rejected, but i still want her...
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Hi guys, erm i hav dis problem. 2 days ago, i confessed to the girl i like, and she kinda didnt give an ans, so i asked her to think about it and tell me the next day. So last night, after a concert, i walked her home, and then asked her, and she still said she asked me what kind of ans i wan, so i said" i dont know"( i noe im srsly very stupid), so she started walking slower and slower until we reached the lift, and then she waved goodbye to me, and so i waved back while the doors were closing.
After that, i got a text from her, saying that she is really sorry as she didnt expect it, and that we'll be better friends. So i asked her do i have a chance, and her reply was, " i dno, coze i cant imagine the 2 of us together."
End of story, so until now, i have been feeling very very sad, i cried last night but didnt want to tell her as it will bother her. I dun wna trouble her anymore, but at the same time i really want to be with her, what shod i do?
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woah. so cute ar.
Learn to accept rejection, it'll make you to become a stronger person.
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How you want us to help you? She already said no lei
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Im sorry, no is not an option, please try again
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Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:
How you want us to help you? She already said no lei
maybe he wants us to intro some kong tao masters to him.. then he do kong tao on the girl to make her fall for him -
Originally posted by Lorry`:
maybe he wants us to intro some kong tao masters to him.. then he do kong tao on the girl to make her fall for him
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how long have u been friends with her.
to make a gal say yes to be your gf, 1st must win her heart wor.
anyway u still have chance to be together wif her if she is not avoiding u then take things slowly to woo her
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Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:
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dun like that leh..
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Originally posted by Lorry`:
dun like that leh..
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u bloody fuck up sia.kana reject u cry for what???u not even in a relationship .fuck spider better
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8 posts of crap and still no advice. Interesting. I will say since the girl has already made her stand. Take a step back and slowly loosen yourself from this one sided relationship. Dwelling in that only hurts you more. Take a step back and try to be friends. Who knows, she might fall for you later =)
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You might still have a chance. Exphasize on the word 'might'. I'd suggest you don't think too much about it, and don't hope or expect anything. Consider it as gone for now. The more you expect something, the lower the chances of it happening.
Consider her as a friend for now and continue being nice to her because you might never know what would happen next. In the mean time, don't think about her and distract yourself with something that can cheer you up. No point being so upset about it.
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Originally posted by uber_troubled:
Hi guys, erm i hav dis problem. 2 days ago, i confessed to the girl i like, and she kinda didnt give an ans, so i asked her to think about it and tell me the next day. So last night, after a concert, i walked her home, and then asked her, and she still said she asked me what kind of ans i wan, so i said" i dont know"( i noe im srsly very stupid), so she started walking slower and slower until we reached the lift, and then she waved goodbye to me, and so i waved back while the doors were closing.
After that, i got a text from her, saying that she is really sorry as she didnt expect it, and that we'll be better friends. So i asked her do i have a chance, and her reply was, " i dno, coze i cant imagine the 2 of us together."
End of story, so until now, i have been feeling very very sad, i cried last night but didnt want to tell her as it will bother her. I dun wna trouble her anymore, but at the same time i really want to be with her, what shod i do?
screwed la u..when she ask wad answer u want u should stand firm and say i want u to say yes...u liddat dunno dunno any girl hear liao sure reject u la..so indecisive...po po ma ma.. -
Originally posted by uber_troubled:
Hi guys, erm i hav dis problem. 2 days ago, i confessed to the girl i like, and she kinda didnt give an ans, so i asked her to think about it and tell me the next day. So last night, after a concert, i walked her home, and then asked her, and she still said she asked me what kind of ans i wan, so i said" i dont know"( i noe im srsly very stupid), so she started walking slower and slower until we reached the lift, and then she waved goodbye to me, and so i waved back while the doors were closing.
After that, i got a text from her, saying that she is really sorry as she didnt expect it, and that we'll be better friends. So i asked her do i have a chance, and her reply was, " i dno, coze i cant imagine the 2 of us together."
End of story, so until now, i have been feeling very very sad, i cried last night but didnt want to tell her as it will bother her. I dun wna trouble her anymore, but at the same time i really want to be with her, what shod i do?
Just treat her nicer and show more care about her stuff and etc. Since she say dono then the chance is there. Why will trouble her ? And stop crying please
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Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:
How you want us to help you? She already said no lei
x 2....move on man.staying wouldnt help U.
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you cried because you got rejected by her? what would you do if she accepted you and in the future, you 2 broke up?how old are you anyway?
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you lost because you decided to move right in without first making sure that she likes you.
brother, make her chase you la... thats the sure win method.
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go and have a drink ...get to know more sluts....socialize more and see yourself as the leading actor in your growing journey to become a real man....soon u will realize that the forest has many trees....leave those who refuse to bear fruit for u...and harvest those who bow their branches towards you....
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FIRSTLY, SORRY FOR USING CAPS AS SMT WRONG WITH MY KEYPAD (USING PHONE).
IF CRYING MAKES YOU FEEL BETTER THEN JUST CRY OUT LOUD. YOU KNOW SOME GIRLS THINK DIFFERENTLY, HER ANSWER WAS I DON'T KNOW, YOU PROBABLY STILL HAVE A SLIM CHANCE?? PERHAPS SHE WANTS YOU TO TAKE MORE ACTIONS TO HER? PERHAPS SHE WAS DISAPPOINTED WHEN SHE ASKED U WHAT ANSWER YOU WANT, BUT YOU TOLD HER YOU DON KNOW?
COULD YOU LEARN TO BE MORE NOBLE IF SHE REJECTS YOU?
AND DONT BE OVERLY SAD IF SHE REJECTS YOU, THIS IS SOMETHING THAT EVERYONE WOULD EXPERIENCE IN THEIR LIFE AND WE LEARN FROM THAT.
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Originally posted by gr33ndoll:
FIRSTLY, SORRY FOR USING CAPS AS SMT WRONG WITH MY KEYPAD (USING PHONE).
IF CRYING MAKES YOU FEEL BETTER THEN JUST CRY OUT LOUD. YOU KNOW SOME GIRLS THINK DIFFERENTLY, HER ANSWER WAS I DON'T KNOW, YOU PROBABLY STILL HAVE A SLIM CHANCE?? PERHAPS SHE WANTS YOU TO TAKE MORE ACTIONS TO HER? PERHAPS SHE WAS DISAPPOINTED WHEN SHE ASKED U WHAT ANSWER YOU WANT, BUT YOU TOLD HER YOU DON KNOW?
COULD YOU LEARN TO BE MORE NOBLE IF SHE REJECTS YOU?
AND DONT BE OVERLY SAD IF SHE REJECTS YOU, THIS IS SOMETHING THAT EVERYONE WOULD EXPERIENCE IN THEIR LIFE AND WE LEARN FROM THAT.
LOL
*laughs at your caps*
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Disappointment =/= sadness
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learn to accept rejection..it might be painful in the beginning..but time will slowly let you FORGET about the pain...
anyway...if you think you still like her...do show that you do..maybe she will change her mind...
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woah, i understand how you feel... like someone else and never have it reciprocated. but i think you'll find someone better in life... time is on your side.
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Originally posted by dangerboi: you cried because you got
rejected by her? what would you do if she accepted you and in
the future, you 2 broke up?
how old are you anyway?
he will cry even louder and longer
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maybe u sound like this to her
"hi i have know you for propely 3 days. today is the 4th days, so can i fu_k you upside down ??? "
the girl propely reply u in this way
" i cant imagine you fu_king me upside down"
maybe u taken the action too fast.