Lost feelings
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as the saying and song goes "Love is in the Air"
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since charlize is not here i shall say the following on his behalf.
"one cannot live on love and fresh air alone, really''
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A bear can live on salmon and love...
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Originally posted by Chris88110:
I'm not together with anyone actually. Just considering a relationship and evaluating what can go wrong. What I'm doing now is just taking my time and looking for advice on things I'm unsure of. What I'm unsure of now is, what will happen if I lose my feelings for the girl?
Well, if you lose your feelings for a girl but you have the commitment, you will be able to rekindle the flame. It'll be the responsibility of both the couple to make sure the flame is maintained all the time. This is called working it (the relationship) out!
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What sort of feelings? Excitement? Affection? Romance? Passion?
Imagine you are married for 30 years - do you think it is possible to still have 'feelings'?
My answer is yes - IF both are willing to make effort instead of taking each other for granted...the effort is called 'commitment'
BUT having said that - if neither side can 'maintain' a rship for 4 years paktor, perhaps you need to examine the reasons behind it. The loss of feelings are the 'result' of something not working out - not the reason for it.
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Originally posted by dangerboi:
love is a game; hate the game, not the players
nice one *hi-5*
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having a r/s is scary.
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Originally posted by LonelyApple:
having a r/s is scary.
Depends on how you and the other half handle the relationship...
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if one party already has no feelings for the other. it is best to break up, no point to carry on the suffering.
let them go find their happiness with someone else.
how to break up? just say "it will not work out between us. let's go our separate ways."
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When one is committed to love as opposed to a person - it makes a difference and that is whether it works or not no one comes away feeling ''lousy''.
Of course, it presupposes one is fulfilled within oneself before one can share and yet partake of another.
Love is not bad lah, it is the needs/expecations pretending to be love.
Love that transcends fear and reasons (to love) never diminishes oneself and the other.
When the reason is there to love, once that reason is fulfilled it the demise of the relationship or what-have-you. One is left with a hollow and empty shell of what can be a blissful journey!
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Love can't be lost...
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love is proclaimed more than given