married, 2 kids, flat, in-laws??????
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hey fellow singaporean, thank for reading my post. i have this story to share with all of you which happen to me recently. Please give me a fair comment.
Im married with 2 kid and due to my age i cant apply for a flat 3 Yrs ago. When now i meet up the age limit, i try my very best to move out from my in law hs as she is selling away her house. I gg to every dept in sigapore to ask for help but no one willing to help. I even went to the MP they also don help. Why should i get this kind of tratment?
(edited to make it easier for people to read)
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paiseh, i not bery educated.
i have a problem understanding what u trying to say. -
Must get wide screen monitor.
Married, with two kids, why got age problem in buying flat?'
HDB die die family oriented. As long as married, qualified.
Unless money no enough.
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I think a divorcee case...
Usually people move back to their parents home.
1 person cant get a flat and have to go for resale flat...
And probably she's now 35 and can apply for a new normal HDB flat... but the price is too high..
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TS, u need to tell us more....so many hidden secrets.
As what Jun said, a divorce case? Or what?
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I think TS just reached 21 yrs of age. I think he was previously rejected because he was underage, even though he's married.
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A case of no money to buy hdb flat? If TS reach 21...after ns...where got money to buy?
Probably so.
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Stressout,
Your in laws selling their flat ? Then where are they going to stay after the sale ? Can you move in with them in their new home ?
Have you found a job yet ? If you have no income then how are you going to afford to buy one or even rent a HDB ?
The problem is you are never married, so you can't qualify for the single widowed/divorced category.
Can your own family take you in ?
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double posting.
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Hi StressOut....tell us more what really happen to you now.
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i think you can apply for a flat together with your children's name. but need to talk to HDB so long u r not seperated with your wife.
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i am stressed_out whenever its money issue. i have my own problems, and they include shortages of money. so if yours eventually after blah blah leads to money. sorry bro cool story. i have my own money problem too. maybe you can borrow me some?
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This is her previous thread.
http://www.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/385139
She is a young unwed mother, who just turned 21 yo.
Not much education, so her job prospect is very low.
She is living with her "inlaws" (technically they are not really her in-laws because she not legally married, unless the father of her child changed his mind and signed the papers since her last post)
Having no where to go, she seeks help with the authority.
But since HDB sale and rental says NO to single mothers, she is pretty much stuck to this rut of homelessness.
In Singapore, single motherhood is only for those who can afford a private property you see.
For those young girls out there, please say no to unprotected sex unless you can afford the consequences.
And please choose your man wisely.
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Seem like the situation is pretty messy.
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whatever it is i thnk having money can solve or can improve the situation a little.
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Sorry to have cause a stir here. OK. im just got married snd just turn 21 this yrs. One of u is right tat i cannot apply a flat last time due to underage. And u all are right again if my in law sell away this hs mean me, My husband and my gal will be homeless. i go to hdb they told me i must go thur SOP to apply flat but rental dept take me a yrs plus and BTO wil tk me 3 yrs. I go to comcare they told me to slp at vold deck or beach b4 they can help.
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I go to family svc centre they only help me write letter to hdb. And look for rm to rent. Dear fellow sporean, I have try all my mean to look for a roof but to rent a common rm is nt possible as tat a total of 4 of us. Some owner either put down the phone or rise the rent amt to 1000+ for a single room. Buy from open market so expensive need hard cash 10 to 20 thousnd.
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husband how old?
working?
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go back to your own parents house la.
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Stress out
Do you have money to rent ROOM.....
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Originally posted by Stress_out:
I go to family svc centre they only help me write letter to hdb. And look for rm to rent. Dear fellow sporean, I have try all my mean to look for a roof but to rent a common rm is nt possible as tat a total of 4 of us. Some owner either put down the phone or rise the rent amt to 1000+ for a single room. Buy from open market so expensive need hard cash 10 to 20 thousnd.
u cannot go to HDB to rent room you must go to private apartment......along Geylang there are old apartment they rent out room. U can temporary find a place. Some apartment they allow u to cook....
but u might have to share with foreign worker.
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my husband wking bring hm ard 1200 a mth. my husband ard 20 gg to 30
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Go to MP oso useless. I go until 2 MP but none can help. The worst part is my address now is worker party ard so PAP MP wont see me. In the end i use a frenz ic to register myself to see the 2nd MP. The MP promise to get a HDB officer to interview me but turn out to be the same as the first MP i go. Recieve a letter frm hdb say a lot of rubbish then say i cannot apply.
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The worst part is HDB only gt 1 officer. Whatever i do she will be the one replying to the mail. And for so long she still don understand im gg homeless.