Am i turning bad?
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Originally posted by BadzMaro:
Dont listen to them...
they are all voices of evil.. telling u not to do what ur hearts desire....
are you aginst us or what?
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Originally posted by brainerror:
1. Tattoo to remind himself not to do white collar work? i
WOW........ THAT'S A BRILLIANT IDEA!!!
HE'S A GENIUS!!!!
ALL TEENS SHOULD LEARN FROM HIM!!!!!
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Originally posted by brainerror:
are you aginst us or what?
I am against... EVERYBODY!!!! kidding
lol
I am just providing something opposite what u guys are saying thats all. xD
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U guys are boring
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Originally posted by Ä«Õß:¸ïÀë:
WOW........ THAT'S A BRILLIANT IDEA!!!
HE'S A GENIUS!!!!
ALL TEENS SHOULD LEARN FROM HIM!!!!!
Eh I got a tattoo to remind myself not to be such a smart ass.. but dun think its working. lol
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Originally posted by Ä«Õß:¸ïÀë:
WOW........ THAT'S A BRILLIANT IDEA!!!
HE'S A GENIUS!!!!
ALL TEENS SHOULD LEARN FROM HIM!!!!!
right.i think its stupid.
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Originally posted by BadzMaro:
I am against... EVERYBODY!!!! kidding
lol
I am just providing something opposite what u guys are saying thats all. xD
hur.well, then its up to her to see for a proper advice then.not my boyfriend, not my life.
just take if she so happen to talk like a wannabe.woops, my friend are gonna speak just off their minds. -
Originally posted by BadzMaro:
Eh I got a tattoo to remind myself not to be such a smart ass.. but dun think its working. lol
you're being ass to insult.
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Originally posted by mei_ting <sweet icecream>:
tying> ur scaring me :x okok i be careful of wat i do. btw my bf said that one of the reason he get a tattoo to remind himself not to work in the office industry hahas. its really sweet he does
ask your bf to get 02 more tattoo dat will confirm remind him of not working in the office industry:
1. tattooed a lan jiao on the back of his lower LEFT arm
2. tattooed a snake on the back of his lower RIGHT arm
so that next time he can use his left lower arm to knock his head, and rest his head on his right lower arm...
' giar lan ka tao, gar zua koon '
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Originally posted by brainerror:
hur.well, then its up to her to see for a proper advice then.not my boyfriend, not my life.
just take if she so happen to talk like a wannabe.woops, my friend are gonna speak just off their minds.Why .. must we conform to the norm! Why can we just... taste the forbidden fruits of pleasure...
Why cant we be different.. unique !
A wannabe with a purpose!
A wannabe.. that can do a great many things...
lool!!
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Originally posted by BadzMaro:
Why .. must we conform to the norm! Why can we just... taste the forbidden fruits of pleasure...
Why cant we be different.. unique !
A wannabe with a purpose!
A wannabe.. that can do a great many things...
lool!!
for every wannabe that makes it, about 100,000 become... roadkill?
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Originally posted by the Bear:
for every wannabe that makes it, about 100,000 become... roadkill?
Just pray hope that..u are no 100,001 xD
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Dont do white collar work? Do what?
Peddle drugs and get caught is it?
Sweep the floor is it?
Become ah long runner is it?
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The reason why everyone is telling you not to get pregnant is because there are lots of implications within it. I know it is a mindset to you that even if you get pregnant, you can get abortion... However, you need to think in a deeper aspect...
First, when you are pregnant, you will have lots of hormonal changes... yr sense of dependence will increase and there will be up and down in yr emotional state... do not tell me that you are good-tempered or can control yr temper... it has nothing to do with that... there are womens who get depressions during pregnancy and anxiety problems... tons of issues i can name it out... For your info, i am a guy... u can rebuke that i do not understand since i am a guy...
Second, let's say you have given birth... there are lots of financial issues that you need to handle and you need to be there 24/7 for the baby... just say when u r pregnant, u have to go for tests and ultrasound to make sure your baby is safe and normal... there are cases where the baby is deformed or the baby is tangled by the umbilical cord and strangled to death... okay that is for just during pregnancy... after u give birth, hospitilisation bills who will be paying? yr boyfriend? or yr parents? Baby food and products will be needed to purchase... milk powder, clothes, the toys, bed... many things need to take care of...
Lastly, yes i agree with others that abortion is dangerous to your health... before abortion is done, a clip of the abortion process will be shown to you... it is part of the protocol... and again, there are cases where women become guilty over the abortion and have gone paranoid or developed depression...
At your age, you can either study hard or go outside to work... but in a few years time, you will compare peers of your age who are doing better in their life... even for now, people with certs are having problem in finding or securing a job... Right now, you can only do what u can do which is study hard... if not, go outside and find a job... you will find that studying is better than working outside...
If you still do not get it, then i wish you all the best... just do what you want and forget those words i have typed...
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Originally posted by blurking123:
The reason why everyone is telling you not to get pregnant is because there are lots of implications within it. I know it is a mindset to you that even if you get pregnant, you can get abortion... However, you need to think in a deeper aspect...
First, when you are pregnant, you will have lots of hormonal changes... yr sense of dependence will increase and there will be up and down in yr emotional state... do not tell me that you are good-tempered or can control yr temper... it has nothing to do with that... there are womens who get depressions during pregnancy and anxiety problems... tons of issues i can name it out... For your info, i am a guy... u can rebuke that i do not understand since i am a guy...
Second, let's say you have given birth... there are lots of financial issues that you need to handle and you need to be there 24/7 for the baby... just say when u r pregnant, u have to go for tests and ultrasound to make sure your baby is safe and normal... there are cases where the baby is deformed or the baby is tangled by the umbilical cord and strangled to death... okay that is for just during pregnancy... after u give birth, hospitilisation bills who will be paying? yr boyfriend? or yr parents? Baby food and products will be needed to purchase... milk powder, clothes, the toys, bed... many things need to take care of...
Lastly, yes i agree with others that abortion is dangerous to your health... before abortion is done, a clip of the abortion process will be shown to you... it is part of the protocol... and again, there are cases where women become guilty over the abortion and have gone paranoid or developed depression...
At your age, you can either study hard or go outside to work... but in a few years time, you will compare peers of your age who are doing better in their life... even for now, people with certs are having problem in finding or securing a job... Right now, you can only do what u can do which is study hard... if not, go outside and find a job... you will find that studying is better than working outside...
If you still do not get it, then i wish you all the best... just do what you want and forget those words i have typed...
i wanted to type that out but you saved me the trouble
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Hi,
there's really a ton of good advice in this thread.
There are quite a num of posts that doesn't put your bf in good light, and frankly speaking, I agree with them too. E.g. "Tattoo to remind himself not to do white collar work?" So what job does he want to do? It doesn't make sense because if he doesn't want to do a white collar job (but perhaps start a business?), why would your bf still want to go to a private school to continue studying? Something just doesn't sound right.
It's ok to have a relationship, but remember, you are still young, and you still have a long path to go. As pointed out by some, you are smart enough to detect that something isn't quite right, which is why you posted here. And also, we are only giving our opinions, and not helping you make decisions which you should make yourself.
During the honeymoon period, all is well, everyone is nice. Problem arises only when there are arguments. Think about this.
Also, if you were to get pregnant, as many pointed out, the financials involved are tremendous. Marriage itself already require tremendous financial commitment, without including babies. I do have a female pri sch classmate who married young and had two children by the age of 22. But her husband can support them financially with ease. Can your bf? Think about how your parents is fretting over you; put yourself in their shoes, and you will know how hard and tough it is to be a parent.
And as blurking123 puts in nicely:
At your age, you can either study hard or go outside to work... but in a few years time, you will compare peers of your age who are doing better in their life... even for now, people with certs are having problem in finding or securing a job... Right now, you can only do what u can do which is study hard... if not, go outside and find a job... you will find that studying is better than working outside...
We have been through secondary sch all the way to working life. The quoted advice meant well.
Bear summarized the whole thing well, and it would also be my advice. Do not do anything that you will regret 30 years down the road. Your O levels are coming. If you are really going to be with your bf for the next 40 years and so on, you might one day need the ability to generate income using your certs.Homework Forum is always around to help in your school work.
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grow up la fuck
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TS I don't think you're turning bad, I just think you're FUCKING RETARDED.
You're 16 NOT 6, what kinda idiot at that age will say stupid things like "oh pregnant only ma, what's the big deal? It's just a baby."
Since you think it's fine for you to continue doing all these stupid things, then go ahead. Just don't come back crying when you realised that you've just fucked up own life up.
And if you do get pregnant, please go for an abortion or give your baby up to some couple who would be better parents than you would be.
Ruin your own life all you want, just DON'T screw other people's lives up.
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mei ting cream,
you are turning bad.
first of all playing traunts or pon teng is shunned upon by every culture be it in the usa,europeans or in spore at high schhool stage.
2nd getting a guy who encourage u to pon teng is bad news meanin he dun care if u succeed in life or fail in life or have kids with other men.u are there just to serve his selfish needs.and if yer boyfrend take pvt school means he is worse than we thought he is....why dun he go chiak sai n u follow him go chiak sai????u wanna be like him...then u will need to suffer like him.then if he end up in poverty and poor,,,then u better go join him end up in poverty n poor too!
should u be preganant and have his kids...then u wont be able to werk and yer kids wont do well...ant yer parentrs will suffer lookin after them.is this what u want?suggest u go abortion!why?because yer boyfrend so far hasnt proved himself yet...when he is werking n u are werking then u can make up yer decision.now both of u are not even fully developed and are very weak.
study first,,,find job....have kids when u are ready after saving up $$$$.
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psst...ice cream mei mei,
if i found out that my 18 yr old son made a 16 year old kid pregnant...i would have beaten his face with a fat stick until it gets deformed permananently.as a good father and a real man i demand son work hard for what he wants, collect his medals earn his keep before having sex and kids.
maybe i wouldnt bash his face.....to that extent,,,,probably just catch him and slap him countless times from morning to midnight until he cry and struggle for not werking hard enough for things he want in life.maybe i might even tear off his tattoo from his skin in the process.....that is how u train a real man!
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Eagle, thank for quoting!
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Erm. smoking is not = gangster!
stop ostracising us smokers :( -
first ur bf say if u fail o levels its ok u can take private
ur bf doesnt care about ur future at all. In singapore, ur finished if u dun have paper qualifications especially with so many foreigners arnd to compete with us.
second, u shout at ur parents who feed u til 16 yrs old, work hard so that they can send u to school
i feel srry for them
go ahead and have a baby with ur so called 'bf'. U will know whther he is a good guy eventually.
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seriously ask your BF to study with you. bring him to your house. try this out. my friend always go to his GF house to accompany her to study. And he is born in 1991, doing NS now. So you can compare and see how is your BF is like.
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Seriously you have to ask yourself how you present yourself to others.
You ask are you turning bad.
You should ask do you look bad to others.
You may not have bad intentions or know how to stay out of trouble.But when you explain to people, you project the image of a bad character, of someone who is wayward.
They have some power over you, your parents, and your teachers. You are staying in the comfort of your parents home, and the teachers can suspend you.
You can have piecings, tattoos even, but then how you talk to your elders is important. Most important is to be honest, and true, and speak calmly and with respect. Let them shout, let them scold, you speak calmly and truthfully. Then they won't see you as going bad.
Keep your cool.