I need to read her mind. It's killing me.
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I dont like the thought of woo-ing with texting only. I want to take it out, but i cant. She cant. There are limits.
Mehh, i wish we were twenty.
People never appreciate what they have, i guess.
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eh.. when u twenty u gonna wish u are 15.
Whats wrong with texting ? U gotta start somewhere man~ heh
Just picture urself... texting... like meeting face to face.
Its just a matter of time. Texting wooing has never failed me so far. So yeah.. but of course when older or older girls, u still can text, but they expect more and more demanding liaw. Means u gotta start calling.. start spending.... lol.
Treasure ur texting days ah ya. =D~~
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Yea i know, but i prefer talking face to face.
More sincerity and easier to read body language :P, just that her annoying friends are always around her lol.
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charm her frens too. lol
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Yeah man... u cant afford to have her close friends against ur ass. Backstabbing u. heh
Besides.... its always good to know that her friends are on your side. Better friends then enemies eh.
If fail.. can always woo her friends also. LOOL!
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Text her, ask her abt her past r/s (if she have any), ask her in a playful way what type of guys she like etc, then from there see her replies & reaction loh.
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u need time with her but she needs to go home straight away. So walk her home after school. One more thing dont wait for her to drop hints. U drop it 1st like when she ask u why u wan to walk her home, hint to her. Whatever cheesey thing u wan to say then wait for her reaction. Then after that see how lo
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If you really wanna tell her via face to face, perhaps may I suggest that you meet her up in school, one to one? Is quite easy to ask, but at your age I dunno, cos at my age now (19), I'll just straight away date the lady out, and tell her. If else fails, email will be the next best shit for me, if still fails, SMS. You never know when you get to meet your kind of eyecandy again. Is either you take it slow and tell her, or don't tell and remain as friends for as long as you guys live. Confess, at least it ease your burden of being so damn stressout, and you get a damn straight answer. Hide it, remain regretful for as long as you live, but remain as friends, but you'll never know what's her answer.
I hope this helps, although it doesn't make sense somewhere.
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No guts, no glory! =D
P.S. Shouldn't you be concentrating on your studies now?
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Thanks for all the replies, here are mine to yours.
@BadzMaro, Yeap, thats what i thought, i'd get sabotaged lol. And i dont like one of them. At all.
@Fallen-Angel, Have thought of it, dont know how to prompt such an akward question. I'll try and think how to ask :P thanks alot!
@seriously, Thanks for the sug, but i forgot to mention that her f-ed up mother picks her up from the MRT because she's too suspicious of her daughter. Afraid she mix with wrong people and stuff, but seriously, she's 15 and i know she isn't stupid.
@toyota-corolla, Dont want to risk not ever being able to be friends again :P Thanks though!
@-Wanderer-, I'll pick the courage soon. Just in need of some enlightenment for now. And yeah, i know. O's around the corner, but we're human. We have feelings, i guess and i swear i wont let any BGR affect my studies. I know what comes first.
Again, thank you guys for all the suggestions and advices!
By the way, if she oftenly text's me with words of encouragement, eg. I'm suppose to go for tution like now, then she text's "Jia you! Must study horr, dont keep text! :)" Is that a hint? Or do all girls say that to friends?
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Dont read too much into it.
she might just be the over-friendly-give-wrong-signal-type.
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15 go study lar
no money no honey
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Yeap, i know. Thats what i'm here for. I want to know what's on her mind. Anyway how i can test? Or do something, instead of asking her friends?
@Rooney9, Aint i not studyin? I said, i know how to balance. If you insists that anyone below a certain age should not even be invoved in a BGR, i shall ignore then.
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settle it after Os ba. Best solution le. Continue all those lovely stuff that u're enjoying now lo. Text here text there, be study mates whatever. She might be treating you as male bff. So be careful not to scare her by confessing straight away. In short, enjoy for the time being. After all, if u do your Os in a happy mood, chances are u will do not bad.
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text too long already..missed the chance to get on the boat
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in life we get lots of undesired comments and thats common...and on this forum or in blogs as well...especially on areas most concerned to you...
if you are unhappy because of it...of course one is allowed to take a deep breath or get away or some would cry it off or shout out loud....so be it...u can just express it...
but at the end of the day, you are responsible for your well being but some would take their life short...and your parents with grey hairs and frail bodies would have to suffer the loss of a young life....just think of that as even more shameful to let them down...whom they need more of your support...
BE A COMPETENT SURVIVOR - one who not only sees through life, but also love...nothing can forsake you as much as yourself ....
ONE THAT LIVES WITH GREATER SELF LOVE THAN BEING LOVED BY OTHERS
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O's are more than a year away. I dont want to see her with someone else by then -.-
Besides, if she were really interested in me, i doubt she'd wait till O's aswell.
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Originally posted by PossessioN:
Thanks for all the replies, here are mine to yours.
@BadzMaro, Yeap, thats what i thought, i'd get sabotaged lol. And i dont like one of them. At all.
@Fallen-Angel, Have thought of it, dont know how to prompt such an akward question. I'll try and think how to ask :P thanks alot!
@seriously, Thanks for the sug, but i forgot to mention that her f-ed up mother picks her up from the MRT because she's too suspicious of her daughter. Afraid she mix with wrong people and stuff, but seriously, she's 15 and i know she isn't stupid.
@toyota-corolla, Dont want to risk not ever being able to be friends again :P Thanks though!
@-Wanderer-, I'll pick the courage soon. Just in need of some enlightenment for now. And yeah, i know. O's around the corner, but we're human. We have feelings, i guess and i swear i wont let any BGR affect my studies. I know what comes first.
Again, thank you guys for all the suggestions and advices!
By the way, if she oftenly text's me with words of encouragement, eg. I'm suppose to go for tution like now, then she text's "Jia you! Must study horr, dont keep text! :)" Is that a hint? Or do all girls say that to friends?
Well, alternatively, you can confess to her in a friendship way, like you can confess attraction to her. Either way, I doubt she will be that dumb, not to be friends after rejecting you. Never happened to me before whenever I confess, is either is yes, or see how it goes, or no. Even if its no, we'll become good/close friends afterwards. Girls are soft inside, they won't suka suka don't wanna be friends with you. At most ignore you for a few weeks make your life miserable temporary? Happened to me twice only, but subsequently, we talked subsequently and brush it off. As for the others, those had rejected me, we just remain close friends, once in awhile, we will talk about the confession and have a good laugh at it.
Golden rule bro, regardless you are wooing, confessing or anything, never pressure a lady. They don't like the feeling of being pressured.
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Originally posted by PossessioN:
Yeap, i know. Thats what i'm here for. I want to know what's on her mind. Anyway how i can test? Or do something, instead of asking her friends?
@Rooney9, Aint i not studyin? I said, i know how to balance. If you insists that anyone below a certain age should not even be invoved in a BGR, i shall ignore then.
Just do it.
hey, i want to be more than just friends with you.
and pray.
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Originally posted by 93'guy:
Just do it.
hey, i want to be more than just friends with you.
and pray.
Then she'll say, okay! Let's be BFF.
Wah, hong gan ah!
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Thanks guys, i think i'll just do it. Probably get her out on a movie and set the mood in first. But how the hell am i going to get her on a date with those parents of hers? Seems like i have to figure something out lol.
@toyota-corolla LOL
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Originally posted by PossessioN:
Thanks guys, i think i'll just do it. Probably get her out on a movie and set the mood in first. But how the hell am i going to get her on a date with those parents of hers? Seems like i have to figure something out lol.
@toyota-corolla LOL
That's for you to try.
I really recommend you to study.
Dont get into a BGR, more girls will come by when you're older.
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Originally posted by PossessioN:
Thanks guys, i think i'll just do it. Probably get her out on a movie and set the mood in first. But how the hell am i going to get her on a date with those parents of hers? Seems like i have to figure something out lol.
@toyota-corolla LOL
This one, you can teach her good and bad stuff.
Bad, teach her to lie.
Good, teach her not to lie.See e big difference in spelling?
Okay, seriously, you don't have to date her to a movie just to confess attraction. You can well, say, ask her what's her program after school, then before she leaves school, try to squeeze your 'confession plan' into her program. If you lagi daring, confess infront of her friends. WHOOOOOO!
(I'm serious and if you have a very thick face like mine ).School will work fine, but take it at a comfortable pace, don't not rush things. How long have you two been contacting?
Man! I think is time for me to wooo girls alr. NS too boring alr. ):
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forget it la, if she's under control of her parents. I can tell u at age 15, it's very difficult. She incurs the wrath of her parents and that will make her unhappy.
And perhaps u read too much into the texts. In my opinion, many girls find texting a big chore. Girls like to look into the eyes of guys they like, engage in coversation rather than texting all day long.
My 2 cents worth.
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@93'guy, Me know :) Thanks again. And Damn this 5 minute interval of posting limit crap.
@toyota-corolla, I wont tell her to lie, lol. And she's mostly with her friends all the time, and i dont have the guts to confess infront of her friends. Especially when you know at least two of them likes you and the fear of rejection being witnessed by a crowd, altogether with the embarassing atmosphere that will pressure her.
Been contacting for two months, i went to her house a few times to help her with some delivery of stuff haha. And yea, go get some gals :D
@Rock^Star, she does talk to me when we meet and we do maintain a healthy eye contact, just that we barely get a chance to meet, and usually she's with her clique and i'm with mine.