I just can't get along with people, even in the digitalworld
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Originally posted by Chester_Lim:
Go see a shrink
He's already seeing one I think. Does threadstarter work? Does he work at a workplace? Hope PES F wont affect his working jobscope.My family tree gt one PES F schizopreniac, he does simple job at home.
Ignore ur church frenz if they are too much.
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By saying things like "topics must be something i like" tells me you are a self centered person.
By harping on your disabilities and thinking everyone hates you because of that tells me you are overly self conscious and seriously lacking self confidence.
Being angry over little things tells me you have anger management issues.
You tell me, would you like to befriend someone who is overly self conscious, seriously lacking in self confidence and extremely self centered and angry?
Dude. Sit down. Reflect. Its time to change. Try for once to accomodate others instead of asking the whole world to revolve around you.
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Originally posted by One Harmonius Blend:
Somewhat, I can't get along with people in the digital world,even here and in life too, Squabbles between the bus-forumers are nothing new, (I am a bus fan by the way)They kept picking on me by asking to admit fault, and they think they are always right, and think I like to lie to them.
Since young, I always got bullied for being special, and my condition was serious enough for me to get discharged from NS, I can't understand why people can't accept me, I hate random topics especially, and if my (church) friends talked about something random, my earpiece would be on, gave a black face because I knew these people are liars by saying they can accept me (which in fact they can't) and I always tell myself that having 'em is never a good thing, because these (church)friends of mine are as good as traitors, and would be better off observing buses.
I know bus forumers who see this are going to call me a person with no life, as for the rest would probably say that I like to shift the blame.
Peng Yu,
Four things I notice about you. You are....Thin Skin, Immature, Gullible and too Self Conscious.
Lesson in Life - Please be a bit more Thick Skin and be yourself. And you lack experience in dealing with people. You get easily offended. If you believe your own values then stick with it, you don't need to force other people to agree with you.
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honestly speaking, in this world, one is unable to please everyone he/she meets.
cheer up...
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Originally posted by Hugh Hefner:
Peng Yu,
Four things I notice about you. You are....Thin Skin, Immature, Gullible and too Self Conscious.
Lesson in Life - Please be a bit more Thick Skin and be yourself. And you lack experience in dealing with people. You get easily offended. If you believe your own values then stick with it, you don't need to force other people to agree with you.
Hey, in my opinion you are no better. dn;t be thick skin because thick skin people piss people off. he is already being himself. Only sales people and during working on ground zero you need to exercise on how to deal with people, and even some minor insigficant people you can just ignore them. i bet if i continouously knock into you everyday in your life you will get pissed off sooner or later. Also he seems to be sticking tohis believe. -
Hey seriously since if you think everyone in the world is unacceptable and keeps picking on you. I think you should consider dying.
Surely make a big hooohaa. Better still,spread word that you are going to kill yourself in forums, spam emails, write a note on the mirror with your blood on the wall. After that, open the window and jump. Make sure you die if not, people will keep picking and laugh at you if you didn't.
So if i were you, I rather end my life now the whine and let other people have the chance to falme me.
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this seems creative. i never thought of that. probably TS never will in his life be creative enought to think of this. only childish people do such things
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Originally posted by TTFU:
Everything has a balance. You want people to listen to you. You must learn to listen to others. You want to talk about your topics, okay then listen to other peoples topics also ? You dont have to like them, just dont be rude.
And blabber until that I can't say have a say in anything?To be honest, I am very noise-prone though, and hate it when people think that being random + making noise = fun.
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You seem to hate alot of things.
Learn to live and let live.
If not you'll end up leading an extremely miserable life, because these things will keep gnawing at you until you learn to accept and ignore them.
And yes, your life would be miserable, because most people would automatically shun people like you, and you'll be left to wallow in your own despair. (your loved ones may end up suffering with you)
I wonder if you realise that you're actually boxing yourself in. If you do not learn to free your mind from its confines, you'll find that the space will gradually grow narrower and eventually suffocate you.
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I don't mind if I am friendless, Because what I want is tranquility, Because I am very noise prone, I don't mind if my church friends leave me because of my rude actions, because right from the start I never made it into their books.
I promised to myself even the day I got married only my parents and my brother will be there, no friends.
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i understand the yearn for acceptance...but take heart...dun let it depress u
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Originally posted by One Harmonius Blend:
I don't mind if I am friendless, Because what I want is tranquility, Because I am very noise prone, I don't mind if my church friends leave me because of my rude actions, because right from the start I never made it into their books.
I promised to myself even the day I got married only my parents and my brother will be there, no friends.
Well then, why bother posting about your inability to get along with people on AA in the first place if you're not looking for advice or help?
Since you dislike being around people and etc, then all you have to do is avoid them.
Case closed.
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'boxing myself in' what do you mean?
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Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:
Well then, why bother posting about your inability to get along with people on AA in the first place if you're not looking for advice or help?
Since you dislike being around people and etc, then all you have to do is avoid them.
Case closed.
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sure u can....voice all u want within your limits...
but u can't restrict another from criticizing ....u cna fight back if u think it isnt right
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Originally posted by One Harmonius Blend:
'boxing myself in' what do you mean?
Means you hate this, you hate that, you're not gonna do this, you're not gonna do that => boxing yourself in, confining your thoughts and actions based on a very narrow mindset.If this goes on, you will miss out on many things.
Example, you don't like people, so you would not even attempt to befriend them sincerely. Or maybe you "tried" to make friends with people who rejected you (maybe you tried like once, or twice), and now you don't even wanna try because you'll think "why bother? People don't appreciate me".
Result: You'll miss out on the experience of having close friends.
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Originally posted by One Harmonius Blend:
and can't I rant about being friendless?Go to whinehouse and rant/complain about all these "unreasonable" people since you're not looking for help and advice.
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Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:
Example, you don't like people, so you would not even attempt to befriend them sincerely. Or maybe you "tried" to make friends with people who rejected you (maybe you tried like once, or twice), and now you don't even wanna try because you'll think "why bother? People don't appreciate me".
Result: You'll miss out on the experience of having close friends.
Better than having traitors right?
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Originally posted by One Harmonius Blend:
Better than having traitors right?
What makes you think they're the traitors?Maybe you're the traitor since you're talking bad about them now.
Whatever, I'm not interested arguing with you (nothing seems to get thru to you anyway).
I'm just gonna be one of those people who shuns you.
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people seems to be very intolerant with voicing out ...... this shows how dictatorial these people can be towards their own family or friends....
u just remember u have every right to voice...they r hypersensitive - thats all
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Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:
What makes you think they're the traitors?Maybe you're the traitor since you're talking bad about them now.
Whatever, I'm not interested arguing with you (nothing seems to get thru to you anyway).
I'm just gonna be one of those people who shuns you.
Yes, shun me, It's better to have none than to face traitors. Every friend = traitor.Go and think you are always right, and one day when you face a traitor you will know.
Have you ever got rejected by your friends when they left you out for something fun? I have. you? none.
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Originally posted by One Harmonius Blend:
Yes, shun me, It's better to have none than to face traitors. Every friend = traitor.Go and think you are always right, and one day when you face a traitor you will know.
Who here hasn't been betrayed by friends before?
Continue thinking that you're right ba, I don't give a damn.
After all I'm not the one who's gonna miserable in future (don't say nobody warned/adviced you).
PS: Don't make bullshit assumptions about people you don't even know=> "Have you ever got rejected by your friends when they left you out for something fun? I have. you? none."
In fact I've been betrayed, back stabbed and whatever before. Just because I don't complain about it like you do, doesn't mean that I led a fucking fairytale life.
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Originally posted by One Harmonius Blend:
And blabber until that I can't say have a say in anything?To be honest, I am very noise-prone though, and hate it when people think that being random + making noise = fun.
What you mean cant have a say, you say as if your friend every second is talking which i dont think is the case. Noise-prone ? I dont see anything wrong with young people making some noise and having fun. Unless you prefer supping coffee and playing chess in the coffeeshop
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Originally posted by One Harmonius Blend:
Yes, shun me, It's better to have none than to face traitors. Every friend = traitor.Go and think you are always right, and one day when you face a traitor you will know.
Have you ever got rejected by your friends when they left you out for something fun? I have. you? none.
Sure if you made bad friends they can turn your back on you. But wait Every friend = traitor ? sterotyping much ? And what is your definition of traitor. You forgot there can be real and true friends too.
Everything has a possibilty of something bad happening, but dont let it stop you from doing it. Its called faith. So why do you sit infront of your com ? Isnt there a possibilty of your com exploding in your face ? So why are you still risking your life ?
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Originally posted by One Harmonius Blend:
Yes, shun me, It's better to have none than to face traitors. Every friend = traitor.Go and think you are always right, and one day when you face a traitor you will know.
Have you ever got rejected by your friends when they left you out for something fun? I have. you? none.
They left you out for something fun because they knew that "Oh if he comes he is going to complain about the noise and all the topics that he doesn't like to talk about and all he is going to do is to sit there with his earphone plugged in and spoil everyone's day. Maybe he would prefer some peace."