my gf is fat so what?
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A few days ago, i was out with my camp mates dinner gathering. One of my sissy camp mates just show my gf and i pictures for everyone to laught. I know what they are laughing at. Because my gf is quite fat. I can't stand that humiliation towards my gf...i was so fucking angry on that time till now. I already show my fucking attitude to all of them after they laught. But even they say sorry,pai seh and what ever, but i don't think i will meet them anymore...this is not the first time already if this happen again i think i will fucking puch them hit them one by one..i really endure very long and i can't take it anymore. Come on tell me what to do kick all of their ass?
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if they dont learn how to respect ur gf,
den make them.
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Yes one day i will wait for them to laught and hit them up and i don't care i will get beaten or what ever.
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how come your gf is fat???
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She much more fat last time long Ago...she try her best on diet already but her weight just can't get down...last time she's use to eat and vomit out the food because she thinks she's fat and her weight is rapidly drop. Her good friends still force her to eat on that incident last time before we in a Relationship...
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Sorry to hear that.
Anyway, since your friend laugh at your gf for being fat, dont friend with them lah.
Dont go out with them lah.
Stick with your gf and built on your relationship further.
Afterall, you dont need to see your friend's face to earn a living.
Hack care them!
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please lar. young people are known to be insensitive. they'll outgrow it. if you dont mind your girlfriend is fat why bother what they do? reacting only make them want to laugh more.
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Originally posted by dragg:
please lar.
young people are known to be insensitive. they’ll outgrow it.
if you dont mind your girlfriend is fat why bother what they do? reacting only make them want to laugh more.
Who knows, one day TS get married and have kids with nice house to live in and you friend who laugh at you still single and struggle to find a soul mate...then you laugh at them. -
Awww so sweet~
My hubby would just say "So? but I like!"
Anyway its ur gf, not their gf :D You don't need to justify to shallow people one!
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proud of you being proud of your gf (Y)
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even if your camp mates don't laugh at ur gf, what's going to stop others from doing the same?
Since you chose a gf of a bigger size, then accept it. Sometimes friends will laugh here and there but it may not be anything malicious. If you can't accept it, then maybe u are ashamed of your gf also. Then why choose her in the first place? lol
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Originally posted by dragg:
please lar.
1) young people are known to be insensitive. they’ll outgrow it.
2) if you dont mind your girlfriend is fat why bother what they do? reacting only make them want to laugh more.
No. 1 fully agree +1No. 2 fully disagree... I think gf is a private decision... and commenting about people's gf infront of them is to a lesser extent similar to commenting about people's mom. Some peeps will giv u an instant Finishing Move for doing that lol. The next time he does that comment about his mom and if he gets angry then tell him to stop commenting about your gf she's your family too hehe.
Kinder Gards
Genie
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I'm so glad that you know how to protect your gf.
Just tell them firmly that they should know how to show basic respect. Some of my friends, or I can say a handful of guys are quite childish in such a sense. They would laugh very obviously and snicker at people who are fat, not very average looking people, which I think is very disrespectful. On the other hand, since they apologise, be gracious and accept it. Remind them that such remarks are uncalled for. If they do commit such acts again, just leave them. You would be much better off with mature people who can see beyond physical flaws.
All the best. My gf also got some physical flaws, but I love them all and demand that others respect her too.
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Originally posted by Phantomnite:
I'm so glad that you know how to protect your gf.
Just tell them firmly that they should know how to show basic respect. Some of my friends, or I can say a handful of guys are quite childish in such a sense. They would laugh very obviously and snicker at people who are fat, not very average looking people, which I think is very disrespectful. On the other hand, since they apologise, be gracious and accept it. Remind them that such remarks are uncalled for. If they do commit such acts again, just leave them. You would be much better off with mature people who can see beyond physical flaws.
All the best. My gf also got some physical flaws, but I love them all and demand that others respect her too.
+1... simply put.... basic courtesy....1st world country should be civilised right?
Kinder Gards
Genie
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Why you care?
Next time when you marry all your fren will be old man single spinster. Then you can laugh back at them and say they are still 40 year old virgin.
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Originally posted by Doom995:
A few days ago, i was out with my camp mates dinner gathering. One of my sissy camp mates just show my gf and i pictures for everyone to laught. I know what they are laughing at. Because my gf is quite fat. I can’t stand that humiliation towards my gf…i was so fucking angry on that time till now. I already show my fucking attitude to all of them after they laught. But even they say sorry,pai seh and what ever, but i don’t think i will meet them anymore…this is not the first time already if this happen again i think i will fucking puch them hit them one by one..i really endure very long and i can’t take it anymore. Come on tell me what to do kick all of their ass?
Your camp mates quite immature.
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Good for you!
At least you are not shallow and love her for who she is.
Just ignore the immature brats. Tell them off and don’t react to their teasing because end of the day it’s what they will find fun to do
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Originally posted by Vote PAP OUT to Save SG:
Your camp mates quite immature.
Army is the place where boys turn to men mah.
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Originally posted by Doom995:
A few days ago, i was out with my camp mates dinner gathering. One of my sissy camp mates just show my gf and i pictures for everyone to laught. I know what they are laughing at. Because my gf is quite fat. I can’t stand that humiliation towards my gf…i was so fucking angry on that time till now. I already show my fucking attitude to all of them after they laught. But even they say sorry,pai seh and what ever, but i don’t think i will meet them anymore…this is not the first time already if this happen again i think i will fucking puch them hit them one by one..i really endure very long and i can’t take it anymore. Come on tell me what to do kick all of their ass?
Doom, you should pity your friends who are so immature.
These are people who are "toxic personality". No good will come from hanging around people like them.
They are empty inside, so they try to derive some kind of "happiness" by putting down others. Yet they will gain nothing but have lost a friend.
They make fun of your gf because they do not know what it's like to be in love and to care for someone. So they do not know the hurt they cause.
A true friend do not hurt another friend.
True friends are those who are happy because you found happiness.
Stay away from these few, go find others more deserving of your company.
No love lost here.
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Oh yea TS, don't forget empty vessels makes the most noise.
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Wah TS...ur gf so lucky to have you
Lol and ya just ignore the assholes la...no need to care about people who don't know how to respect others and themselves.
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attitude is very important. physiques secondary. but if the attitude bad then the physiques will amplify the disgust
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TS,
We are behind you 100%.......
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If you do love her, it doesn't matter if she's blind, she's ugly or if she has body odour. She's fortunate to have a bf like you.
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TS..just dont care about your campmates remarks.
It is your life, your destiny and your own gf, NOT THEIRS.
You dont owe your campmates a living, a gf or a destiny.
And at the end of the day...campmates are only campmates.
Campmates will not be with you forever.
You gf will be your soulmate and life time partners.
Remember that.