Why i'm doing this?
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What you should do:
1. Stop staying over at her house.
2. Go back to your house.
3. Stop acc her to go work. Shes big enough to do it herself.
4. Go hangout with ur frends after work. No need to meet her every night after work.
5. Since u work 6 days per week, use that off day to hangout with her. For other nights, use it for friends/family/yourself. Or alternately, meet her.
Problems:
1. You said your afraid she will miss u dats why u chose not to go home? Thats only your thinking right? Or did she tie u up and ask u not to go? Is she a very possessive girl? Thats not very healthy either if it is true.
2. Meeting up every day is a big problem. Why? Cuz seeing her face every day will tend to get bored easily. It's like eating the same dish every day. I suggest not to meet up every day. Meet like max 3 times a week can already.
3. Go clubbing issue. Why must lie to her? Is she the homely type? or Insecure? Protective? Did you try to ask her along?
4. Friends issue. You seem to know her friends well, since yall meet up every day. On the other hand, does she know your friends well? I suppose not. Wanna try introducing your friends to her, maybe next time when go clubbing she will be more fang xin.
Blah blah blah, all in all, your life is TOO routine, and because you face her EVERY DAY, thats why got problems.
Still confuse over your feelings towards her? Try moving out and staying at your own house starting from next week, then see how. You need to break the routine first. No need to meet every day.... With today's technology, got webcam, phone, msn, etc. Although the physical thing isnt there la.
I think webcam is good but dont webcam every day cuz later kena same problem again. Hope this help.
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your gf is wife material. the girl you pick up from the club, that's gf material. lol. i think let the girl go if you think you can't do your part. her youth is important. if you hang on until she's old, harder to find bf, then even worse.
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hey she got poly diploma soon. she got future. she can have good man to be with her.
TS. admit it, you got no future. u already Fark her and ruined her bad enough. it's time to leave her and let good people have her.
You say you don't Fark and throw. but I ask you. if you don't fark and throw why you say you BORED and want to leave her? why u got hanky panky with another lady ?
I bet you cum in her almost time and your plan is to make her pregnant and dump her.
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if youre already accompanying your gf so much and you cant decide on whether to continue to stay in the relationship with her or leave her for another girl then i guess like some other forumite think, you are not ready for any relationship. maybe you can take some time to think @ the same time accompany your family members more and cherish your precious time with your family members the next time you commit to another relationship , i hope.