Originally posted by honeymouse:Well.... while you can't stop people from posting what they want to post on their facebook, you have a choice not to read it.. period!
There is a feature on FB that you can hide updates of your friends. That's what I do.... While I am interested in my friends' well being, not so much that I want to know what they do throughout the day.
Just remember, we can't change other people's behaviour but we can change our way to deal, react and manage things better.
Right balances of choices - keep it up & hope others (those who make 'noises' re FB) will do the same.
Originally posted by Hugh Hefner:
I really feel like blasting him. He really put us on the lurch and make us look silly by posting comments to support him but in reality he was just playing pity party with his girlfriend. Some of this people r so childlish, they just want public sympathy. You should flame him oso.
FB updates/comments are not necessarily in chronological order...they post in FB...cross over to SMS...then to phone...and then back to FB...of course U dont follow.
Originally posted by honeymouse:Well.... while you can't stop people from posting what they want to post on their facebook, you have a choice not to read it.. period!
There is a feature on FB that you can hide updates of your friends. That's what I do.... While I am interested in my friends' well being, not so much that I want to know what they do throughout the day.
Just remember, we can't change other people's behaviour but we can change our way to deal, react and manage things better.
Precisely. Or else why I keep my 600 friends? I am writing this because I happen to come across one Poster in Aunt Agony - I guess you can figure who, who said that he felt sad when he saw his friends doing so well in FB and it surprises us that a lot of people feel the same way.
I am not ranting. I am merely saying is that there is more life to FB. I am telling people here not to be fooled by the false advertising that thsoe contributing much to FB are doing so well. There is more to life than FB. I am only raising that awareness.
I am not trying to change people behaviour. I am telling those who feel envy of other people in FB not to feel this way but value what they've got even though they think they got very little but it is not the case.
Originally posted by richong 3216:Right balances of choices - keep it up & hope others (those who make 'noises' re FB) will do the same.
As I said, I am not trying to change people behaviour. I am trying to raise awareness on perception of FB. I am not saying FB is bad. I am only saying is that we should focus more on our lives than envy those who appear to have "good" life in FB. While we congratulate them on having a blessed life, we shouldn't envy them.
I am writing this because i saw one Poster in Aunt Agony complaining about his lack of social life when he perceived to have when he saw his other friends in FB doing so well. I am just giving the awareness that we can do better than FB. FB can enhance the quality of our lives but we should not make it a necessary evil.
Originally posted by richong 3216:Right balances of choices - keep it up & hope others (those who make 'noises' re FB) will do the same.
As I said, I am not trying to change people behaviour. I am trying to raise awareness on perception of FB. I am not saying FB is bad. I am only saying is that we should focus more on our lives than envy those who appear to have "good" life in FB. While we congratulate them on having a blessed life, we shouldn't envy them.
I am writing this because i saw one Poster in Aunt Agony complaining about his lack of social life when he perceived to have when he saw his other friends in FB doing so well. I am just giving the awareness that we can do better than FB. FB can enhance the quality of our lives but we should not make it a necessary evil.
Originally posted by richong 3216:Right balances of choices - keep it up & hope others (those who make 'noises' re FB) will do the same.
As I said, I am not trying to change people behaviour. I am trying to raise awareness on perception of FB. I am not saying FB is bad. I am only saying is that we should focus more on our lives than envy those who appear to have "good" life in FB. While we congratulate them on having a blessed life, we shouldn't envy them.
I am writing this because i saw one Poster in Aunt Agony complaining about his lack of social life when he perceived to have when he saw his other friends in FB doing so well. I am just giving the awareness that we can do better than FB. FB can enhance the quality of our lives but we should not make it a necessary evil.
Originally posted by Fenixx:other people want to sek chwee is other people’s dai ji what….. must get TS’ approval first arh?
Wah, if need permission mean I own FB shares. Good lor.
Awareness only. Mean when you read, you aware tat what they post is not true reflection of their good life. Not tell them to stop posting. It is their biz.