Help....love prob over here...

• Yunhaier

  2 Apr 03, 15:01

  Originally posted by Master -_-:

  i think its yun... strong feeling...

  Nah its not me... but she is someone I know offline.
• sunpastilles

  2 Apr 03, 15:42

  haix..ever since he knew i liked him..he STOPPED sms-ing me and didnt even chat wif me when in irc. Everything jus stopped. He had quite alot of ex before..all kinda chio one..me this kinda kana sai one..confirm he dun wan one..my frens all say he's bad..he's flirt..he only wants to find someone to hold hand with..to kiss..to do wadsoever..they say him until he like bery despo like that..haix..my school work is still manageable..i dun reali hafta worry abt it..except for maths..haha..he's not gonna accept me means he's not gonna accept me..if he wants to..he shld haf done it long ago...why wait til now? and one incident i forgot to mention was that..i asked my fren to pass him his bday gift. that was on tuesday. his actual bdae. But on friday..he and his gang has got another BBQ party for him. His friends invited me..so i went..wif another gd fren of mine. When we reached there, it was kinda crowded. My fren and I didnt know many of them there. But there was one gal we knew..she oso knew abt me liking dat guy. So she came up to me and said," go ley..go there say harlow to him..". But very obviously i dare not. So she shouted," Hey..come over and say Hi to ur guests ley..dun like dat ley..". The next thing i heard was " Hi!! Hello!! ". but then..I knew it's not so easy..he dun dare to face us. He said that facing to his gang of frens...haix..then for that particular night..me n him didnt even talk to each other. But there were times he sat beside me and i wouldnt dare to move(not reali side by side, but there was a limited space). On that night, i reali wished he would come up and say something. The gal asked me not to be sad...she said that that guy bery shy one..then there were also times when i looked into his eyes..and that feeling came all over me. His eyes were like wanna tell me smth...i dunno how to describe it..but...sighx..his eyes were so nice...duhx.. hehe...wat u guys think?
• dark_slayer79

  2 Apr 03, 15:46

  Originally posted by Yunhaier:

  Nah its not me... but she is someone I know offline.

  offline?
• SunRisE

  2 Apr 03, 15:46

  Originally posted by Yunhaier:

  Nah its not me... but she is someone I know offline.

  ahahahhaaa... Yun and SUn cannot leave apart!!
  
  
• Xclusive

  2 Apr 03, 16:06

  Well..my fren..He ish not as good as you made him out to be..you spent so much..at least an sms sayin thanks..wont kill rite?ish either he ish afraid dat when he said thanks to you..you'll get de wrong idea..or he doesnt dare to face you..ur love for him..its been long..I liked a guy for 7 mths..he knew it..he did nth..i thot I eould nvr go for other guys..but in de end i did..my present stead..gave me more den de guy i like would ever gib..you said it..guys ask you for stead..why dun gib dem a chance?1 yr....dun tell me..he nids more den a yr to come up wif an ans..Maybe its best dat you 2 remain frens..
  But all ish not gone..by de fact dat he accept ur gift..he ish still willing to gib it a chance to be like b4..dun pressurized him too much..Juz dun think too much..if another guy comes by..you should gib him a chance..i mean..ITS NO POINT WAITING
  Gib up if you can..if not..leave it to fate..He noes how you feel towards him..its now all up to him..if he doesnt react anything..well..my dear fren....4GET HIM![/quote]
• [ X ] & [ L ]

  2 Apr 03, 17:50

  Originally posted by sunpastilles:

  haix..ever since he knew i liked him..he STOPPED sms-ing me and didnt even chat wif me when in irc. Everything jus stopped. He had quite alot of ex before..all kinda chio one..me this kinda kana sai one..confirm he dun wan one..my frens all say he's bad..he's flirt..he only wants to find someone to hold hand with..to kiss..to do wadsoever..they say him until he like bery despo like that..haix..my school work is still manageable..i dun reali hafta worry abt it..except for maths..haha..he's not gonna accept me means he's not gonna accept me..if he wants to..he shld haf done it long ago...why wait til now? and one incident i forgot to mention was that..i asked my fren to pass him his bday gift. that was on tuesday. his actual bdae. But on friday..he and his gang has got another BBQ party for him. His friends invited me..so i went..wif another gd fren of mine. When we reached there, it was kinda crowded. My fren and I didnt know many of them there. But there was one gal we knew..she oso knew abt me liking dat guy. So she came up to me and said," go ley..go there say harlow to him..". But very obviously i dare not. So she shouted," Hey..come over and say Hi to ur guests ley..dun like dat ley..". The next thing i heard was " Hi!! Hello!! ". but then..I knew it's not so easy..he dun dare to face us. He said that facing to his gang of frens...haix..then for that particular night..me n him didnt even talk to each other. But there were times he sat beside me and i wouldnt dare to move(not reali side by side, but there was a limited space). On that night, i reali wished he would come up and say something. The gal asked me not to be sad...she said that that guy bery shy one..then there were also times when i looked into his eyes..and that feeling came all over me. His eyes were like wanna tell me smth...i dunno how to describe it..but...sighx..his eyes were so nice...duhx.. hehe...wat u guys think?

• `K^x`

  3 Apr 03, 15:18

  hmmmmmm...as a frenx of sunpastilles..i really tin the guy is not worth her... as information frm that guy's ex...all of them sae he is a black hearted guy so wad is the point of wasting her time on tt guy...she should go try on a guy which is trying to chase her.fOrgEt hIm...aCcEPt oThers... though that guy is quite HANDSOME.... but..his character ppl sae nt good lehx...so..?hope u can succeed in chasing him or giving up...i dunno..it depends on u!
• boy in blues

  3 Apr 03, 15:52

  Originally posted by sunpastilles:

  hi guys..well,ya see..i've been likin this guy here for a year or so. he knows about it...and whenever i see him at school..he's like avoidin me..but when we had to pass each other..he acts as if he's cool or something...he loves to act infront of me...i dunno y. while i was peeping him(i always do dat), he saw me..and when i look into his eyes and he looked in mine..i was like..stunned..then i will go all red..and i feel hot & cold at the same time..in & out of me...i dunno how to describe..but it's juz the feeling i get..when we two look at each other in the eye or when we walk pass each other. He used to sms me and we chat often..but after he knew i liked him...he stopped. and i think he's avoidin me now..his bdae was juz over..i spent over a hundred for his gift..and not even a thank you from him...sometimes, at night i cry myself to slp...i dun even know why i like him so much...all my frens say he dun worth me...but i think it's the opp way...i think he's too good for me..sighx..and whenever i sms him..i knew he saw that msg..but he jus wouldnt reply..i really dunno wat can i do..i feel like giving up..but when i saw him..it all goes back...help..!!

  a girl's genuine tears is her ultimate weapon against a male human. if that don't work, he ain't human and don't deserve you. Cheers.
• Wh|mSiCaL

  3 Apr 03, 15:56

  I really think such a guy is not worth it. You shouldn't feel miserable over him. He is clearly very full of himself and by being sad over how he acts towards you is just making him worse. Cheer up! *hugz*
  
• loneryu00

  3 Apr 03, 15:57

  Originally posted by Wh|mSiCaL:

  I really think such a guy is not worth it. You shouldn't feel miserable over him. He is clearly very full of himself and by being sad over how he acts towards you is just making him worse. Cheer up! *hugz*
  

  Then U woo da troubled person lor.... so she can forget dis guy lor... (dunno y so sleepy...)
• Wh|mSiCaL

  3 Apr 03, 16:02

  Originally posted by loneryu00:

  Then U woo da troubled person lor.... so she can forget dis guy lor... (dunno y so sleepy...)

  I am female okay, I don't woo girls
• BrenBren

  3 Apr 03, 20:10

  Originally posted by sunpastilles:

  hi guys..well,ya see..i've been likin this guy here for a year or so. he knows about it...and whenever i see him at school..he's like avoidin me..but when we had to pass each other..he acts as if he's cool or something...he loves to act infront of me...i dunno y. while i was peeping him(i always do dat), he saw me..and when i look into his eyes and he looked in mine..i was like..stunned..then i will go all red..and i feel hot & cold at the same time..in & out of me...i dunno how to describe..but it's juz the feeling i get..when we two look at each other in the eye or when we walk pass each other. He used to sms me and we chat often..but after he knew i liked him...he stopped. and i think he's avoidin me now..his bdae was juz over..i spent over a hundred for his gift..and not even a thank you from him...sometimes, at night i cry myself to slp...i dun even know why i like him so much...all my frens say he dun worth me...but i think it's the opp way...i think he's too good for me..sighx..and whenever i sms him..i knew he saw that msg..but he jus wouldnt reply..i really dunno wat can i do..i feel like giving up..but when i saw him..it all goes back...help..!!

  ok..i'm a guy...so what i'm saying next is not to side him....Sometimes guy do feel shy also when he knows a gal like him. As this may come too sudden for him, he don't know what to do or how to react towards you. He will start to act strange or even like you say act cool infront of you to cover up his own fear. Maybe he just don't know if he like you also. Give him some more time. Some guys do really take a long time to react to something, esp a relationship. I don't you wan a guy who can casually accept a gal when he is been break the news to right...But one advise, of he still didn't react after sometimes, then forget about him and find someone else..
• jOhO

  4 Apr 03, 03:42

  Originally posted by boy in blues:

  a girl's genuine tears is her ultimate weapon against a male human. if that don't work, he ain't human and don't deserve you. Cheers.

  ooh i beg to differ. i would be doing both me and the girl a GREAT dis-service if i were to accept her without liking her just becos she cried in front of me.
• SgSniper3000

  4 Apr 03, 03:54

  Originally posted by sunpastilles:

  hi guys..well,ya see..i've been likin this guy here for a year or so. he knows about it...and whenever i see him at school..he's like avoidin me..but when we had to pass each other..he acts as if he's cool or something...he loves to act infront of me...i dunno y. while i was peeping him(i always do dat), he saw me..and when i look into his eyes and he looked in mine..i was like..stunned..then i will go all red..and i feel hot & cold at the same time..in & out of me...i dunno how to describe..but it's juz the feeling i get..when we two look at each other in the eye or when we walk pass each other. He used to sms me and we chat often..but after he knew i liked him...he stopped. and i think he's avoidin me now..his bdae was juz over..i spent over a hundred for his gift..and not even a thank you from him...sometimes, at night i cry myself to slp...i dun even know why i like him so much...all my frens say he dun worth me...but i think it's the opp way...i think he's too good for me..sighx..and whenever i sms him..i knew he saw that msg..but he jus wouldnt reply..i really dunno wat can i do..i feel like giving up..but when i saw him..it all goes back...help..!!

  
  
  *Wipes eyes* Very moving wan...that guy dun deserve you...somemore I know how you feel...
  
  Stead with me better lar! You from what Sec school ah?
  
  
  
• jOhO

  4 Apr 03, 03:55

  Originally posted by SgSniper3000:

  
  
  *Wipes eyes* Very moving wan...that guy dun deserve you...somemore I know how you feel...
  
  Stead with me better lar! You from what Sec school ah?
  
  
  

  i really like ur chances...
• boy in blues

  4 Apr 03, 04:12

  Originally posted by boy in blues:

  a girl's genuine tears is her ultimate weapon against a male human. if that don't work, he ain't human and don't deserve you. Cheers.

  just kidding lah. but if u do resort to that ultimate weapon. maybe just to test water. and he gives u some cold-blooded response. should convince u this kind of guy not worth your while liao. but if he soft-hearted enough to succumb to your pressure and gives u a chance to know him better. Well...eerr...at least u get a shot at him right? Cheers.
• jOhO

  4 Apr 03, 04:15

  Originally posted by boy in blues:

  just kidding lah. but if u do resort to that ultimate weapon. maybe just to test him out. and he gives u some cold-blooded response. should convince u this kind of guy not worth your while liao. but if he soft-hearted enough to succumb to your pressure and gives u a chance to know him better. Well at least, u get a shot at him right? Cheers.

  u goot lor.. ahah how can she "force" herself to cry in front of him? use onions ar? ehhee
  
  and she already has problems going up to him to say hi... how hard is it gonna be to go up to him and CRY?
• boy in blues

  4 Apr 03, 04:32

  Originally posted by jOhO:

  u goot lor.. ahah how can she "force" herself to cry in front of him? use onions ar? ehhee
  
  and she already has problems going up to him to say hi... how hard is it gonna be to go up to him and CRY?

  not sure oso. but those TCS actresses want to act pitiful dat time always got water in their eyes BUT their face never cracked up enough to look like real crying.
• sorcerer

  4 Apr 03, 04:55

  hiyoh...another fix...
  Always like dat one from friends to lovers is the trickiest... see, now you've let your feelings loose you'll both never look at each other the same way again... Case you didn't realise while you all were happily playing mind games wif each other... you become insidiously unattractive... due to the depletion of what i call emotionally anticipative energy... wah i tell u dat one like mojo man... anyway, if face offs are not your cup of tea, why not drop him a line? Calling him is both intimate, conveys your sincerity, gives both of you to clarify things ALONE, and most of all, he'll feel honoured and you'll have his undivided attention( at least for a while, huh!). I believe wat you're going thru now is called a Crush, and they call it that simply becos you're not suppose to enjoy it( sucky feelin rite?) If he rejects you, then you'll just have to put on a facade and pick up whatever's left of your dignity and move on...(hey how do you noe if someone else you see everyday isn't having the same feelings for you ?) If he does accept then we'll procede on to the three dots after those famous lines"and they lived happily ever after"
  Good luck girl , goget him
• boy in blues

  4 Apr 03, 05:49

  Originally posted by sorcerer:

  of what i call emotionally anticipative energy...
  Good luck girl , goget him

  whooeeh...wat was dat most fascinating 'EAE' mojo u just mentioned? Can know more?
• sorcerer

  4 Apr 03, 06:11

  emotionally anticipative energy: energy required to fuel a love interest and do basal emotive functions of the body... consider a crush, flirt, play mind games,e.g... doe's he like me? he certainly seemed to... there it is again...he's looking this way... oh my god what do i do? oh wait he's walking to me...
  "Excuse me, but you're sitting on my girlfriend's bag..."
• boy in blues

  4 Apr 03, 06:39

  Originally posted by sorcerer:

  emotionally anticipative energy: energy required to fuel a love interest and do basal emotive functions of the body... consider a crush, flirt, play mind games,e.g... doe's he like me? he certainly seemed to... there it is again...he's looking this way... oh my god what do i do? oh wait he's walking to me...
  "Excuse me, but you're sitting on my girlfriend's bag..."

  eerrheh...no thanks. sounds like asking 4 trouble 2 me...
• Devil1976

  4 Apr 03, 22:24

  Originally posted by sorcerer:

  emotionally anticipative energy: energy required to fuel a love interest and do basal emotive functions of the body... consider a crush, flirt, play mind games,e.g... doe's he like me? he certainly seemed to... there it is again...he's looking this way... oh my god what do i do? oh wait he's walking to me...
  "Excuse me, but you're sitting on my girlfriend's bag..."

  
• sunpastilles

  5 Apr 03, 11:09

  I REALI LOVE HIM ALOT!!!!!!!! now cant go to sch...cannot see him....i heart pain pain....haix...i bet he's jus as happy...i think he finds me a nuisance...haix....maybe i shld give up...but i might not be successful...haixxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
• `K^x`

  5 Apr 03, 13:02

  sO haPpi tO heAr u saE u WAnna Try tO gIve uP...hE dUncH wOrTh u!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!tRusT mI...1 yR....u waste ur tImE oN tIs gUY?...dUh-.-..unbElieVaBle!!~!~!~!!~!~!~!~!!~!~!~!~~~