Why did guy reject girl after one meet-up?
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Just get used to it how guys see girls. However not all guys like that lah really. Hope you find your prince charming soon =)
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No leh, so far, 98% of the online guys ive met are shallow.
They only like one type
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What type ? Aiyo everyone also like that de mah, first impression always is looks...
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those long hair, petite, slim, gentle, demure, feminine type..
Miss one inch by it..and they just rule you out permanently without any consideration
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I dont think so strict lah.... girls also very niao with guys wat. Communication most important lah really...
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same thing as how girl look at us guy...
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really so strict..dont believe u ask those net guys
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Originally posted by bigthumbfoot:
Girl knew Guy from a online dating site. After a week of chatting and viewing of pictures, Guy asked girl out for a short meet-up
They met shortly and girl felt that guy was a nice guy. It was a normal cafe meeting with a normal short conversation, but girl felt that guy wanted to leave like 30 minutes into the conversation
Guy wrote in his online dating profile that he dislike shallow people and girl thought that he was sincere in knowing more people, and definitely not the shallow type.
After the meet up (which ended rather shortly), girl did not hear from guy . Guy did not bother to msn or sms her after the date.
Girl however still have a good impression of guy and decided to contact him. Guy replied politely but kept telling girl that he is currently super busy with his work and wouldnt be able to even chat with her even on msn.
Girl told guy that she wants to know him better. BUt guy turned her down flatly by sayin that he finds that there is no chemistry between them and they cant click. Girl told him that it is impossible to tell whether you have chemistry with a person from one date, but guy said he could tell very accurately. Guy then went on to say he just wanna remain as friends with girl and that he would never consider her as a lifepartner. He even went far to say that he does not want to know her better, and would only wanna be friends with her now and forever. Which means. girl as totally no chance..
Girl doesnt know why the guy is giving her such an absolute NO. its like guy would never ever like her or consider her but just see her pemanently as a friend. Girl ask is it due to her looks. Guy claimed no, and that he only goes for feelings. Guy said girl looks ok, and doesnt know why girl think he is rejecting her on the basis of looks
Under this situation, what could be the real reasons why Guy is totally rejecting girl just after a meeting?
pretty obvious that the guy just judge her by the cover.well, its also common that this guy just couldnt accept her for the way she it or the way she looks, so yeah.just forget him.its pointless because he is just way too shallow, predicting that his accuracy is 'accurate'. dont be with such guy luh, they bring you no good.since moore and more guys are becoming so judgemental, tell him to zip his virgina.
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anyone wanna see how he looks like
pm me
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Send me loh
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ugly
or armpit never shave
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Originally posted by TTFU:
Send me loh
dun send to him. wait he post at forum here
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send me lor
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Originally posted by bigthumbfoot:
anyone wanna see how he looks like
pm me
If you plan to send the photos, just want to note a small disclaimer that AA is so not going to be involved in this whole saga should this escalate somehow.P.S: Before you send, just remember that he also has your photo too.
Cheers
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Originally posted by bigthumbfoot:
those long hair, petite, slim, gentle, demure, feminine type..
Miss one inch by it..and they just rule you out permanently without any consideration
So have you given a thought about how you've behaved or are you still trying to comfort yourself with the excuse that he's "probably having super high expectations"? Cause from what I've read in your replies, you seem to be ignoring all other aspects when they've been offered for suggestions and only harping on about the physical looks issue.
I'm quite curious to know your thoughts. Care to share?
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i tink i behaved normally and appropriately
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Originally posted by bigthumbfoot:
those long hair, petite, slim, gentle, demure, feminine type..
Miss one inch by it..and they just rule you out permanently without any consideration
I am one of the 2% then.
I do not care about the external appearance of a girl, and only ask of two things from a girl, but these two things easily made me an even more demanding guy than those you mentioned.
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dear if we worry about what every tom dick or harry in Singapore think or say about us, we’d never get to leave the house.
don’t take it personally. what he thinks is beyond your control.
btw he rejected you like a gentleman. why would you still want to send his photograph to others and subject him to judgement?
not cool.
grow up.
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This guy is woefully insecure; moreover love reduced to a transaction is an insult to the other - which of course, is insulting oneself!
This gal is lucky lar - he saved her lots of misery.
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Wow, saw lots of post bashing guys saying guys goes for look. Girls aren't that holy themselves, they are the same as guys, going for look.
Same as guys, you can too find girls discussing which guys is cute, handsome, ugly or plain boring.
Afterall, we are all humans. A judgmental creature.
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hmmmm...........
after reading the post by TS, i am thinking....
am i the guy mentioned?
the situation described is almost the same as what i had........
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101% of sluts go for $$$$$
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but, nope, it is not me
the girl neber ask me those questions as mentioned by TS
somemore, i din say anything at all
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TS,
one thing you also don't know is that a lot of girls also reject guys very harshly. Rejection is part and parcel of life. You simply cannot avoid it. What you are doing is fighting for your ego only. When the guy does the rejection, people say he's insecure/superficial/whatever. And then, suddenly it becomes guy's fault for being a guy. Guess what? The same applies to girls too. Girls DO look at the guys if he's handsome enough for her. That's reality.
Remember, it takes 2 to tango. So, drop that ego. He has to make a decision fast and has done so. Don't take it personally. Respect his decision and move on.
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See the pic for what...??
Pointless leh........