My Girlfriend is not a virgin how?
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its not that im trying to be selfish but when i think of it it sucks.. how to imagine that your loved used to sleep with someone-else and him all over her? how?
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it is common nowadays that the girls hav broken their hymens...
wat is more impt is the love for her, physical things should be secondary.
She could hav loved her ex veri much and they have agreed to do it, willingly b4.
But now she is with u....luv her for wat she is, not wat u want her to be
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Professor sgboy2004 -
If you love someone, it doesn't matter if she is a virgin or not. Unless you wanna be that guy who is aspiring the first to break her virginity only to dump her sooner or later.
Lets put it this way, you have like/love a particular brand of jeans and you have searched the high seas for it and only to find it in a 2nd hand shop. Do you still consider whether the jeans have been used or not? Unless you have too much to offer and immediately dispose it after using it.
Same goes for your girl. Ask yourself whether the feelings you have for her is indeed genuine or not? Regardless of your thinking, treat girls like what you treat ur life as.
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Yea well,
would you have sex with her if she was a virgin
then would you have dump her 1 day
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Virgin so impt meh?
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Originally posted by m@rk:its not that im trying to be selfish but when i think of it it sucks.. how to imagine that your loved used to sleep with someone-else and him all over her? how?
What if you don't know she's not a virgin???
So I presume knowledge is a barrier to you now. -
u r a loser if u leave her cos of that.u might not be e first but u can be e last,ain't that enuff?
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chasity is impt... but it is not everything... in a relationship.. it is the feelings that really counts...Originally posted by evererin:Virgin so impt meh? -
Hard to say I don't totally mind as well... but if I really love her deep enough, I wouldn't care whether she is or not. But I will definitely prefer not knowing, or try harder not to even find out.
Aiya... you love her, she loves you, good enough isn't it. Why dig up the past? -
hi...u are back...how's your forum?Originally posted by fengshui-123:If you mind now, you better don't continue the relationship, as simple as that, don't need to ask so much la.
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Baby sgboy2004 -
i understand that it is not that impt. but it is very bothering to me.. w=always when im not witrh her and when im all alone by myself i would think abt the happy times that we are together.. then suddenly a disturbing image of her having sex with her ex. it spoils the whole thing.. its very taxing and it drains me out.. i need to voice this out... i love my girlfriend and there is a 90 percent chance of me marrying her.. but how do i handle all those thoughts?
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wei the most impt thing===r u a virgin urself?if ur not then dun kao bei hahaha!
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did she tell u she wasn a virgin? or did u ask? if u did ask.. then u should just go kill urselfOriginally posted by m@rk:its not that im trying to be selfish but when i think of it it sucks.. how to imagine that your loved used to sleep with someone-else and him all over her? how? 
why mind her not being a virgin? if she told u.. that means she's being true to you!! how can u say things like that!! 
think bout her feelings.. how would u feel if ur gf tells u that "i don like the fact that u are not a virgin?" -
It doesn't really matter if she is a virgin or not. Because that is something she did in the past while she was with someone else. If it is the present and she being with you slept with someone else, If it were me I would definitely feel disgusted.
If u understand what i Mean -
yup!i totally agree wif u wor!Originally posted by puppylove:did she tell u she wasn a virgin? or did u ask? if u did ask.. then u should just go kill urself why mind her not being a virgin? if she told u.. that means she's being true to you!! how can u say things like that!! think bout her feelings.. how would u feel if ur gf tells u that "i don like the fact that u are not a virgin?"
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WEll nowadays all now V lioa..
but this way mean better sex..... hee lolx..
Why not right GUYS....!!!! -
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Originally posted by puppylove:
did she tell u she wasn a virgin? or did u ask? if u did ask.. then u should just go kill urself why mind her not being a virgin? if she told u.. that means she's being true to you!! how can u say things like that!! think bout her feelings.. how would u feel if ur gf tells u that "i don like the fact that u are not a virgin?"
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abt half a yr ago she told me abt this.. then i was quite affected.. cos she was my first girl friend.. -
i agreeOriginally posted by sgboy2004:it is common nowadays that the girls hav broken their hymens...
wat is more impt is the love for her, physical things should be secondary.
She could hav loved her ex veri much and they have agreed to do it, willingly b4.
But now she is with u....luv her for wat she is, not wat u want her to be
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Professor sgboy2004
u love ur gf
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It's hard to accept esp if she is your 1st Gf, something similiar happened to me some time back. But as hard to accept as it is if the relationship between you two is going great try your best to overcome it, not easy though but the best things dun always come smoothly. Good luck!
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not sure also.
but i believe that if u love her as much as u should, u should not mind her past one bit. No matter what her past. Cheers. -
helo there.. me also used to be in ur kinda situation. she is my first gf ever and i was her >10 one. she did tell me the truth that she is not virgin etc but i accepted it telling her that i love her and not her body. ITS THE FACT that i loved her but as time passed i could not stop thinking that she aint a virgin. She slept with 2 of her ex bf when they were together. felt really hurt and posted in this forum.Originally posted by m@rk:--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Originally posted by puppylove:
did she tell u she wasn a virgin? or did u ask? if u did ask.. then u should just go kill urself why mind her not being a virgin? if she told u.. that means she's being true to you!! how can u say things like that!! think bout her feelings.. how would u feel if ur gf tells u that "i don like the fact that u are not a virgin?"
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abt half a yr ago she told me abt this.. then i was quite affected.. cos she was my first girl friend..
Some kind people made me realise that my gf gave herself ONLY to the one she loved at that time and not to other people. if give to other ppl then thats called a bitch. anyway i have gotten over it for quite some time. beginning to accept the fact that its quite diff to find a virgin nowadays(not impossible). But even if there was a virgin out there who likes me or wat, i will definitely still be with my non-virgin gf and hope to marry her one day.
People make mistakes and everyone deserves a second chance. i am sure that she will treat u well even if she is not a virgin. she loves u thats why she told u the truth. i think that its not easy for GALS to tell a guy that they are not virgin?( i dunno... i m guy).
Please talk to ur gal about this.. about how u feel. i m sure that she will be more sensitive about this issue and will know how to handle it. TRUST ME FREN. i have been there and done that. in fact i am extremely happy being with her now. i know she loves me a lot and i too love her alot... hope u will love ur gf even after finding out the truth. remember everyone deserves a 2nd chance. wat more is she didnt anyhow go and sleep around.
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since u say that virgin is very important ..
go find your target outside some pri sch...
then wait ...
when the time has come ....
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the truth always hurt doesn't it.Originally posted by yahoo.com:helo there.. me also used to be in ur kinda situation. she is my first gf ever and i was her >10 one. she did tell me the truth that she is not virgin etc but i accepted it telling her that i love her and not her body. ITS THE FACT that i loved her but as time passed i could not stop thinking that she aint a virgin. She slept with 2 of her ex bf when they were together. felt really hurt and posted in this forum.
Some kind people made me realise that my gf gave herself ONLY to the one she loved at that time and not to other people. if give to other ppl then thats called a bitch. anyway i have gotten over it for quite some time. beginning to accept the fact that its quite diff to find a virgin nowadays(not impossible). But even if there was a virgin out there who likes me or wat, i will definitely still be with my non-virgin gf and hope to marry her one day.
People make mistakes and everyone deserves a second chance. i am sure that she will treat u well even if she is not a virgin. she loves u thats why she told u the truth. i think that its not easy for GALS to tell a guy that they are not virgin?( i dunno... i m guy).
Please talk to ur gal about this.. about how u feel. i m sure that she will be more sensitive about this issue and will know how to handle it. TRUST ME FREN. i have been there and done that. in fact i am extremely happy being with her now. i know she loves me a lot and i too love her alot... hope u will love ur gf even after finding out the truth. remember everyone deserves a 2nd chance. wat more is she didnt anyhow go and sleep around.
i understand your feelings brudder.
i used to wish my gf was a V when i met her.then i sort of straighten out my tots.
why do we guys alwaays think of V in a gal as a bottle of chilli sauce in a supermarket. when someelse before you open it liao then you dun buy... think this way of course it'll hurt.
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yah, it's normal to feel that way.. but you have to get over it since you want to marry her.Originally posted by m@rk:its not that im trying to be selfish but when i think of it it sucks.. how to imagine that your loved used to sleep with someone-else and him all over her? how? -
aiya, y mind so much. dat means she's a easy target. hv u tried her b4? if no, u r a loserOriginally posted by m@rk:its not that im trying to be selfish but when i think of it it sucks.. how to imagine that your loved used to sleep with someone-else and him all over her? how?