Originally posted by gikiwiki:the girl i m seeking is one who is emotionally independent, can take charge of her emotions well. i never started out looking for someone who is emotionally dependent. i never said this to her, but she is actually not my type. i'm not attracted by looks (per se). character and inner beauty are more important to me.
you only have 1 problem and here is your key to the probelm- if your words themselves can create another image of you physically where she needs it, i guess you don;t have to worry abt her asking for your attention too much then.
Originally posted by Annilator47:
you only have 1 problem and here is your key to the probelm- if your words themselves can create another image of you physically where she needs it, i guess you don;t have to worry abt her asking for your attention too much then.
don't understand what you mean...
anyway, i don't have a problem anymore :)
Originally posted by gikiwiki:
don't understand what you mean...anyway, i don't have a problem anymore :)
what i mean is that if you managed to say some strong words which really can represent a part of you to what she needs then it might keep the attention she wants which bothers you lesser.
for starters, i think you need to state to her that well..you just human, not godlike, not able to appear as and when she wants and also you have your limits on things you can do , morever tell her things you dislike and draw the line there, telling her that any means crossing over it(the line) is really making it worst than better.
Originally posted by gikiwiki:i never started out looking for someone who is emotionally dependent. i never said this to her, but she is actually not my type. i'm not attracted by looks (per se). character and inner beauty are more important to me.
there was once when i thought that she is Ms Right. for a while i thought so and stuck with her despite all the shit. unfortunately it never took off. even as i posted this thread, i still could accept going through life with her. but i think she has many issues to sort out. thus i'm now inclined to think she is Ms Right Now.
it's good to have a shift of paradigm once in a while
it's sickening when you have to witness her thoughts as she sorts out her past, present and future. the way the "relationship" is conducted was never normal in the first place.
sounds like my current gf's situation...
Originally posted by TTFU:Yours diff, his is like to gao ai mei, play tricks, seeking constant attention. Sounds like my secondary school romance
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