how long does it take to get over someone?

• icymeatball

  3 Apr 10, 01:37

  he was my first love. it has been more than a year since we broke up, but i still feel the pain everyday. i really dont know what should i do..everytime i try to make a stand, something about us just comes back and makes me feel that maybe one day we will be together again. my heart cant take this anymore..just how the heck do you get over somebody? 

• AcidBoy

  3 Apr 10, 01:48

  go get a new hobby and get obsessive with it....1 week or so ok liao

• _Da_Dood_

  3 Apr 10, 01:51

  how long have both of u been together?

• icymeatball

  3 Apr 10, 02:02

  3 years..

• AcidBoy

  3 Apr 10, 02:02

  Originally posted by _Da_Dood_:

  how long have both of u been together?

  her boyfriend name is wu fu

• _Da_Dood_

  3 Apr 10, 02:06

  Originally posted by icymeatball:

  3 years..

  
  and the reason for calling it off?

   

• Noahtay

  3 Apr 10, 02:09

  it alway the hardest to get over your 1st

  an advice

  1. keep all those stuff that made u remember him somewhere (best is ask a friend to help u safe keep it so that u will not be able to see those stuff)

  2. keep yourself busy so that u dun have time to think abt him

  3. time will heal

  4. do not abuse yourself to alcohol to make u forget him

  i took 2 years plus to get over her

  if u need someone to talk to u can pm me.

  all the best, take care

  god bless

• _Da_Dood_

  3 Apr 10, 02:12

  Originally posted by Noahtay:

  it alway the hardest to get over your 1st

  an advice

  1. keep all those stuff that made u remember him somewhere (best is ask a friend to help u safe keep it so that u will not be able to see those stuff)

  2. keep yourself busy so that u dun have time to think abt him

  3. time will heal

  4. do not abuse yourself to alcohol to make u forget him

  i took 2 years plus to get over her

  if u need someone to talk to u can pm me.

  all the best, take care

  god bless

  help me oso leh...me oso heart pain pain (:

• littlemissbonkers

  3 Apr 10, 02:17

  Originally posted by _Da_Dood_:

  help me oso leh...me oso heart pain pain (:

  *brings out the whips*

  This will distract you

• Fbghost12

  3 Apr 10, 02:17

  hais... girls are so emo...

  for me after i break up with girls, i just keep thinking "she's a bitch".

  works for me.

• littlemissbonkers

  3 Apr 10, 02:18

  eh frozenmeatball are you a gal or a guy?

  opps sorry..cock eyed le...never see this...he was my first love.

  

  It's all your nick's fault! :P

   

• _Da_Dood_

  3 Apr 10, 02:19

  Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:

  *brings out the whips*

  This will distract you

  
  OMG you found me >.<

  * me runs

• _Da_Dood_

  3 Apr 10, 02:20

  Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:

  eh frozenmeatball are you a gal or a guy?

  
  ish call icymeatball leh...u ba jiu tah stamp arr??

• _Da_Dood_

  3 Apr 10, 02:23

  Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:

  eh frozenmeatball are you a gal or a guy?

  opps sorry..cock eyed le...never see this...he was my first love.

  

  It's all your nick's fault! :P

   

  
  Ooo someone's head ish twisted...see meatball only nao zi wai wai liao

• Noahtay

  3 Apr 10, 02:24

  Originally posted by _Da_Dood_:

  help me oso leh...me oso heart pain pain (:

  oh is it which boi break your heart

  tell me or popika

• littlemissbonkers

  3 Apr 10, 02:25

  Originally posted by _Da_Dood_:

  
  Ooo someone's head ish twisted...see meatball only nao zi wai wai liao

  You better run

  *sharpens butcher knife*

   

• _Da_Dood_

  3 Apr 10, 02:26

  Originally posted by Noahtay:

  oh is it which boi break your heart

  tell me or popika

  
  waaahhh...boi wor....me no gay leh...-_-''

• littlemissbonkers

  3 Apr 10, 02:27

  Originally posted by Noahtay:

  oh is it which boi break your heart

  tell me or popika

  His lover must have been a huge hairy man...which one of you fits the description?

• _Da_Dood_

  3 Apr 10, 02:27

  Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:

  You better run

  *sharpens butcher knife*

   

  
  no need la..u cannot catch up de =P

• _Da_Dood_

  3 Apr 10, 02:28

  Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:

  His lover must have been a huge hairy man...which one of you fits the description?

  
  huat de fug??? i huan to womit blood liao

• littlemissbonkers

  3 Apr 10, 02:28

  Originally posted by _Da_Dood_:

  
  no need la..u cannot catch up de =P

  *throws butcher knife at da toot's head*

• icymeatball

  3 Apr 10, 02:28

  Originally posted by Noahtay:

  it alway the hardest to get over your 1st

  an advice

  1. keep all those stuff that made u remember him somewhere (best is ask a friend to help u safe keep it so that u will not be able to see those stuff)

  2. keep yourself busy so that u dun have time to think abt him

  3. time will heal

  4. do not abuse yourself to alcohol to make u forget him

  i took 2 years plus to get over her

  if u need someone to talk to u can pm me.

  all the best, take care

  god bless

  ..i tried but sometimes the emo-ness just really overwhelm me and i feel like i cant take it, zzzz. 

• littlemissbonkers

  3 Apr 10, 02:31

  you know...you sound like a fren of mine...she was dumped by her BF of 3 years and couldn't forget the asshole...

  Hmmm eventually she got over it...by whinning and crying for months on my shoulder...

  *wipes tears* I'm such a good fren...

• Rooney9

  3 Apr 10, 02:33

  Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:

  you know...you sound like a fren of mine...she was dumped by her BF of 3 years and couldn't forget the asshole...

  Hmmm eventually she got over it...by whinning and crying for months on my shoulder...

  *wipes tears* I'm such a good fren...

  you can recommend me to her. I will console and make her forget him

• littlemissbonkers

  3 Apr 10, 02:36

  Originally posted by Rooney9:

  you can recommend me to her. I will console and make her forget him

  Haha dun need alr

  Anyway...she's kinda scared of committing into another relationship again...