Wife buy property with another man
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Your wife change jobs, works late into the nights nowadays, saying a lot of meetings with clients.
Then one day, your letterbox recieved lawyer letters addressed to her and another man. Found out that its documents to buy a property under both their names without your knowledge.
But you pretend you don't know the contents and ask her what is it. She says oh it's some legal docs drawn up for contract for some work she is helping the client with.
Is this ground to divorce her for infidelity although no proof of cheating? Maybe she just investing but didn't want the spouse to know her investments?
What is your opinion?
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hire a PI and check on her. Beats all other methods.
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Originally posted by whatmeworry:
Your wife change jobs, works late into the nights nowadays, saying a lot of meetings with clients.
Then one day, your letterbox recieved lawyer letters addressed to her and another man. Found out that its documents to buy a property under both their names without your knowledge.
But you pretend you don't know the contents and ask her what is it. She says oh it's some legal docs drawn up for contract for some work she is helping the client with.
Is this ground to divorce her for infidelity although no proof of cheating? Maybe she just investing but didn't want the spouse to know her investments?
What is your opinion?
So how is she treating you ? Hire a PI may be smart.
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if there's a problem, face it. asked her.
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Investigations aside, with the wife acting all "why must I tell you" about her late nights/mornings. Realised that she don't even bothering answering phone calls during those times. And now with this secret purchase venture. With these claims can the husband ask for a divorce from the wife and also custody of the kid?
Hiring a PI would be a good idea for the husband to start with. But what kind of costs are we talking about?
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Originally posted by whatmeworry:
Investigations aside, with the wife acting all "why must I tell you" about her late nights/mornings. Realised that she don't even bothering answering phone calls during those times. And now with this secret purchase venture. With these claims can the husband ask for a divorce from the wife and also custody of the kid?
Hiring a PI would be a good idea for the husband to start with. But what kind of costs are we talking about?
The word is evidence. If you think you cant afford the cost then you can be your own detective. But i will suggest if this marriage can be saved, save it first.
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pawn that B8tch. Photocopy that document and see a lawyer
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Do a check before jumping into decision to divorce if need be.
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PI for snooping on the spouse is affordable. For a week surveilance, it is ususlly in the hundreds + expenses. Provided no overseas trip.
She buy property with another man, so what. Check first what the property is for. Later it turned out that she and her business partner jointly bought a property for their business, you will look like a clown.
But I think your marriage is in bad shape.
I have said many times in this forum, there is only one grounds for divorce:
The marriage has irretrievablely broken down.
What cause the break down can be ANYTHING. Infidelity, non communication, gambling, abusive language, laziness, religion, anything, just tell the judge you really cannot continue the marriage anymore.
The word is be sure.
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i coined this phenomenon as "Marital Breach of Trust" or MBT...
i m not all surprised what sluts could do these days with all those women charter and system's enhanced lopsided biased policies against men..in favour of sluts hey spoiled and condoned...
its so foreseeable that all these things could happen and pose grave marital and subsequently legal threats against men...but the system chose to ignore and stay blind/ deaf to what even a lay person could think of....
such is the blindness and deafness of the system in fear of sluts.....
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I sense there is adultery. First step is to pretend ignorance. Second is to make copy of all he bank ac statements and any SGX shares under both their names. Present all the evidence to her one day and ask her if she is wiling to change. If unwiling, the last step, sorry to say, is to engage Ann Tan from Shenton Way to fight for all your assests. She is the most famous family lawyer in S'pore (mostly representing women) and she has never lost a case.
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its easy for women lawyers than male lawyers when the system clearly boost its support in favour of women
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Confirm got something wrong liao. Even if she do business or buy business property with another guy, what is there to hide? Get evidence 1st, then confront her. Don't tell her you got the evidence. If she admit she is having an affair, ask her if she is willing to change.
If not, no need to cry over it or tell her you got evidence etc. Engage a lawyer & throw her the bomb. Teach her a lesson that she will never forget.
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She said it is a legal document for something that she is helping her client with.
Could it mean that she is just helping to lend her name?
So she just lends her name and let the client register with it.
Although I would say this is very unusual if someone helps a client until that extent.
Hmm....your wife stays late, but does she like to not come home as well?
I do agree something may be wrong from these signs.....
First , I believe you need to have a good chat with your wife about how you are worried for her safety and health and welfare if she stays late often.
And then also say it makes you worried and unhappy as a husband, and that you want to spend more time with her.
Try that one first.
Try that during some weekend or something. When you both have time.
She reacted strongly by saying "none of your business" because when you phone her and so on, this created an impression in her mind that you are trying to "control" her or "pressure" her, and so she reacted back and pushed angrily.
So the way to do it is to do it during weekend or some other timing when both of you have the right time and location, and approach it from the angle I mentioned above. This would sidestep the question about "control" so she wont be angry and pushing you back. You must approach from other concepts.
Ok good luck.
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Kill the bitch to save singapore
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Originally posted by Chester_Lim:
Kill the bitch to save singapore
hey are you dave teo
why you always kena bannned one 
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If you have to sneak behind her to check on her about ... know this lah - u are no better than your suspicions or ... the dignifying thing is to ask her and clear the air. Peace is born out of chaos!
Politeness and circumspection>
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Originally posted by whatmeworry:
Your wife change jobs, works late into the nights nowadays, saying a lot of meetings with clients.
Then one day, your letterbox recieved lawyer letters addressed to her and another man. Found out that its documents to buy a property under both their names without your knowledge.
But you pretend you don't know the contents and ask her what is it. She says oh it's some legal docs drawn up for contract for some work she is helping the client with.
Is this ground to divorce her for infidelity although no proof of cheating? Maybe she just investing but didn't want the spouse to know her investments?
What is your opinion?
What is your wife's new job ? A real estate agent ? Is she co-investing ?
Co-investing does not equal infidelity lah.
And why must your woman report to you what she invest in ? Do you tell your wife all about your investments ? Are you another MCP ?
Your marriage shows cracks..and you can't blame it all on her.
What have you been doing to keep it together ? Have you let it slide and neglect communication ?
Both of you seems to live in your own separate world. Perhaps it is time to seek marriage counselling.
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Thanks everyone for the input and hope more opinions comes in.
Both the husband and wife are quite high flyers in their respective industry. No the husband doesn't sneak around investigating the wife. In fact, for the sake of the family and the wife's career, for a long while already, he decided not to bother the wife with her late night appointments and her manners of not answering her phone. and lived with it, although grudgingly.
To strike that balance between himself and the wife, despite his busy schedule at work, he always make a point and manage to make sure he comes home as early as possible to spend time with the kid.
The husband don't mean to intrude on that lawyer letter addressed to the wife and the other man, but if a family member of yours especially your spouse keeps getting important lawyer letters and for the first and second time are not given a convincing answer with regards to it, as a family matter, he needs to know if it is legally something adverse that may affect the whole family, and if the spouse is not willing to share it early to discuss, it may be too late if the legal matter turns for the worse.
But in this case, although not so much of a relief, it turns out to be a secret joint transaction for a property with another man. Thus adding yet another big question mark to the husband's head.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
What is your wife's new job ? A real estate agent ? Is she co-investing ?
Co-investing does not equal infidelity lah.
And why must your woman report to you what she invest in ? Do you tell your wife all about your investments ? Are you another MCP ?
Your marriage shows cracks..and you can't blame it all on her.
What have you been doing to keep it together ? Have you let it slide and neglect communication ?
Both of you seems to live in your own separate world. Perhaps it is time to seek marriage counselling.
aiyo.... dun need so defensive mah
he is talking about their personal issue oh.... not about the pride and glory of the women in Singapore lol.
i think he is more interested in finding out other's opinions if the wife is cheating ...cos I beilieve that's what his gut feelings is telling him. And I think he is afraid to lose custody of the kids.
So back to topic k? MCP FCB all this another day then talk ba lol
Kind Regards
Genie
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if she hving affair, pls dump her. knn the cb kana use by other ppl. should be ur only leh.
if my wife like tis, i confirm dump her, knn cb belong to me, now belong to public!!
hear b4 tis hokkien saying or not? Zeng Lang Gan = for public to Fu(k!!
stupid slut!
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Originally posted by whatmeworry:
Thanks everyone for the input and hope more opinions comes in.
Both the husband and wife are quite high flyers in their respective industry. No the husband doesn't sneak around investigating the wife. In fact, for the sake of the family and the wife's career, for a long while already, he decided not to bother the wife with her late night appointments and her manners of not answering her phone. and lived with it, although grudgingly.
To strike that balance between himself and the wife, despite his busy schedule at work, he always make a point and manage to make sure he comes home as early as possible to spend time with the kid.
The husband don't mean to intrude on that lawyer letter addressed to the wife and the other man, but if a family member of yours especially your spouse keeps getting important lawyer letters and for the first and second time are not given a convincing answer with regards to it, as a family matter, he needs to know if it is legally something adverse that may affect the whole family, and if the spouse is not willing to share it early to discuss, it may be too late if the legal matter turns for the worse.
But in this case, although not so much of a relief, it turns out to be a secret joint transaction for a property with another man. Thus adding yet another big question mark to the husband's head.
Dude, you're using second and third person narration.
Is this problem your's or not ? You sound like kaypohing someone else's family issue ah ?
What is it you want ? Go help the husband catch her on the bed with someone else issit ?
Please stop adding oil to fire. Seems like you'd be very happy if the marriages falls apart issit ?
Surely you are not painting the husband as a idiot right.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
Dude, you're using second and third person narration.
Is this problem your's or not ? You sound like kaypohing someone else's family issue ah ?
What is it you want ? Go help the husband catch her on the bed with someone else issit ?
Please stop adding oil to fire. Seems like you'd be very happy if the marriages falls apart issit ?
Surely you are not painting the husband as a idiot right.
Funny that you raised your point like that jojobeach. Don't think I sounded like I'm rejoicing in this dilemma. Or whether if it is me or or as a 3rd person perspective, would it matter?Just trying to get honest opinions here. Glad to say indeed there are the helpful ones among the critics.