? GOD made two genders because we're supposed to multiply and populate forever.
Do you see any other non-human living things/creatures that are gays, lesbians, homosexuals?
Don't tell me you have just ate the brain of a gay pig ok?
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Originally posted by parn:
Don't be stupid please, same gender can reproduce or not? Can same gender have a future together or not?If gender isn't important, why don't everyone has the same gender? GOD made two genders because we're supposed to multiply and populate forever.
Do you see any other non-human living things/creatures that are gays, lesbians, homosexuals?
Don't tell me you have just ate the brain of a gay pig ok?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gay_animalsActually, there is~
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Originally posted by ^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gay_animalsActually, there is~
Shit you ..... purposely come and disturb me is it? -
Originally posted by ^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gay_animalsActually, there is~
These animals are weirdos animals........must be because they were eaten by normal humans then the normal humans became gays or a support of gays then his gay shit get eaten by other docile normal animals then the docile normal animals also became gays and then the cycle kept on continuing forever waiting for a natural disaster to come and kill them all. -
You need a big cock to solve all your problems.
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Originally posted by parn:
Shit you ..... purposely come and disturb me is it?sort of...
I just tot it would be funny~
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Originally posted by ^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~:
sort of...
I just tot it would be funny~
yep funnythe thing about 30k ring is more funnie
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Hey guys, you are not helping her by saying whether homosexuality is right or wrong. Instead, go straight to the point and provide effective solutions.
Raarachel, its good to know that you both are actually in love with each other. But due to society oppression, one of you wanted out. We cannot change how society perceive homosexuals, but you guys can choose to learn how to face up and live your own life, or continue to live by society guidelines.
Back to your problem. Do not assume on what she is trying to do to you. Ask her to her honest with you, is it really because she think there is no future in this r/s? or that she does not really love you that she decided that she wants to get out of this thing. She might not be playing mind games as what you have said, it could be that she is confused with what she wants. Humans have their moments of insecurities too. Age does not equate to maturity and experience. As I said, do not assume, check your facts. Due to assumption, you could most probably bring down a beautiful r/s.
If you really love her. Be determine and know what you want. Tell her what are you planning to do, that you are going to woo her, and ensure that she is prepared. Love can't feed on air either. She's 25, she should be working. Who's going to foot the bill? Think about it yourself, when you yourself are all sorted out, talk to her nicely about your plan.
When it comes to love, i don't believe whether there is a right or wrong, i only know its about brain chemistry. =) Good luck. I will keep tab on this topic, do update on your progress.
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Originally posted by gunner77:
You need a big cock to solve all your problems.
LOL i am so totally agree with it
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Originally posted by parn:
Don't be stupid please, same gender can reproduce or not? Can same gender have a future together or not?If gender isn't important, why don't everyone has the same gender? GOD made two genders because we're supposed to multiply and populate forever.
Do you see any other non-human living things/creatures that are gays, lesbians, homosexuals?
Don't tell me you have just ate the brain of a gay pig ok?
DONT be self righteous pls....
If I based on what u said, then if a man or woman cannot conceive, then he or she should live a loner life???
Ask yrself if that logic makes any sense to your brain...
See hermaphrodites, they dont have separate sexes...n they know how to multiply...so dont give me those BS...
Dont tell me you have eaten the brain the size of dinosaur so that is the size of yours right now, ok....
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Originally posted by parn:
These animals are weirdos animals........must be because they were eaten by normal humans then the normal humans became gays or a support of gays then his gay shit get eaten by other docile normal animals then the docile normal animals also became gays and then the cycle kept on continuing forever waiting for a natural disaster to come and kill them all.
zzzzzzz..So if mankind is wiped out by a natural disaster...it prove that the whole mankind is gay...lol.....
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Originally posted by TYING:
Hey guys, you are not helping her by saying whether homosexuality is right or wrong. Instead, go straight to the point and provide effective solutions.
Raarachel, its good to know that you both are actually in love with each other. But due to society oppression, one of you wanted out. We cannot change how society perceive homosexuals, but you guys can choose to learn how to face up and live your own life, or continue to live by society guidelines.
Back to your problem. Do not assume on what she is trying to do to you. Ask her to her honest with you, is it really because she think there is no future in this r/s? or that she does not really love you that she decided that she wants to get out of this thing. She might not be playing mind games as what you have said, it could be that she is confused with what she wants. Humans have their moments of insecurities too. Age does not equate to maturity and experience. As I said, do not assume, check your facts. Due to assumption, you could most probably bring down a beautiful r/s.
If you really love her. Be determine and know what you want. Tell her what are you planning to do, that you are going to woo her, and ensure that she is prepared. Love can't feed on air either. She's 25, she should be working. Who's going to foot the bill? Think about it yourself, when you yourself are all sorted out, talk to her nicely about your plan.
When it comes to love, i don't believe whether there is a right or wrong, i only know its about brain chemistry. =) Good luck. I will keep tab on this topic, do update on your progress.
We r just having fun....lol...
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I think you need friends, so that even if yr lover ignore u, u can still confide in friends n spend time with them.
If not, u can always find a hobby or sport to occupy yr time.
ppl tends to cling to others becos they dont know what to do with their spare time.
Gd luck...
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Originally posted by Kenashi:
zzzzzzz..So if mankind is wiped out by a natural disaster...it prove that the whole mankind is gay...lol.....
u know... there's a southpark episode abt this...how the new age mankind are all gays...
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If the r/s causes more unhappiness than happiness then it's not worth it...
You said you will go back crying to her...why don't you be more independent? No offence but I don't think anyone likes a clingly girlfriend...
Maybe one day you see that there are better people out there who are more worthy of your love.
PS: Ignore the gay haters, they're the least of your problems.
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i'm sick of the mind games played in epl too...
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Originally posted by Kenashi:
DONT be self righteous pls....
If I based on what u said, then if a man or woman cannot conceive, then he or she should live a loner life???
Ask yrself if that logic makes any sense to your brain...
See hermaphrodites, they dont have separate sexes...n they know how to multiply...so dont give me those BS...
Dont tell me you have eaten the brain the size of dinosaur so that is the size of yours right now, ok....
Haven't you heard of adoption? Don't you know you can adopt a child??
How do you think gays couple can form a family without going through any form of gender alteration operation?
Which kampung cave hole did you come out from? And where have you been to?
Throw away your gay pig brain soup and learn from me ok?
I don't accept gays or their followers, looking for aliens, espers or time-travellers only.
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Originally posted by parn:
Haven't you heard of adoption? Don't you know you can adopt a child??
How do you think gays couple can form a family without going through any form of gender alteration operation?
Which kampung cave hole did you come out from? And where have you been to?
Throw away your gay pig brain soup and learn from me ok?
I don't accept gays or their followers, looking for aliens, espers or time-travellers only.
wat abt kengkia????