Sad sad story

• Iceangel

  15 Apr 03, 18:47

  
  
  thanks! hee a golden rulez....gurls should not reveal their age on the forum.....but I make an exception lar....i turned 24 about 2 months ago! not tat old yet hor?
• Yunhaier

  16 Apr 03, 02:52

  Originally posted by [ X ] & [ L ]:

  Hm.. nice owrks... may i ask how old are you?
  

  *Ahem ahem*
  
  Off topic!
• SunRisE

  16 Apr 03, 03:06

  Originally posted by Yunhaier:

  *Ahem ahem*
  
  Off topic!

  hahahaa.. kpo! noone ask you..
• sadsadguy

  16 Apr 03, 11:11

  Haben done anything to cause any distrust ... she just a paranoid person ... Anyway, I had a talk with her and will try to work things out ...
  
  I really feel that its really difficult to stay away from a person just like that. Luckily (or maybe otherwise) the other gal not work in my office already cos its only a temp job ... ... It could be a one-sided feeling from me but I guess I would not be able to know anymore ... Feel like calling or SMSing her, but I can't ... difficult to control later, I will died again. Saw her in ICQ, the heart will also go bump bump ... darn, time to uninstall my ICQ.
• [ X ] & [ L ]

  16 Apr 03, 11:39

  Originally posted by Iceangel:

  
  
  thanks! hee a golden rulez....gurls should not reveal their age on the forum.....but I make an exception lar....i turned 24 about 2 months ago! not tat old yet hor?

  24 liao r....
  
  good good... hope everythings is fine for you my lady....
• sadsadguy

  17 Apr 03, 10:12

  Originally posted by Iceangel:

  
  
  just wondering....since you guys are not married (rite?), shouldn't there be no obligation?
  
  U already know what to do so do it. I feel that if u can fall in love wif sumone else, or even have special feelings for sumone else, tat means ur love wif ur current gf is not that strong or perhaps not there anymore. Like a case of "being" wif someone out of habit, out of familarity. U have to ask urself, do u love her enough to endure her bad points. No one is ideal. Really u should tok to her about ur feelings about her character. Y she dun trust u? have u done something before or lie to her before....if not, ask her wat is her basis for being paranoid?
  
  However, if u feel breaking up is a better solution or period to cool off would be better, both of u should be prepared to be firm about it. I realli admire ur respect for the other gal in ur office though. Good thing u're not those to play wif her feelings.....
  
  take care & I believe u will make the wise choice!

  Sometimes in life, you can't just go and do what you like ... just like you can't just go and like someone else in my case ... There's a lot of things beneath the surface, which can't be easy explained.
  
  Anyway, please don't use the term "play wif her feelings". Please respect that the feeling I had for her is genuine.
  
  I guess I had the idea what to do now, and maybe I will post again when things are clear. Thanks guys and gals.