he say i am a begger
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Originally posted by parn:
Keep your jokes light and don't get yourself involved inside your own jokes, especially when you're with your family members.Friends and other blah blahs outside don't need to take you seriously and they aren't really obliged to care and provide real concern for you.
Family are different, they may be the nastiest aliens you were forced to live with since you were born, but they are always there for you....despite using their own unique ways to show care and concern and love for you.
As a living breathing family member inside your family, YOU MUST ALSO SHOW CARE AND CONCERN FOR THEM. Doesn't means people must always show concern to you one-sidedly. Unless you tell me you're not capable of showing real genuine concern for your family members, then I will ask you to start learning to do that while you still can and while they are still around you.
What if one day they are not around? Is that what you want? I will give you the benefit of the doubt if you can tell me you can take care of your home by yourself.
I know the difficulties faced when a single girl need to live alone.
I think the brother over-reacted.
True that family should help each other when in need.
However, You shouldn't condone family members abusing each other in the name of "family".
His/her brother needs anger management.
Domestic violence/abuse dont just happen between husband and wife.
Sibling abuse is a huge problem in our society too. The abuser becomes someone else's abusive spouse or abusive parent, and the vicious cycle continues.
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i am not toking abt many zeros and its not a big fark, but imagine when i am financially loose my family are extra nice..but when i am in need...their reaction was who the fark are u..u know?and its not i cant stand it..if outsider were to scold me a begger maybe i can turn a deaf ear or f them upside down..but my family member?i cant insult him either coz either my parent side him to the max or i agitate him and i report to hospital or king of hell..it happen so often so i think my family is damn fucked up...ignore him?i did..which is why i snapped when he keeps insulting me..i got final exam the next day yet have to listen to his nonsense? worst still when my mum says to forget it and help him if he is in need 1 day...rubbish..i still wan him to have a taste of being call a begger one day...