I need to read her mind. It's killing me.
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First of all, hello to all of you sgforums member's. This will be my first thread here and i do hope it is in the correct section.
This will be a little long, but i will try to keep it brief, and i really hope you will spare me some of your time to read and give me some response or advices.What i need is some advice on this girl i've fallen for.
Some background information, i'm 15 and yes i know i may be a lil too young to get into a r/s but am matured enough to not take personal life into my studies. This girl i like is in a different class and we started talking about two months ago, during our secondary three camp. We hit it off quite well and i managed to even ask for her number. Been texting alot since. She also tells me that she is grounded by her strict parents(since January!) and she is not allowed to go anywhere after school. Not even allowed to use the computer. Okay, enough of info, lets get on with my problem.
The thing is, i need to know if she feels the same way i do, for her, before i even make any steps in starting a r/s. We have been texting for sometime now and i obviously can see that she takes me as a good friend, but i dont know if she's interested in me. Our text's are very friendly-like-questions for example, "Eat liao mah, you? :)" or "What you doing naoz?!" and some random talk. Also, sometimes, she replies very slowly, maybe because she's busy. During the holidays, we text each until midnight, about 4 Plus everyday. She replies to every one of my messages and obviously i do, too. Recently, school holidays have ended and we're back to school. We do text in class and often ask each other to pay attention, so our texting intervals are like 5 to 60 minutes. The problem is, she doesnt reply instantly to my messages when she's free. On an occasion, I texted her 30 minutes ago, before recess. Then during recess, i saw her playing around with her phone and using it, but i didnt get a reply from her until an hour later. I'm beginning to think she doesn't have an interest in me, and i am desperate to take the first step into progressing this friendly r/s with her into a BGR, but i dont know if that is what she wants. It is very difficult for me, because i barely have any chances to meet her at all in school as she has to go home immediately and we're in a different class.
I really need to know what's happening and i am very confused. I need to know if she likes me or if she's just polite and courteous enough to reply to my text messages. I feel so tired everyday, having to think of her and extremely curious about what's on her mind, though i will not let this affect my studies. All i need is some advice and enlightenment. Any girl's here who have an idea can tell me what she's thinking too. I am dying to know.
I hope i do not get any flames and non-constructive replies. I will gladly ignore them. Then again, if anyone has thoroughly read through what i wrote, even if you dont know how to help, i thank you for your time.
Ask me if you need to know more info.
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Wah piang eh.....be a man and just ask her la!
We also can't read her mind!?
lol
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TS needs a jedi...
plz look for Yoda
He can teach chiu mind tricks...And remember... ... ...
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Bo bian la.. I still want us to be friends even if she doesnt like me.
And it will get akward if i do ask for stread and ended up getting rejected.
Haiz being a teen these days really alot problem.
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Originally posted by PossessioN:
Bo bian la.. I still want us to be friends even if she doesnt like me.
And it will get akward if i do ask for stread and ended up getting rejected.
Haiz being a teen these days really alot problem.
Lol wah like tt ah...den u have to be sneaky abit and ask her frens lor...but warn u first....gals can't keep secrets!
Bribe her frens with goodies!
=X
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Originally posted by littlemissbonkers:
Lol wah like tt ah...den u have to be sneaky abit and ask her frens lor...but warn u first....gals can't keep secrets!
Bribe her frens with goodies!
=X
wait is TS bribe her friends with flowers then jialat..."The black dot more and more black...
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But have problem with that also wor. Not cuz girl cant keep secrets. Cuz i know got like 2-3 of her friends are in my class that likes me. Well not sure, been told by the whole class that they do, lol. I dont even talk to them.
Sienz man, cant even ask her out. Her parents so strict until like that de.
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Originally posted by ^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~:
wait is TS bribe her friends with flowers then jialat..."The black dot more and more black...
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TS...u wun be so dumb one rite?
lol
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Originally posted by PossessioN:
But have problem with that also wor. Not cuz girl cant keep secrets. Cuz i know got like 2-3 of her friends are in my class that likes me. Well not sure, been told by the whole class that they do, lol. I dont even talk to them.
Sienz man, cant even ask her out. Her parents so strict until like that de.
Wah...euuu so popular ah?
lol den too bad!
U go date those gals ba since u so humji!
=X
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I think you need paul the oracle octopus
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Not humji la.. If i really didnt care a/b the girl i wont care if i get rejected and hard to maintain as good friends anymore. First girl i ask for number personally summore lol.
And no -.- i dont like demz :P so flirt de
Dont berief oktopuz :S
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Originally posted by PossessioN:
Not humji la.. If i really didnt care a/b the girl i wont care if i get rejected and hard to maintain as good friends anymore. First girl i ask for number personally summore lol.
And no -.- i dont like demz :P so flirt de
I dunno how to advice youyou go ask ur teacher ba
lol
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Then ask my parents too arh? LOL crazayyy.
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Ask for some hints ?
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How? Thats the problem :S
I dont want to make it too obvious.
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If you want it ask for more clues, if you dont want it, continue guessing.
Now you want it, but yet you dont want it. Hmm...
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How ask wor? Like how to say or how am i suppose to get these clues?
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Originally posted by ^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~:
TS needs a jedi...
plz look for Yoda
He can teach chiu mind tricks...And remember... ... ...
lol!
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Cant find yoda :S
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Originally posted by PossessioN:
How ask wor? Like how to say or how am i suppose to get these clues?
1001 ways, from her friends, msn, sms, directly. Depends which one you prefer. Since you are sec 3, next year is last year, if you really like her then gao bai to her if you want. Once the chance is gone, it will never come back
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er, i suggest u slow down first. if u r nt sure means either shes not hinting u enough, or shes not into u at all. i guess la haha
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I'd take the chance, but dont know when to.
I'll try lol. She hasn't replied to my message sinceeee 4:03 :S but she did mention she was doing her proj.
@chocochips, thanks for that little piece of advice. And yeah she aint hinting me enough, but we do talk quite well in text. She smiles to me all the time IRL. Not sure though, i havent been in enough r/s-es to know that much body language. -
Dont get too obsessed with it. If you want it more, you will not get it, the girl will find you irrtating.
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Yeap, thats why i rarely send two consecutive text's in a row. Maybe because she replies all the time, fast or slow.
If this is the case, what should i do? Stop smsing her or something? See if she takes the initiative to start a convo with text?
By the way, she just texted me : "Done with proj le :) sian tomorow need present liao omg". -
nice to be in sec sch sia. can chase girls with sms oni T.T