Lost and doesn't know how to respond anymore
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1st response is to stop SMS with him............Get yourself some cold shower to cool off your mind and observed how he react and learned from there.
He might be a player. but you are the best person to know trust your instinct.
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Nil
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Originally posted by farnee:
he keep re-assuring that he isn't playing games, but find that i am playing games.
which i am not, so our colleague who tend to feel as 3rd party said that he likes me and it very obvious. Just that 3rd party feels that we are both scare because of our past relationship. I tend to agree to the statement coz i am really scare i might make mistake again.i am now tore apart not knowing if i should believe he is playing mind games or to believe what he projected he isn't playing games just want to find companion for weekend not sexual involve de~
or is he looking and trying to understand each other before he decide a relationship..
i really don't know.. sob..sob..its suppose to be sweet but why am i so vex.. :(
if u want to avoid past mistake, very simple, tell him you will not have sex with him until marriage whenever he ask u for sex after u become his girlfriend. in the meanwhile, just have fun lor.
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Originally posted by storywolf:
Farnee - This man is playing with you and your brains.
He is saying things to you to program your subconscious.He suddenly ask do you like him ? will force you suddenly analyse your feeling for him - which already yes, after all the effort he have put in.
" Better not, i will avoid you if you do" "we are not suitable" - is to get your mind thinking of thousand and one reason why not ? Also a little danger excitment to simulate your mind to get it hook. After your subconscious run through 10 possible reasons against it, you actually program your brain - that he and you is totally possible.
He will be super nice, caring and close to you, will give you all the non-verbal signs that he is interested in you and will drop certain statement here and there - all these are to program your mind. Notice that sequence of statements, it have slowly change from "I am not suitable for you" to "looking for companion and marriage", well you are at the edge of the trap now.
Time to wake up !!!. Ask yourself if a man really love you, why is he not openly to it, why playing all these games.
Chiu is right.
Kind Regards
Genie
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Originally posted by Ä«Õß:¸ïÀë:
Mmmm..... i tink he's trying to get some free fuck out of you.....
Chiu is probably right too.Kind Regards
Genie
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Originally posted by farnee:
Hi people, i need some mature advice from forum's guys and gals.
Blah Blah Blah Blah......
he keep telling me he is free during weekend, and with the workload and OT quite difficult for him to find GF and maint one relationship..
Arrhh.. i am confuse.. Help me pls..What you want out of this?
If chiu ish wanting a relationship ... just so you know the guy is better at playing the game than you are. Whether he wants an actual relationship or not is debatable but imo.... the way he is doing it is out fer fun.... why?
Because that method of wooing charbor only works on a certain type of girl.
I think chiu ish that type of girl.
Kind Regards
Genie
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