
Originally posted by m@rk:its not that im trying to be selfish but when i think of it it sucks.. how to imagine that your loved used to sleep with someone-else and him all over her? how?![]()
chasity is impt... but it is not everything... in a relationship.. it is the feelings that really counts...Originally posted by evererin:Virgin so impt meh?
hi...u are back...how's your forum?Originally posted by fengshui-123:If you mind now, you better don't continue the relationship, as simple as that, don't need to ask so much la.

did she tell u she wasn a virgin? or did u ask? if u did ask.. then u should just go kill urselfOriginally posted by m@rk:its not that im trying to be selfish but when i think of it it sucks.. how to imagine that your loved used to sleep with someone-else and him all over her? how?![]()
yup!i totally agree wif u wor!Originally posted by puppylove:did she tell u she wasn a virgin? or did u ask? if u did ask.. then u should just go kill urselfwhy mind her not being a virgin? if she told u.. that means she's being true to you!! how can u say things like that!!
think bout her feelings.. how would u feel if ur gf tells u that "i don like the fact that u are not a virgin?"
i agreeOriginally posted by sgboy2004:it is common nowadays that the girls hav broken their hymens...
wat is more impt is the love for her, physical things should be secondary.
She could hav loved her ex veri much and they have agreed to do it, willingly b4.
But now she is with u....luv her for wat she is, not wat u want her to be
_______________
Professor sgboy2004
helo there.. me also used to be in ur kinda situation. she is my first gf ever and i was her >10 one. she did tell me the truth that she is not virgin etc but i accepted it telling her that i love her and not her body. ITS THE FACT that i loved her but as time passed i could not stop thinking that she aint a virgin. She slept with 2 of her ex bf when they were together. felt really hurt and posted in this forum.Originally posted by m@rk:--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Originally posted by puppylove:
did she tell u she wasn a virgin? or did u ask? if u did ask.. then u should just go kill urself why mind her not being a virgin? if she told u.. that means she's being true to you!! how can u say things like that!! think bout her feelings.. how would u feel if ur gf tells u that "i don like the fact that u are not a virgin?"
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
abt half a yr ago she told me abt this.. then i was quite affected.. cos she was my first girl friend..
the truth always hurt doesn't it.Originally posted by yahoo.com:helo there.. me also used to be in ur kinda situation. she is my first gf ever and i was her >10 one. she did tell me the truth that she is not virgin etc but i accepted it telling her that i love her and not her body. ITS THE FACT that i loved her but as time passed i could not stop thinking that she aint a virgin. She slept with 2 of her ex bf when they were together. felt really hurt and posted in this forum.
Some kind people made me realise that my gf gave herself ONLY to the one she loved at that time and not to other people. if give to other ppl then thats called a bitch. anyway i have gotten over it for quite some time. beginning to accept the fact that its quite diff to find a virgin nowadays(not impossible). But even if there was a virgin out there who likes me or wat, i will definitely still be with my non-virgin gf and hope to marry her one day.
People make mistakes and everyone deserves a second chance. i am sure that she will treat u well even if she is not a virgin. she loves u thats why she told u the truth. i think that its not easy for GALS to tell a guy that they are not virgin?( i dunno... i m guy).
Please talk to ur gal about this.. about how u feel. i m sure that she will be more sensitive about this issue and will know how to handle it. TRUST ME FREN. i have been there and done that. in fact i am extremely happy being with her now. i know she loves me a lot and i too love her alot... hope u will love ur gf even after finding out the truth. remember everyone deserves a 2nd chance. wat more is she didnt anyhow go and sleep around.![]()
![]()
yah, it's normal to feel that way.. but you have to get over it since you want to marry her.Originally posted by m@rk:its not that im trying to be selfish but when i think of it it sucks.. how to imagine that your loved used to sleep with someone-else and him all over her? how?![]()
aiya, y mind so much. dat means she's a easy target. hv u tried her b4? if no, u r a loserOriginally posted by m@rk:its not that im trying to be selfish but when i think of it it sucks.. how to imagine that your loved used to sleep with someone-else and him all over her? how?![]()