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Too much friends?

• _Da_Dood_

  26 Mar 10, 20:39

  Originally posted by goofyzell:

   

  Well said on the last part...

  
  ten kew ten kew

• goofyzell

  30 Mar 10, 15:44

  no updates from TS?

• TTFU

  30 Mar 10, 15:46

  Too busy to reply you see

• ^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~

  30 Mar 10, 16:04

  Originally posted by TTFU:

  Too busy to reply you see

  
  

  

• goofyzell

  30 Mar 10, 16:12

  oh... ya hor...

• Rock^Star

  30 Mar 10, 16:50

  When i was a teen, i wanted to please the various groups here and there, hung out with them even though i didn't like their hangouts. Then, I slowly found myself and started saying no. They also forgot about me. Those who remembered and cared, I'm still in touch with them after these donkey years.

  Start saying NO, that's when you will really find your true friends in the long term.

• Simple~Gal

  31 Mar 10, 11:55

  thanks guys especially to the ones that should stand up for myself. I really took your words for it. But i cant just say no because it will be rude and they will think badly of me so i just making up excuses and it works. lying rocks haha. But they still contact me though maybe it just needs more time. But i think i will feel guilty sooner or later about this. Thats what my brother said to me

• Rock^Star

  31 Mar 10, 11:58

  don't lead your friends on, it will be detrimental to your reputation in the long term.

• _Da_Dood_

  31 Mar 10, 11:59

  Originally posted by Simple~Gal:

  thanks guys especially to the ones that should stand up for myself. I really took your words for it. But i cant just say no because it will be rude and they will think badly of me so i just making up excuses and it works. lying rocks haha. But they still contact me though maybe it just needs more time. But i think i will feel guilty sooner or later about this. Thats what my brother said to me

  
  Soon u will find urself in a tangled mess of lies and deception..people who likes u will start doubting you...

  Kill the cancer even if it means losing an arm...don't let it spread

• _Da_Dood_

  31 Mar 10, 12:00

  Originally posted by Rock^Star:

  don't lead your friends on, it will be detrimental to your reputation in the long term.

  
  Off topic : hey whats that name of the show u use for ur avatar ?

• Simple~Gal

  31 Mar 10, 12:03

  so u guys expecting me to lose lots of friends? omg serious? i dont want that.

• AEW5001

  31 Mar 10, 12:05

  Originally posted by Simple~Gal:

  so u guys expecting me to lose lots of friends? omg serious? i dont want that.

  
  u have to learn to balance

  too few or too much is not a very good thing

• _Da_Dood_

  31 Mar 10, 12:10

  We don't expect anything..its ur life and in fact we have no rights to tell u what decision u have to take..its just the 2 cents worth of us...and i believe some of us here has had such similar problems before, being hurt by such things, being in self denial, being in predicaments...so its an advise to you before u sink into much more difficult situations that such problems will definately lead to..

  Keep those worth keeping thats all i can say...ur only 1 person and theres only so much 1 person can do... 

• ^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~

  31 Mar 10, 14:13

  doood extremely helpful in this thread wor...  

  *Prinnies go "DOOOOOOOOOD~"*

• _Da_Dood_

  31 Mar 10, 14:25

  Originally posted by ^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~:

  doood extremely helpful in this thread wor...  

  *Prinnies go "DOOOOOOOOOD~"*

  -_-

  *me takes baseball bat and swing at acid's head

• Hanagata

  31 Mar 10, 14:36

  well you can just cancel the plan that you have with your grp c friend and meet out again some other time, firstly i must say having alots of friends is a good thing as you have while social circle of friends. bad part is you need to manage your time well for each indivual grps of friends you have.

  to solve this problem, plan your time well for everything.

• iwanplaeplae

  31 Mar 10, 21:29

  u lose some u gain some... lose frens gain frens... if u spend lesser time with a.... n more on b... uill b closer to b ... n soon u wont nid a... cos they probably wont notice tad ure gone since u always not there ma... sooooo choose 1 group n stick to it for life... tads how u find true frens

• Fbghost12

  1 Apr 10, 23:53

  I had this problem. Schedule your upcoming activities and all will be fine.

• TTFU

  2 Apr 10, 00:00

  Do you have off day ? whats your pay per month ?

• goofyzell

  3 Apr 10, 11:39

  Originally posted by TTFU:

  Do you have off day ? whats your pay per month ?

  erm... wat does that have to do with her having too many friends?

• _Da_Dood_

  3 Apr 10, 11:43

  Originally posted by goofyzell:

  erm... wat does that have to do with her having too many friends?

  
  cuz he want to jio her mah...hor TTFU??

• Simple~Gal

  5 Apr 10, 10:49

  its official. one of group which is my badminton friends hates me. My badminton friends are the groups that can only bring me out active and energise, thanks alot u guys. I was expecting an answer like giving me some time table schedule or something.

• Simple~Gal

  5 Apr 10, 10:51

  posted 2 times by accident

• iwanplaeplae

  5 Apr 10, 10:57

  easy.. get the badminton ones to fall in love with the other group 1 ... both side fall in love den they will come together :) 1+1=3

• goofyzell

  5 Apr 10, 11:47

  i thought you have many friends? go find or organise another group to play badminton lor...