My BF best Friend a She
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I'm trying to accept his Best Friend She. but then sometime is really hard to battle it gracefully just wondering how many woman out there can accept his BF or Husband have a SHE best friend
- They know each other since secondary school
- Meet each other every week without fail for dinner, he will go pick her up for dinner and send her home.
- he's protective over his BF she
- he say she have been there alway at his lowest point.
- and everyweek have to check my schedule and see how he's going to fix she for dinner.
- and of cos im sure that they are purely BF
Peng ..... Faintzzz
I have best friend too who's there for me all the time but we dont meet everyweek.
I don't mind opposite sex as best friend but the above senario a little hard to accept
What your view can you woman accept it gracefully
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If you are unable to accept this. Tell it to your BF. If he is mindful of your feelings, he will understand.
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obviously what u should do now is to get me as your 'best friend' to get back at ur boyfriend
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When he goes meet She for dinner.. you should go along too.
You are the GF, I'm sure She wouldn't mind.
Be extremely nice to She, and let her know how grateful you are to She for being there.
No need to make enemies because of your own jealousy.
She will know when to let go eventually.
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is she prettier than u?
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I cannot accept point 2 and 5. The rest of the points are generic.
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Cannot be together forever.
Same sex. Need to get out of this circle.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
When he goes meet She for dinner.. you should go along too.
You are the GF, I'm sure She wouldn't mind.
Be extremely nice to She, and let her know how grateful you are to She for being there.
No need to make enemies because of your own jealousy.
She will know when to let go eventually.
I think i dont wanna come btw them, we quarrel over her few times. but i decided to close one eye and let it be. though im feeling uncomfortable abt it
* when I'm attach to him ** the first few things he want me to know is about his best friend SHE this show that is improtant to him that his gf accept his bestie
* I learn that his ex- have prob accepting his besties too.
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When he goes to meet her, join him. Did u try doing that?
When u 3 meet up, dont pull a long face or sth. Act as normal. Be nice to her. Make her guilty and siam her own. wahaha.
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If I were you, I cannot accept. Its abit too much to take.
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Originally posted by Hello Kitty:
is she prettier than u?
This one very important.
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i think my best fwens' wives donch know i exist.
however, im a firm believer of purely platonic fwenship.
but, no matter how magnanimous u are or how much u say u trust him, it is still like a splinter in your finger
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The thing is who is calling the shots.
He or you or both.
I think ideally both of you should be calling the shots.
He is telling you to accept his terms.
OK, but can he accept the same terms on your side. Can he accept the fact if you have He for a BF?
Ask him to think carefully about it.
If you are given the take it or leave it option, then dump him, let him stay with She, and not let him eat his cake and keep it too.
The onus is on you to avoid permanent discomfort.
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Originally posted by trolol:
This one very important.
she is soso looking.... anyway they are friend way before me so i guess bo pian -
So what more ugly or preety. Aiya just tell him if you are mindful. -
Lolx
2 and 5 seem to be controlling each other like that
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Originally posted by FireIce:
i think my best fwens' wives donch know i exist.
however, im a firm believer of purely platonic fwenship.
but, no matter how magnanimous u are or how much u say u trust him, it is still like a splinter in your finger
thumb up for your comment -
if you love him... you got to trust him....
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Originally posted by Lorry`:
When he goes to meet her, join him. Did u try doing that?
When u 3 meet up, dont pull a long face or sth. Act as normal. Be nice to her. Make her guilty and siam her own. wahaha.
Never met her, at first he did wanted to set up a meetup when we are first attach but after one incident which we ended up a big quarel becos of SHE, i think he change his mindi did few weeks ago told him i have accepted that he got a bestie she and maybe one day we can meetup but he dont sound sure about it.
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if he is smart, he will not let u 2 meet up.
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I cannot accept such scenario.
why they not together as couple since they like each other so much?
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Originally posted by Bababe 83:
I'm trying to accept his Best Friend She. but then sometime is really hard to battle it gracefully just wondering how many woman out there can accept his BF or Husband have a SHE best friend
- They know each other since secondary school
- Meet each other every week without fail for dinner, he will go pick her up for dinner and send her home.
- he's protective over his BF she
- he say she have been there alway at his lowest point.
- and everyweek have to check my schedule and see how he's going to fix she for dinner.
- and of cos im sure that they are purely BF
Peng ..... Faintzzz
I have best friend too who's there for me all the time but we dont meet everyweek.
I don't mind opposite sex as best friend but the above senario a little hard to accept
What your view can you woman accept it gracefully
It's up to him who he want to go out with, none of your concern and business anyway.Likewise, it is also none of his concern and business who you want to go out with.
BF/GF are titles people place on each other so that they have an excuse to control, restrict and meddle with each other's lives.
If you love your BF/GF, set them free and allow them more freedom than they enjoyed before they were together with you.
This will help to give them the reverse psychological effects and they will want to spend time with you when they are not confident if you want to spend time with them or not.
This emotional uncertaincies will either bring the couple closer than any other couples, or either help the couple to find someone more suitable for themselves.
Who you chose to spend your time with, actually matters. Don't put all your eggs into a basket ... ah choo! Bastard.
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You and I have the same problem.just that.Mine is girlfriend.zz
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Originally posted by Kokykok1988:
You and I have the same problem.just that.Mine is girlfriend.zz
More jia lat. I cant take it myself. Love is possessive... -
True is suck alot man.u see she go out with her best friend which is a h\guy who like her.alot of guy like her.cnt tahan.