relationship practicality
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Originally posted by TTFU:
Minimise the quarrels, go for girls that respect your religion. We dont need religion dramas in our relationships
Religion dramas is more for Tiny TVShould i put this in for Parnie's and Keng Keng's romance story
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Originally posted by azoboi:
haha cant i liked her.. and im hesistating should go after her though . well i guess i need to find out whats her views on this..but as you know its quite hard to find out from her friends or only she know best
What if she doesn't even like you?
Then no problem le!
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yes.
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ok thats not answering my question..
ok my simple question is: to any christian girl out there... do u prefer a christian bf over a nonchristian bf or should 'clicking' with each other more impt such that you can put this different a lower priority.
No need give your reasons.. just yes or no would do
haha
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Originally posted by azoboi:
haha cant i liked her.. and im hesistating should go after her though . well i guess i need to find out whats her views on this..but as you know its quite hard to find out from her friends or only she know best
Find out more then, if she is the dominating sort. Or the really religious type. I guess you can find out some clues from the way she behave etc etc.
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Originally posted by azoboi:
ok thats not answering my question..
ok my simple question is: to any christian girl out there... do u prefer a christian bf over a nonchristian bf or should 'clicking' with each other more impt such that you can put this different a lower priority.
No need give your reasons.. just yes or no would do
haha
if the girl is 100% devoted, very strict christian, i suggest u forget bout it unless u are willing to change ur religion
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Originally posted by _Da_Dood_:
if the girl is 100% devoted, very strict christian, i suggest u forget bout it unless u are willing to change ur religion
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hardcore christian girls will give up their bf over religion, but before that, they will force you to go to church and all the events that come with it!!!! zzzzzz
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Originally posted by Fbghost12:
hardcore christian girls will give up their bf over religion, but before that, they will force you to go to church and all the events that come with it!!!! zzzzzz
and if all else fails to get u in, thats it, goodbye -
My gf is christian. I'm an atheist. She respects my decision not to subscribe to any religion, neither does she demand me to go church with her.
Ultimately it depends on the girl. You should ask her directly, like "Hey you're christian right? What if next time your bf not christian? You'll still want to marry him anot?"
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Originally posted by azoboi:
so would you , as a guy, let the girl know that you are holding a differnet religious belief from her , WHEN you first know the girl? or should dont let her know till she love you. lolz
Are you a Muslim, btw?
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Originally posted by KrenByte:
My gf is christian. I'm an atheist. She respects my decision not to subscribe to any religion, neither does she demand me to go church with her.
Ultimately it depends on the girl. You should ask her directly, like "Hey you're christian right? What if next time your bf not christian? You'll still want to marry him anot?"
why don't you start by sharing your atheist views and see her reaction. if she bo chup means she not hardcore christian.
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http://petfrd.com/forum/articles.php?action=viewarticle&artid=54
taz lim who call himself the boss of fish shop.
who cheated his friend's money RMB$150,000.
WHO A FOXY.
who cheat so many girl from china.
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anyway, i'm having a Christian gf now.. things don't look good. esp if all her frds is mostly from her church side and all church events.
so much so that im becoming more and more anti christ from all the 'Christians' way of doing things and, preacher's presence of coz.
zzzzzzzz
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(mental note to self; next time know any new charbo always ask 'are you a christian?')
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Our KFC Colonel has spoken...he is right, need to ask
/me offers milo to neozl
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huh... dun pour urself to me lah.. -___-"
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Of course it is possible, but it does have a rather low success rate. Even if both parties were to be mutually accepting of the differences, the parents of each person might disagree. If conversion by any one party is required, it is best to see if the reaction of the parents show even the slightest disapproval- it is a strong indicator that they most likely will not give their blessings should there be a marriage.
When such a time comes, both parties have to be rationally aware of their situation and come to terms with it. It is better to nip something in the bud before making it escalate by being blissfully unaware of the consequences.
To put things into perspective, let's say Muslim girl (MG) is going out with Christian guy (CG). They've been dating for say, 2 years and have come to the 'meet the parents' stage. Assuming CG is willing to give up his religion for the girl, both parties have to see whether CG's parents are receptive to the notion or idea. It will be especially difficult if they are staunch Christians and brought up CG to be a staunch Christian as well. If they show horror, disapproval, or even pass hints that they would not like it if their son is to turn Muslim (e.g. passing comments like he should remember to go to church even after marriage), then it is a very good indicator that they are not going to be receptive of the conversion.
This is then where both parties have to discuss the situation and decide if they want to try to push their luck or to start cutting the relationship off. It's better to cut it off earlier than later, because things might get complicated later on. Therefore even though it is hard, it is the most pragmatic solution available if both parties want to save themselves from more heartache and time/money wasting in the future.
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When u love a person,there are no boundries.
If u discriminate against knowing or marrying a certain religion ppl,u are no different from a racist or a murderer.
Its ppl who discriminate against each other that we have wars and fights.Dun find more reasons to hate each other.
If god is listening(whoever ur god is),he will send u to hell...
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I come from hell to bring you all down !!
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Originally posted by Worcer:
When u love a person,there are no boundries.
If u discriminate against knowing or marrying a certain religion ppl,u are no different from a racist or a murderer.
Its ppl who discriminate against each other that we have wars and fights.Dun find more reasons to hate each other.
If god is listening(whoever ur god is),he will send u to hell...
Ohh? Quite bold of you to group racists into the same group as murderers. Nevertheless, I do understand your resentment and stong feelings about it, which is why you probably believe in it with such a flawed sense of justice.
You are quite right though, to say that discrimination is one of the issues that leads to wars and fights, though the real reason behind discrimination would actually be fear and pride.
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Originally posted by Mr Milo:
Our KFC Colonel has spoken...he is right, need to ask
/me offers milo to neozl
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how old r u?? look... religion issue in r/s aint gonna go far. Cos if u n her spent like 4-5 yrs in r/s but diff religion. Juz bcos of that one main problem it can make u hurt. It will b srsly mafan n more heartbroken than ever... tink le.
u both knw each other so well n planning to get married. Wat if both of u refuse to switch religion to one another?? tat is srsly difficult. If u pick love over religion than had a "behind the ppls back" marriage n juz heck care.... tat is romantic but of cos, it'll b sinful but as if anyone care being sinful nowadays.
my point is there's no hope for future in diff religion. Just close frens.... if u continue doin this, u will have a broken heart n emo more than ever n mayb u will start blaming why ppl have religion n stuff.....