Fools rush in
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The usual advice still apply :-
Be yourself, because you won't know when you will meet the person who truly likes you for who you are.
If you are able to make friends with people because they really likes you for who you truly are, then it's just a matter of time before you meet someone from the opposite sex who would also be attracted to you for who you truly are.
Even the worst villians in this world also can find their partners in life and experience love, why is it not possible for you to find your own partners regardless of what weird, kinky, abnormal, psychological disorder you are having?
It's the end for you if you gave up and surrender to your own fate and stop searching for your other half. But if you are faithful and hopeful with who you are, it's just a matter of time before you meet up with your other half.
You could be ready for love, but you won't be schedule to meet your other half if your other half isn't ready for love.
So be patient and give your other half time to find their way to you and also give yourself time to find your way to him/her.
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Originally posted by mancha:
Not all men are clueless, according to your premise for training.
Many in fact get on pretty well by on their own and by what they have.
It is the cassanova that needs to apply techniques or acquire cock extensions.
Simple sincerity always work in relationships. And many people have it.
It is the cad that requires special knowledge.
not all men are clueless. majority are clueless. many know to get into a relationship but do not know how to maintain it over the long term.
simple sincerity works only when you are doing the right things, being sincere and keep doing everything wrong is useless. very sincerely wrong.
you can run very fast but no use if you are running in the wrong direction.
every man needs such knowledge to be happy in a long term relationship.
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Originally posted by SgLoveCop@blogspot:
training techniques are debatable.
more importantly, you are trying to say that by learning something new, the person will not be himself? i'm sure in our lives, we have learnt alot, everytime we learn something new, we change ourselves for better or worse. our view of the world is also changed.
you won't be old self anymore. you will be a different person. the self is ever changing unless you never allow yourself to learn anything new or have new experiences in life.
Like you already said, its learning. Its like a philosophy perhaps.
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Originally posted by parn:
The usual advice still apply :-
Be yourself, because you won't know when you will meet the person who truly likes you for who you are.
If you are able to make friends with people because they really likes you for who you truly are, then it's just a matter of time before you meet someone from the opposite sex who would also be attracted to you for who you truly are.
Even the worst villians in this world also can find their partners in life and experience love, why is it not possible for you to find your own partners regardless of what weird, kinky, abnormal, psychological disorder you are having?
It's the end for you if you gave up and surrender to your own fate and stop searching for your other half. But if you are faithful and hopeful with who you are, it's just a matter of time before you meet up with your other half.
You could be ready for love, but you won't be schedule to meet your other half if your other half isn't ready for love.
So be patient and give your other half time to find their way to you and also give yourself time to find your way to him/her.
easy for you to say....like you stated to me in the president thread, u pity those gals who have been liked/dated by me. and yet down here you say be yourself for who you are...am in not being my own self? Or ur implying that i fake a lot here? be honest just tell me
even hitler(one of your worst villians), mussolini(fat bloke) also got people to love them because they got the wealth and power...isn't this you are trying to get across all the while?
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Originally posted by kengkia:
easy for you to say....like you stated to me in the president thread, u pity those gals who have been liked/dated by me. and yet down here you say be yourself for who you are...am in not being my own self? Or ur implying that i fake a lot here? be honest just tell me
even hitler(one of your worst villians), mussolini(fat bloke) also got people to love them because they got the wealth and power...isn't this you are trying to get across all the while?
Why don't you go and consult your harem of advisors instead?The fact that for two people to come together, they must first like each other enough to compromise themselves to be on the same frequency with one another.
You just need to find someone who shares similar values as you, because if you need to change your own values to accomodate and convince that someone that you like her because you are on the same frequency as her, then you are not being true to yourself and to her.
So you need to seek and find someone with the same mentality and values and attitude towards life as yourself.
Hitler may be projected as a villian, but if even he can find love in his lifetime, it also means that there's some goodness about him that his loved ones appreciates him for who he is.
You know Hitler for what he did, but do you know him for what he didn't do? He could've done alot worse knowing the evil is boundless and depthless in human hearts.
Don't restrict yourself on how you are going to live your life. People will always misjudge/persecute/critcise/condemn/discourage/scare/threaten/scold you no matter how hard you try to be good and better.
The key is to believe in yourself and do not believe in others. The more you believed in others, the worse life you are going to end up living in.
People can do you WRONG, but as long as YOU DO NOT DO THEM WRONG, you will be able to rise up against them and climb over them to reach your destination in life.
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Originally posted by SgLoveCop@blogspot:
not all men are clueless. majority are clueless. many know to get into a relationship but do not know how to maintain it over the long term.
simple sincerity works only when you are doing the right things, being sincere and keep doing everything wrong is useless. very sincerely wrong.
you can run very fast but no use if you are running in the wrong direction.
every man needs such knowledge to be happy in a long term relationship.
and every women needs to be trained how to recognize sincerity and what is truly good spiritually and not materialistically which our system has breed
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Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:
Aiya who cares?
I just hope that no idiot would take TS's words seriously.
TS may mean no harm with all these. But all I can say is.. his set of lousy advice only applies to a certain group of females (those who love playing mind games and suffer from a severe communication disability).
If there are guys out there who dig such gals...then please by all means follow his advice.
:)
Lol.... come to think of it chiu doesn't seem to be bonkers leh.
Do i sound like Acid?
Kind Regards
Genie
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Originally posted by SgLoveCop@blogspot:
not all men are clueless. majority are clueless. many know to get into a relationship but do not know how to maintain it over the long term.
simple sincerity works only when you are doing the right things, being sincere and keep doing everything wrong is useless. very sincerely wrong.
you can run very fast but no use if you are running in the wrong direction.
every man needs such knowledge to be happy in a long term relationship.
Chiu is Zhi Shang Dan Bing.... unrealistic ar.... Chiu need to understand with regards to women they are all bery different de.General consensus is that Chiu need to use ears more than mouth. But when asked for opinions to provide them as well.
Chiu also need to know that for men, seeing is enuf to up ar..... for wo man they need to have mind to connect as well to ...erm....pun chui lol?
Every man needs to go and bang wall bleed and experience its agonies for himself learn then be happy in a long term relationship. Everyone got his own idea de lar. Chiu ish needs to be realistic in this world.
Kind Regards
Genie
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Originally posted by Genie99a:
Lol.... come to think of it chiu doesn't seem to be bonkers leh.
Do i sound like Acid?
Kind Regards
Genie
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Why would u wanna sound like acid?
*gasp* CLONE!
