How to get rid of that sucky feeling ..
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Originally posted by Geylang Boh Sia:
"how are you?", "I know I sound harsh", "you need a wake up call", "you complain about people who don't talk to you and things remain the same".
What kind of lame advice are you giving to the poor girl? Grandma Bonkers, I don't think you have any teeth at all because you wear false teeth. What the girl needs is good advice and good motivation. Not someone who used to share the same fate such as you.
Oh yeah? I don't see you posting any constructive comments so who are you to judge me?
By the way, I'm telling her all these so that she doesn't end up a loser like you, who only knows how to troll in internet forums and emo about how butt hurt you are because no one talks to eeeeeeuuuuu. Whatever.
The reality is, the world will not change for you. And you should be more pro active in finding ways of out your predicament instead. What I've suggested was one way, I didn't say it was the only one.
So get a life troll and find out why your life sucks.
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Wa Little miss got a lot of haters. Btw geylang boh do you happen to know Hitman ?
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Originally posted by TTFU:
Wa Little miss got a lot of haters. Btw geylang boh do you happen to know Hitman ?
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Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:
You preferred to be loved by many?You will be happier if you are not loved by many unneccesarily.
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Originally posted by Zhangjf7768:
feeling of 'unwantedness'.
Hi, it is me again. I have this 'problem' of me feeling sad/depressed/sucks/negative feeling whenever noone talks to me in a group outing.
For example, been outing with a group of 'friends' with their respective gfs.
Ok lah, I am a girl lah. There are about 3 ,4 females in the group who are gfs. I find that I hardly talk to them or is it they hardly talk to me also?
I have tried to take initiative to talk, say... one of the gf, then after that, full stop. No more conversation. Then just last saturday, I know it was rude not to reply but I just feel abit 'angry' and didn't even say 'goodbye' to one of the couples when they say 'goodbye' to me. Because the gf didn't even talked to me during the outing and even took photos with the other gfs except me. I felt left out.
Sigh..... I wonder, how can I get rid of this negative feelings of being left out? I am not talkative and creative to sustain interesting conversations.
gal gal Zhangjf7768 big group outing most of the time always is like that deif next outing try to keep the group small is 3 to 4 pple so most of the time will be talking wif each other rather the being left out
another point is go out wif like-minded friends.
cheers Zhangjf7768 and all the best
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Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:
Oh yeah? I don't see you posting any constructive comments so who are you to judge me?
By the way, I'm telling her all these so that she doesn't end up a loser like you, who only knows how to troll in internet forums and emo about how butt hurt you are because no one talks to eeeeeeuuuuu. Whatever.
The reality is, the world will not change for you. And you should be more pro active in finding ways of out your predicament instead. What I've suggested was one way, I didn't say it was the only one.
So get a life troll and find out why your life sucks.
There are already a lot of constructive comments by mature contributors here. I would only be repeating what they say. But you, you sound like one of those losers. No one wants to talk to me? And yet you are talking to me. Grandma, please put on your false teeth before you talk. Better a troll than a grandma who tries to relive her own past nightmares. You remind me of Drew Barrymore in "Never Been Kissed Before". Only problem is nobody wants to watch your movie. The poor girl already have a bad experience, don't need you to tell her what she grow into (you - the absolute nerd). I just want her to have confidence in herself.
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Originally posted by Geylang Boh Sia:
There are already a lot of constructive comments by mature contributors here. I would only be repeating what they say. But you, you sound like one of those losers. No one wants to talk to me? And yet you are talking to me. Grandma, please put on your false teeth before you talk. Better a troll than a grandma who tries to relive her own past nightmares. You remind me of Drew Barrymore in "Never Been Kissed Before". Only problem is nobody wants to watch your movie. The poor girl already have a bad experience, don't need you to tell her what she grow into (you - the absolute nerd). I just want her to have confidence in herself.
Believe whatever you want. Just don't blame heaven and earth when your shaky confidence is taken away and you have nothing to fall back on.
Nice imagination by the way.
Also, your posts are not contributing to this thread at all, instead you seem really butt hurt (did I dump you or something?). Thus, this would be my last reply to you (I have better things to do than talk to a troll).
Ciao!
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Originally posted by Geylang Boh Sia:
There are already a lot of constructive comments by mature contributors here. I would only be repeating what they say. But you, you sound like one of those losers. No one wants to talk to me? And yet you are talking to me. Grandma, please put on your false teeth before you talk. Better a troll than a grandma who tries to relive her own past nightmares. You remind me of Drew Barrymore in "Never Been Kissed Before". Only problem is nobody wants to watch your movie. The poor girl already have a bad experience, don't need you to tell her what she grow into (you - the absolute nerd). I just want her to have confidence in herself.
Personal fued much ?
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You need real friends...
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come SC outing make more friends
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Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:
Believe whatever you want. Just don't blame heaven and earth when your shaky confidence is taken away and you have nothing to fall back on.
Nice imagination by the way.
Also, your posts are not contributing to this thread at all, instead you seem really butt hurt (did I dump you or something?). Thus, this would be my last reply to you (I have better things to do than talk to a troll).
Ciao!
It is not an imagination. You are conjuring your own past and reflecting them upon Zhang. You are the one who is not contributing because you are giving her nightmares by showing her what she got grow into an unwanted orge such as you.
Haha, you must be so desperate that you would go to the extend of going for lesbian relationships. Sorry to disappoint you, I am already attached.
Good to know that this is the last because euuuu I don't want to be flirted by a lesbian like you. I have nothing against lesbians just that you are here giving bad examples to young ladies and seducing them too.
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Originally posted by Zhangjf7768:
feeling of 'unwantedness'.
Hi, it is me again. I have this 'problem' of me feeling sad/depressed/sucks/negative feeling whenever noone talks to me in a group outing.
For example, been outing with a group of 'friends' with their respective gfs.
Ok lah, I am a girl lah. There are about 3 ,4 females in the group who are gfs. I find that I hardly talk to them or is it they hardly talk to me also?
I have tried to take initiative to talk, say... one of the gf, then after that, full stop. No more conversation. Then just last saturday, I know it was rude not to reply but I just feel abit 'angry' and didn't even say 'goodbye' to one of the couples when they say 'goodbye' to me. Because the gf didn't even talked to me during the outing and even took photos with the other gfs except me. I felt left out.
Sigh..... I wonder, how can I get rid of this negative feelings of being left out? I am not talkative and creative to sustain interesting conversations.
Some people giv really nice vibes and bam you hit it off with them really quick .... some people just never warm up.
If the group of GFs you have you find it hard to click then dun bother ...go find another friend.... need not be a group also duh.
Some girls dun even have alot of GFs ... just hang out with a bunch of guys that treat her like one of them. (my wife)
Kind Regards
Genie