Why i'm doing this?
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i have a 1st time gf about 8months already now. let me tell you all about me and her daily life is like and i will make it as short as possible. sorry if got any spelling mistake and im lazy to care.
this past months, i was working 6days week job and shes studying in poly. almost everyday i accompany her to go school and then i go off for my work at 10am or 1pm. then after my work at 10pm, i go to her house nearby void deck to meet her and her frens for relax and chit-chat. after that i will go to her house to stay overnight. then thats it my daily life.
whats is on my mind now~
1: i have a home, i choose not to go home and accompany her. if i choose to go home im afraid that she will be sad and miss me so much. i did bring her home to let my parents see. 1 week 1 time only so i only go home only 1 time for a week.
2: i was having fun with her and her frens too while chating and playing poker cards.
3: im tired and i dun feel like everyday send her to school or meet her.
4: i have been thinking randomly to break up with her. And also while quarrel with each other i will also think of this.
5: and last saturday is the 2nd time i lie to her that i go watch movie and play lan with frens but actually i go clubbing wif my best fren that he told me to go. i know she dun like me to go so i lie.
6: so on that sat i quite intrested with a girl. i dance wif her intimately, kissing, hugging.
7: im confusing right now and really dunno wat way to choose or i should make a stop from doing things wrong.
8: but my gf shes a good person. filial to parents, care, cook, encouraging me, worry about me when i suddenly never pick up calls or very late msg. i know she loves me alot.
9: im starting to get tired of everyday things. wake up > send her to school > work > go back to her home area with her frens chit-chat > then go back to her home to sleep around 12-2am sometimes. then continue everyday....
10: what should i do i have been thinking alot alot... is so good to be single again but yet when single it feel so lonely...wat should i do?
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Originally posted by Doom995:
i have a 1st time gf about 8months already now. let me tell you all about me and her daily life is like and i will make it as short as possible. sorry if got any spelling mistake and im lazy to care.
this past months, i was working 6days week job and shes studying in poly. almost everyday i accompany her to go school and then i go off for my work at 10am or 1pm. then after my work at 10pm, i go to her house nearby void deck to meet her and her frens for relax and chit-chat. after that i will go to her house to stay overnight. then thats it my daily life.
whats is on my mind now~
1: i have a home, i choose not to go home and accompany her. if i choose to go home im afraid that she will be sad and miss me so much. i did bring her home to let my parents see. 1 week 1 time only so i only go home only 1 time for a week.
2: i was having fun with her and her frens too while chating and playing poker cards.
3: im tired and i dun feel like everyday send her to school or meet her.
4: i have been thinking randomly to break up with her. And also while quarrel with each other i will also think of this.
5: and last saturday is the 2nd time i lie to her that i go watch movie and play lan with frens but actually i go clubbing wif my best fren that he told me to go. i know she dun like me to go so i lie.
6: so on that sat i quite intrested with a girl. i dance wif her intimately, kissing, hugging.
7: im confusing right now and really dunno wat way to choose or i should make a stop from doing things wrong.
8: but my gf shes a good person. filial to parents, care, cook, encouraging me, worry about me when i suddenly never pick up calls or very late msg. i know she loves me alot.
9: im starting to get tired of everyday things. wake up > send her to school > work > go back to her home area with her frens chit-chat > then go back to her home to sleep around 12-2am sometimes. then continue everyday....
10: what should i do i have been thinking alot alot... is so good to be single again but yet when single it feel so lonely...wat should i do?
It is best you let her go. Meaning break up with your gf.
You are bored with the "predictability" in this relationship.
Many people get bored after a while. So what you are going through is very common, as this is your first gf.
With predictability, comes stability. So you have to be able to give up the "stable" life you have now.
You must be wondering why other people doesn't mind the life you have now. It's because they've experienced "unpredictability" in their life before, that's why they are able to "cherish" the monotonous life which you so want to leave.
Leave this girl, let other guys who are ready for a stable relationship have her. It's unfair to her if you hold on the relationship for your own selfish reason.
You need to go out there and explore first. Get this "curiousity" out of your system.
Have fun. Regrets you will have a few, but without it you will not be able to cherish the good which will come later in your life.
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You should grow up and start realising that you can't have the best of both worlds.
Seems like you're not mature enough to be in a relationship
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This is what it feels like after honeymoon period. It will get worse.
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here's the long and short of it...
you're an asshole... stop tormenting and leading on this girl... let her go find someone who is worthy of her affections..
go figure out why you are an asshole until you can and do change for the better before inflicting yourself on another woman..
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TS should take a good look at the way you live. Does hTS honestly think he's in any position to be ready for a steady relationship?
You probably just want your poly gf as a "safe harbour" - a place to turn to for shelter when you are in an emotional mess as you go around trying to screw other girls.
If TS loves his poly gf, he should leave her to let her find happiness with someone who's much more compatible and deserving.
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..wake up... Why did you woo her in the first place?Age plays a role in relationship...love without boundaries is nonsense
Even if you all are of the same age, environment plays a serious factor. Don't ever date a girl who is from your school or your workplace.
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After she come out from poly. she's different status as you. You never study and cannot go poly correct?
Break out with the good girl la. let her concentrate on her studies she got a better future.
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u sir, are a jerk...had ur fun alr and now wanna ditch...do u see girls as objects? i bet u do
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Originally posted by Doom995:
i have a 1st time gf about 8months already now. let me tell you all about me and her daily life is like and i will make it as short as possible. sorry if got any spelling mistake and im lazy to care.
this past months, i was working 6days week job and shes studying in poly. almost everyday i accompany her to go school and then i go off for my work at 10am or 1pm. then after my work at 10pm, i go to her house nearby void deck to meet her and her frens for relax and chit-chat. after that i will go to her house to stay overnight. then thats it my daily life.
whats is on my mind now~
1: i have a home, i choose not to go home and accompany her. if i choose to go home im afraid that she will be sad and miss me so much. i did bring her home to let my parents see. 1 week 1 time only so i only go home only 1 time for a week.
2: i was having fun with her and her frens too while chating and playing poker cards.
3: im tired and i dun feel like everyday send her to school or meet her.
4: i have been thinking randomly to break up with her. And also while quarrel with each other i will also think of this.
5: and last saturday is the 2nd time i lie to her that i go watch movie and play lan with frens but actually i go clubbing wif my best fren that he told me to go. i know she dun like me to go so i lie.
6: so on that sat i quite intrested with a girl. i dance wif her intimately, kissing, hugging.
7: im confusing right now and really dunno wat way to choose or i should make a stop from doing things wrong.
8: but my gf shes a good person. filial to parents, care, cook, encouraging me, worry about me when i suddenly never pick up calls or very late msg. i know she loves me alot.
9: im starting to get tired of everyday things. wake up > send her to school > work > go back to her home area with her frens chit-chat > then go back to her home to sleep around 12-2am sometimes. then continue everyday....
10: what should i do i have been thinking alot alot... is so good to be single again but yet when single it feel so lonely...wat should i do?
you should not meet your gf everyday, that is where the main problem lies.even if you have miss universe as your girlfriend, if you meet her everyday, you will be bored of her very quickly. unless you are married then it is a different case. and we all need our own space and time to do other things in our life. life is more than just working and meeting gf/bf.
recommended to meet her for 2 or max 3 times a week for dating. not just meet to hang out. staying overnight at your gf place is also not good. stay in your parent's house. you can get back your freedom.
why are you sending her to school everyday? is she in a wheelchair? she does not know her way to school? just meet her for dating. the rest of the time, let her do her own stuff and do not disturb her.
why are you being intimate with other girls in the club? you are a cheater. since you do not love your girlfriend anymore, just break off with her. don't lie to her over and over again and cheat on her.
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i think he should put this in simple
" ok i fuck this gal already and now i tired of her. i wan a fresh body to fuck. after this i will find another 1 again."
as simple as that
you are just a motherfucker that all.
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i think you should leave ur gf. Let her find a better guy ya.
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Originally posted by Hwaimeng:
i think he should put this in simple
" ok i fuck this gal already and now i tired of her. i wan a fresh body to fuck. after this i will find another 1 again."
as simple as that
you are just a motherfucker that all.
ha ha ha..... every guy wants to fuck aroung la..... with no strings attached....... admit it TS.
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My point of view is different from the above. I think you should just hang on, until you can't anymore cause you might regret in the future. There are unlimited girls out there for you to dance, kiss, even have intercourse with. But to find the one that treats you really well.
Its kinda difficult. Just hang on like how i did. Of course you can fool around, who doesn't :p but just don't breakup with her, learn to tell what's mainstream and whats just for fun.
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the post above is shit.
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Originally posted by ChoCoChips:
the post above is shit.
Ha Ha ha................ totally agreed.
Worse than DIRT!!!
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Originally posted by KendrickD:
My point of view is different from the above. I think you should just hang on, until you can't anymore cause you might regret in the future. There are unlimited girls out there for you to dance, kiss, even have intercourse with. But to find the one that treats you really well.
Its kinda difficult. Just hang on like how i did. Of course you can fool around, who doesn't :p but just don't breakup with her, learn to tell what's mainstream and whats just for fun.
u are a disgrace to men -
Break up. End her agony. Of knowing a guy like you
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i already expected that alot of ppl shooting shit on me and im not fuck and throw!!!!...when im working or boring time, i keep thinking of her and our happy time. it really give me a smile or laugh. we are so funny together...but i dun feel like giving up this realationship and yet i still wan some of my own freedom. i really dunno wat kind if tired, isit im tired with her or my work and send her to school and stay overnight.
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You have formed a pattern for daily living, and you are afraid to break it.
First, go back to your home. Start your day from there and end there.
Go and meet your gf regularly, go out together often, do things together. Get your gf to follow you clubbing, not you follow her all the time.
Break the present pattern, and don't form another one.
You are living like a prisoner, and feeling like one too.
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isit how i feel this way as a prisoner? i never think of this...thanks i will ask and convince her.
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1) i agree with you that you are bored with life..but life is something about choices that we make, I cannot teach you what I have been through but love is something you got to learn and experience it yourself.
2) Lets change the story abit, your gf asked you to stop coming to her house, she lied to you that she is sleeping at home but in fact was out partying with guys and had one night stand with them..
How would you feel if one day you saw your gf having sex with another guy behind the bushes near your house? Before you say it never happens, I got a friend whose gf did just that and he thought she was a good gal. She got pregant with another guy's baby and got the guts to force my friend to accept the baby was his. I was so mad at her that I slap her for what she is doing my friend and shouted at her for being so heartless for treating my friend as a dumping ground. She was so scared that she ran away.
3) For first time relationship like yours is easier to stray cos you are not ready to settle down for one gal. Is tough so if you do not think you can just go on with your current life is best to let her go.
4) My suggest is this, take one month away from her no contact, no meeting I seriously mean totally nothing at all with her. This will test yourself if you truly in love her or is time to leave her. If after 1 month you cannot bear the heart pain and go back to her that means she meant something in your heart. If not you are ready to go.
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Originally posted by the Bear:
here's the long and short of it...
you're an asshole... stop tormenting and leading on this girl... let her go find someone who is worthy of her affections..
go figure out why you are an asshole until you can and do change for the better before inflicting yourself on another woman..
My sentiments exactly
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TS, let the poor gal go since you don't love her already.
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Originally posted by KendrickD:
My point of view is different from the above. I think you should just hang on, until you can't anymore cause you might regret in the future. There are unlimited girls out there for you to dance, kiss, even have intercourse with. But to find the one that treats you really well.
Its kinda difficult. Just hang on like how i did. Of course you can fool around, who doesn't :p but just don't breakup with her, learn to tell what's mainstream and whats just for fun.
Another selfish motherfucking bastard...........