Why he suddenly change?
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Hi again guys ^^
Last few weeks, i started to develop a feeling on this guy but he has a girlfriend. I know this is so wrong but hey, if that person is in your eyes, u still like him whether he's having a relationship or not true? anyway, yes i started to like REALLY like this guy but his girlfriend is one of my friends too.
ok here where the problem started, Previously these few days we started to get the talking and one thing let to another we joke around then into deep stuff and such. Well, we were all drunk that night so ya its normal right? btw his girlfriend who is my friend too suspect this and she giving me the glare and the "whatever" look. ok i really dont want her to hate me so i try to avoid her boyfriend as long as i can till we can be water under the bridge type.
As times goes by, i think i finally stop having this deep feelings on him and i feel great. And i thought all is ok but then i heard the news that he and his girlfriend have broke up. OMG! I really dont know what to do because i got this strong feeling that this has me written all over it which is true later on when he started sms me and stuff then he wants me and him together as a relationship. I seriously trapped and didnt know what to answer so i ignore his sms. Then he called so i have to pick up and we talk and he said that he loves me. omg, he knows i like him too but now the feeling is gone. But now the feelings of liking him beginning to rush back to me since he said that. I said give me a few days to think about it then i answer him.
And the really bad news now is my friend who is his ex, now she hates me. And i think its because of me and him having feelings to each other but how she know? i mean like is that the reason of the whole break up thing?
omg u guys have to give me advices. I indeed need help here. I dont want to lose my friend i dont want her to hate me but now i started to have feelings for him who is my friends ex. Please what should i do?
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Stop thinking about guys and go be a nun
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Originally posted by Just_do_it_lah:
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U had already broken the golden rule of friendship - TRUST.
Never fall in love with your friend's bf.... ( i supposed you have heard many many times from whoever b4 ).... and yet you are caught in this situation.
U still think your friend will forgive you ?.... ( if you really cares for her feelings, you shouldn't have done it at the 1st place... don't blame it on the alcohol, you shouldn't have went out with him at the 1st place )....
But life goes on...
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after getting drunk.... f**ked with friend's boyfriend is normal.... ?
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i can oni say, u sent the wrong signals again.
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Just_do_it_lah is right.
If you go on a relationship with this guy. Would your friends trust you in future? Would you trust this guy with his female friends/colleagues/customers in future?
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Originally posted by ChoCoChips:
i can oni say, u sent the wrong signals again.
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Originally posted by Simple~Gal:
Hi again guys ^^
Last few weeks, i started to develop a feeling on this guy but he has a girlfriend. I know this is so wrong but hey, if that person is in your eyes, u still like him whether he's having a relationship or not true? anyway, yes i started to like REALLY like this guy but his girlfriend is one of my friends too.
ok here where the problem started, Previously these few days we started to get the talking and one thing let to another we joke around then into deep stuff and such. Well, we were all drunk that night so ya its normal right? btw his girlfriend who is my friend too suspect this and she giving me the glare and the "whatever" look. ok i really dont want her to hate me so i try to avoid her boyfriend as long as i can till we can be water under the bridge type.
As times goes by, i think i finally stop having this deep feelings on him and i feel great. And i thought all is ok but then i heard the news that he and his girlfriend have broke up. OMG! I really dont know what to do because i got this strong feeling that this has me written all over it which is true later on when he started sms me and stuff then he wants me and him together as a relationship. I seriously trapped and didnt know what to answer so i ignore his sms. Then he called so i have to pick up and we talk and he said that he loves me. omg, he knows i like him too but now the feeling is gone. But now the feelings of liking him beginning to rush back to me since he said that. I said give me a few days to think about it then i answer him.
And the really bad news now is my friend who is his ex, now she hates me. And i think its because of me and him having feelings to each other but how she know? i mean like is that the reason of the whole break up thing?
omg u guys have to give me advices. I indeed need help here. I dont want to lose my friend i dont want her to hate me but now i started to have feelings for him who is my friends ex. Please what should i do?
If he can break up with his gf because of you...what makes you think he won't do the same in the future...
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Don't be daft.
When he is with his gf, where is your place with him.
After he broke up with his gf, he says he loves you.
and you go OMG and is smitten by him.
Think.
What if he loves his ex-gf and you are the cause of the break up. He'll be angry with you. Remember you flirted with him, and then abandoned him.
He is now gf-less, and confess he loves you. You want to fall for it.
At best, you are the replacement.
At worst, he is out to hurt you back.
Beware.
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After he fucks you, he will leave you. Rest assure.
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in future... if your bf beds with your gf... (when drunk).. that's PREFECTLY NORMAL to you right ??
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corrrect!
if he can dump his gf for u
he can dump u for the next girl.
dun go be with him
let him f himself!
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Originally posted by gunner77:
After he fucks you, he will leave you. Rest assure.
the topic said... already fuck-ed...may fuck again in the near future....
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In the end, u could have triple losses:
- That friendship of yours
- The trust
- And EVERYTHING with that good friendNot to scare you, but what mancha said has a point.
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Originally posted by Just_do_it_lah:
the topic said... already fuck-ed...may fuck again in the near future....
no what. the story line is that the boy have not taste the new pussy yet. -
FIrst question. He likes male syrup ??
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another we joke around then into deep stuff and such. Well, we were all drunk that night so ya its normal right?
gunnie...
she never mentioned sex... but the words have indicated it that they had done it for SINGAPORE.... lol.
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Normal for the guys !!
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i miss out of this part.
good inference skill.
spice up the imagination abit.
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Originally posted by TTFU:
FIrst question. He likes male syrup ??
Yep Yep... Male Syrup very sweet ? -
Originally posted by gunner77:
i miss out of this part.
good inference skill.
spice up the imagination abit.
@ this hour... most of our brains are zzz already....
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btw... how deep is the deep stuff ?
