Facebook makes me feel inferior :(

• Zhangjf7768

  3 May 10, 20:27

  Sigh .... was surfing facebook, my friend's friend's photo album.

   

  Saw so many photos of group friends. I look at my facebook content.... so lonely.

  NO photos of friends, just some stupid 'trying to act secretive' pictures used to represent me.

  Sigh.... I see girls , take pretty photos of themselves, with bf, with group of friends, upload to facebook, sometimes I feel so ashamed to add ppl.

   

  That is why it is not too good to be too lonely.

   

• fudgester

  3 May 10, 20:32

  Then just delete your Facebook profile, and never return again. Ever.

  Cheers.

• TTFU

  3 May 10, 20:34

  Be confident. Dont zhai yi so much. People got people strong points, you got yours.

• Moka

  3 May 10, 20:39

  Please cheer up... Facebook does not reflect life. You post the things you WANT  people to see. It's biased towards the positive aspect of life.

• cassie

  3 May 10, 20:46

  FB isn't everything and you can always "populate" your home page. choice is yours, don't whine about it is i can say.

• 105090

  3 May 10, 20:51

  just play some facebook game, go to their fan page and start posting "add me"

• Forbiddensinner

  3 May 10, 20:59

  Originally posted by Zhangjf7768:

  Sigh .... was surfing facebook, my friend's friend's photo album.

   

  Saw so many photos of group friends. I look at my facebook content.... so lonely.

  NO photos of friends, just some stupid 'trying to act secretive' pictures used to represent me.

  Sigh.... I see girls , take pretty photos of themselves, with bf, with group of friends, upload to facebook, sometimes I feel so ashamed to add ppl.

   

  That is why it is not too good to be too lonely.

   

  It depends on the individual. I am a lonewolf, so being alone is fine with me. 

  However, if you are the majority who do not wish to be alone, go out more often with your friends, and have fun with them. Don't be shy, or you will not be able to know others.

• TTFU

  3 May 10, 21:01

  I dont have facebook too. My friends also dont have lol....

• Innocentmemories

  3 May 10, 21:26

  Speak up!
  
  Maybe you are too shy to get actively involved with your friends. Why not start with little things like, sending your friends on Facebook a note on their birthdays? Shouldn't be too difficult hor ^^

• Chester_Lim

  3 May 10, 21:28

  TS is guy or girl?

• littlemissbonkers

  3 May 10, 21:35

  TS are you a teenager?

  Anywayz...my advice to you is still the same (look at your previous thread).

  You can either go out and make frens or you adapt to loneliness...your choice.

  And if for some reason...your attempt to make frens fail....you can always join the outings hosted at SGF.

  The singles club seems to have alot of outings organised nowadays.

  So pluck up your courage and go for it.

• ChoCoChips

  3 May 10, 22:04

  no facebook, no such problems.

   

• S.H.

  3 May 10, 22:29

  "He who is unable to live in society, or who has no need because he is sufficient for himself, must be either a beast or a god."

  -Aristotle

• caleb_chiang

  3 May 10, 22:35

  Ai yo... Group photos can be you go to a birthday party and take with ppl you dun know who attended the party... no big deal.

• TTFU

  3 May 10, 22:38

  

• dangerboi

  3 May 10, 23:16

  

• gunner77

  3 May 10, 23:27

  You should join the group " Its better to have a few true friends than alot of fake friends. "

• _Da_Dood_

  3 May 10, 23:28

  Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:

  TS are you a teenager?

  Anywayz...my advice to you is still the same (look at your previous thread).

  You can either go out and make frens or you adapt to loneliness...your choice.

  And if for some reason...your attempt to make frens fail....you can always join the outings hosted at SGF.

  The singles club seems to have alot of outings organised nowadays.

  So pluck up your courage and go for it.

  
  hehehhe...i will drag u to the next outing

• littlemissbonkers

  3 May 10, 23:30

   

  Originally posted by _Da_Dood_:

  
  hehehhe...i will drag u to the next outing

  
  0_0

• gigabyte14

  3 May 10, 23:33

  just because they are smiling in fb pics doesnt mean they are happy

• ChoCoChips

  3 May 10, 23:34

  Originally posted by gigabyte14:

  just because they are smiling in fb pics doesnt mean they are happy

  wah

  hidden meaning gao gao!

  need listening ear  bo? 

• _Da_Dood_

  3 May 10, 23:39

  Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:

  
  0_0

  
  don't eyes big big..i poke them den u noe

• littlemissbonkers

  3 May 10, 23:42

  Originally posted by _Da_Dood_:

  
  don't eyes big big..i poke them den u noe

  

• _Da_Dood_

  3 May 10, 23:44

  Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:

  

  
  yupp yupp..exactly..once i poke them, ur face will be liddat

• Fcukpap

  3 May 10, 23:46

  bro...facebook has been a fashion parade of fakes ...too many of them....and i can understand your concern of looks...

  if u r not that bad....do something for yourself...work hard to make yourself feel more confident....take women charter as an example....it begins with men voicing and fighting for women rights in the parliament to establish the legal foundation to uplift the inferiority complex of women to their independence and confidence....

  capitalize more on the intangibles...the impact your very own facebook could make others and yourself feel good....but not to forget also to work hard on packaging yourself externally....as the famous adage - the laziest person is the ugliest ... well, dun be the laziest...

  dun be a "face value" book ....strive to express your beautiful innate