I just can't get along with people, even in the digitalworld
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Originally posted by TTFU:
What you mean cant have a say, you say as if your friend every second is talking which i dont think is the case. Noise-prone ? I dont see anything wrong with young people making some noise and having fun. Unless you prefer supping coffee and playing chess in the coffeeshop
ýes.No to me they are not. I will rather visit St james powerhouse than to suffer high-pitched and yet so annoying laughters.
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Originally posted by One Harmonius Blend:
ýes.No to me they are not. I will rather visit St james powerhouse than to suffer high-pitched and yet so annoying laughters.
Learn to accommodate and compromise when handling human relationships. If they are really that noisy then find other friends. If everyone is noisy to you, then i think its your probelm
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Originally posted by TTFU:
Learn to accommodate and compromise when handling human relationships. If they are really that noisy then find other friends. If everyone is noisy to you, then i think its your probelm
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Originally posted by troublemaker2005:
Hey, in my opinion you are no better. dn;t be thick skin because thick skin people piss people off. he is already being himself. Only sales people and during working on ground zero you need to exercise on how to deal with people, and even some minor insigficant people you can just ignore them. i bet if i continouously knock into you everyday in your life you will get pissed off sooner or later. Also he seems to be sticking tohis believe.Haiz aiyoh, you not read the whole thing. I tell him to be himself ma. Person be himself mean not be irritating people, you know what I mean? People who pester like sales people are insecure people. I am telling him to be more confident and smarter next time. Think before he talk. But if he think he do the right thing then he must stand up for himself, that is what I am telling him.
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Firstly, you distance yourself from everyone else in the first place and you expect ppl to be nice to you ? You think negatively, you oppose to everything that others said/did and find them a nuisance. Seriously, who would wanna befriend a person like this? I don't know what you mean by your church friends are traitors? What have they done to you?
And you think you are perfect and all? Hmm well, continue to think this way and I can guarantee that you'll stay like this forever, if that's what you want. Sure, you can rant here for all you like but nobody will help you if you don't help yourself.
I think you need a wake up call.
/edit: and oh ya I think better not get a wife, because a woman likes to talk abt random topics, makes a lot of noise and always think they are right.
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Originally posted by Miss Tiny:
Firstly, you distance yourself from everyone else in the first place and you expect ppl to be nice to you ? You think negatively, you oppose to everything that others said/did and find them a nuisance. Seriously, who would wanna befriend a person like this? I don't know what you mean by your church friends are traitors? What have they done to you?
And you think you are perfect and all? Hmm well, continue to think this way and I can guarantee that you'll stay like this forever, if that's what you want. Sure, you can rant here for all you like but nobody will help you if you don't help yourself.
I think you need a wake up call.
/edit: and oh ya I think better not get a wife, because a woman likes to talk abt random topics, makes a lot of noise and always think they are right.
loltiny => mrs naggy
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Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:
loltiny => mrs naggy
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simi naggy. u also.
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Originally posted by One Harmonius Blend:
I don't mind if I am friendless, Because what I want is tranquility, Because I am very noise prone, I don't mind if my church friends leave me because of my rude actions, because right from the start I never made it into their books.
I promised to myself even the day I got married only my parents and my brother will be there, no friends.
You've a lot to learn.You know why?
Because noise-prone = prone to making noise. You contradict yourself.
You say "shun me", yet you chose to post here. You contradict yourself again.
You want responses, but yet chose to be selectively selective.
What in this world do you want? We can't help. Because if you don't accept the world, the world is not obliged to accept you.
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Originally posted by Miss Tiny:
simi naggy. u also.
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Originally posted by Miss Tiny:
Firstly, you distance yourself from everyone else in the first place and you expect ppl to be nice to you ? You think negatively, you oppose to everything that others said/did and find them a nuisance. Seriously, who would wanna befriend a person like this? I don't know what you mean by your church friends are traitors? What have they done to you?
And you think you are perfect and all? Hmm well, continue to think this way and I can guarantee that you'll stay like this forever, if that's what you want. Sure, you can rant here for all you like but nobody will help you if you don't help yourself.
I think you need a wake up call.
/edit: and oh ya I think better not get a wife, because a woman likes to talk abt random topics, makes a lot of noise and always think they are right.
The word traitor means they will only want you to clear up the mess, never calls you when it is fun time.
2nd part - I am not saying that I am perfect, it is just that I don't and never liked to cave in to people.
to the last part, I believe true love does exist, and I will definitly find a wife
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Yes , true love exists and all . But looking at the state of you , it might not come easily unless you CHANGE your perspective about yourself. I used to be something like you , but i swing the other way. Instead of creating barriers between ma and the world, I devised lies upon lies to build my image in front of my friends to make myself feel good. It was so bad to the point that the image that i created for myself , this 'mask' i had put on , it is not my real self. Its great if you can sustain this image and all , but you can't and thats what happened. I was kinda shunned for a while, thinking back on what i had done , i felt that it was definitely foolish because I realised that everyone is UNIQUE in a way or an other. The point is that i feel that you cant accept yourself , that inherently leads to you not being able to accept people as well. So unless you change the way you are going , i don't think you will find the true love you seek.
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Originally posted by One Harmonius Blend:
The word traitor means they will only want you to clear up the mess, never calls you when it is fun time.
2nd part - I am not saying that I am perfect, it is just that I don't and never liked to cave in to people.
to the last part, I believe true love does exist, and I will definitly find a wife
Hmm.. I don't wanna sound long-winded, but I just wanna say that you need to change your perspective. I know that some people are true hypocrites or backstabbers or whatever you call it, that's why we distance ourselves away from them. I've my fair share of them. But ultimately, it's still your choice whether you are gonna shun everyone else, thinking they are all the same, or reflect on yourself what actually went wrong that makes people ostracize you. I'm sure a loner will still crave for a true friend. Good luck.
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TS must change the way he looks and feels about himself.
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Originally posted by Miss Tiny:
I'm sure a loner will still crave for a true friend. Good luck.
Yes, but only husbands and wives are eligible for that, in my opinion, because they will be seeing each other, til death do 'em apart. and thanks.